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First time Dogging - what to expect?

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By *urFantasy21 OP   Couple
1 week ago

Shrewsbury

Considering dogging for the first time, not entirely sure what to expect. Any tips and advice

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By *ootyhunter69Man
1 week ago

bushey

If it's anything like our local spot, there's a place where the gay/bi lot go to get busy, and a place where the opportunists hang around for any couples to GB but may not be the same where you go

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By *urFantasy21 OP   Couple
1 week ago

Shrewsbury

So it's not all in car activity then?

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By *pen to offers!Man
1 week ago

Carlisle

It can vary immensely, so difficult to know what to expect. Sometimes it can turn into a full on cum fest.

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By *urFantasy21 OP   Couple
1 week ago

Shrewsbury

Is all the interior light on/off code genuine or just internet chat

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By *utualMan
1 week ago

Bawtry

I have no clue and I wish I could help you. There is also the flashing of headlights - but is this also internet only?

We need some help from some seasoned Doggers!

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By *ooliganMan
1 week ago

Preston

Always better to pre-arrange rather than turn up and hope for the best. As others have said, most spots are frequented by gay men as that seems to be the way the outdoor scene seems to have gone!

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By *larity2Couple
1 week ago

Enfield

Most spots are patrolled these days because of trouble-makers and dealers.

For our first time we chose and almost isolated wood late at night, more for a quick grope before going home. Wife panicked seeing shadows by the car but at least they were certainly genuine doggers trying to get a glimpse. Even so we have tried again !

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By *vening SongCouple
1 week ago

diss


"Most spots are patrolled these days because of trouble-makers and dealers.

For our first time we chose and almost isolated wood late at night, more for a quick grope before going home. Wife panicked seeing shadows by the car but at least they were certainly genuine doggers trying to get a glimpse. Even so we have tried again !"
that's the best way stay away from popular spots or chat to couples arrange to meet them there for outside fun?

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By *obs333Man
1 week ago

Durham

My advice is to park up, get going bit of play, anyone else parks up then flick your interior light on for a few seconds, if they get out and come over then you decide if you continue or not, if not they'll soon get the message. If you want them to just watch crack the window slightly, if you want them to join in open it and invite them, then it's up to you what happens next. But if you stay in the car then you stay in control, if you get out and go for it you risk it being a free for all, unless that's what you want.

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By *ayxWoman
1 week ago

brentwood

I've been dogging a few times with my FB and it's a lot of fun if you avoid the meerkats that don't have the manners or ability to talk to people but jump out and act odd lol 😂

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By *obs333Man
1 week ago

Durham


"I've been dogging a few times with my FB and it's a lot of fun if you avoid the meerkats that don't have the manners or ability to talk to people but jump out and act odd lol 😂"

I imagine they act odd because you haven't given a clear signal that that's what you're there for, have you any idea how it feels as a single man to just walk over to someones car and start talking in the hope that that's what you're there for and not got it completely wrong and it's just a random couple who's evening you've interrupted.

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By *ondiego85Man
1 week ago

nottingham

There was an old thread about dogging etiquette…and an old site (brother to this one, with the same owners) that was all about dogging

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By *G CoupleCouple
1 week ago

kent


"My advice is to park up, get going bit of play, anyone else parks up then flick your interior light on for a few seconds, if they get out and come over then you decide if you continue or not, if not they'll soon get the message. If you want them to just watch crack the window slightly, if you want them to join in open it and invite them, then it's up to you what happens next. But if you stay in the car then you stay in control, if you get out and go for it you risk it being a free for all, unless that's what you want. "

As soon as the interior light is on you risk being filmed....

Our advice always has and always will be the same.

Get out n talk to people

You'll soon get an idea of why they are there.

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By *G CoupleCouple
1 week ago

kent


"I've been dogging a few times with my FB and it's a lot of fun if you avoid the meerkats that don't have the manners or ability to talk to people but jump out and act odd lol 😂"

Glad someone else calls them meerkats

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By *pentoall555Man
1 week ago

benfleet

Nerves

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
1 week ago

Staffordshire

We had a go once and it was too wild west for us and we didn't feel terribly safe when we looked back at it, we thought "What were we thinking .LOL" fun to have go but not for us I'm afraid.

We've been out in the woods too amongst the ferns. I was bitten to deat by mozzies. My cock looked like the elephant mans's after so again not terribly succesful but erotic at the time.

I can see the attraction though as a male to get some action.

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By *obs333Man
1 week ago

Durham


"My advice is to park up, get going bit of play, anyone else parks up then flick your interior light on for a few seconds, if they get out and come over then you decide if you continue or not, if not they'll soon get the message. If you want them to just watch crack the window slightly, if you want them to join in open it and invite them, then it's up to you what happens next. But if you stay in the car then you stay in control, if you get out and go for it you risk it being a free for all, unless that's what you want.

As soon as the interior light is on you risk being filmed....

Our advice always has and always will be the same.

Get out n talk to people

You'll soon get an idea of why they are there. "

I didn't mean leave it on, just to let people know what you're there for. As for being filmed I've never seen that happen and I've been doing it for years.

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By *G CoupleCouple
1 week ago

kent


"My advice is to park up, get going bit of play, anyone else parks up then flick your interior light on for a few seconds, if they get out and come over then you decide if you continue or not, if not they'll soon get the message. If you want them to just watch crack the window slightly, if you want them to join in open it and invite them, then it's up to you what happens next. But if you stay in the car then you stay in control, if you get out and go for it you risk it being a free for all, unless that's what you want.

As soon as the interior light is on you risk being filmed....

Our advice always has and always will be the same.

Get out n talk to people

You'll soon get an idea of why they are there.

I didn't mean leave it on, just to let people know what you're there for. As for being filmed I've never seen that happen and I've been doing it for years. "

Have seen it loads. Plus it's pretty much all over social media

Gotta be carefully out there these days.

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By *obs333Man
1 week ago

Durham


"My advice is to park up, get going bit of play, anyone else parks up then flick your interior light on for a few seconds, if they get out and come over then you decide if you continue or not, if not they'll soon get the message. If you want them to just watch crack the window slightly, if you want them to join in open it and invite them, then it's up to you what happens next. But if you stay in the car then you stay in control, if you get out and go for it you risk it being a free for all, unless that's what you want.

As soon as the interior light is on you risk being filmed....

Our advice always has and always will be the same.

Get out n talk to people

You'll soon get an idea of why they are there.

I didn't mean leave it on, just to let people know what you're there for. As for being filmed I've never seen that happen and I've been doing it for years.

Have seen it loads. Plus it's pretty much all over social media

Gotta be carefully out there these days. "

I've literally never seen or heard of it on social media. Don't think it happens up here

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By *eparated_galWoman
1 week ago

Salford

Make sure you are sure what you want to do, wether you want to just be watched or guys join in, make sure they know how far you want to go

Park up, put light on, if guys are about they will come up to you, I sometimes get out and walk about, and my tip is take spare knickers as they tend to go missing lol

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By *G CoupleCouple
1 week ago

kent

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1380973

A lot of his followers started up in various areas of the UK. Setting up meets online and exposing them in person. A real good reason not to arrange meets with someone you don't know

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By *asygoingcouple1000Couple
1 week ago

manchester

Put a status up and watch the messages roll in. Send location to who tickles your fancy. Works well.

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By *oxy jWoman
1 week ago

somerset

alot of dogging spots are also gay cottaging spots so you find alot of guys play all ways ..ie fucking guys bare and 10 mins later fucking a couples wife bare... also its nothing like it was 20 or 30 years ago theres alot of desperate entitled guys who dont understand no and you cant trust anyone things like trying to take condom off or filming you with phone ..so many pitfall now.. not saying its all bad but here local its bad

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By *IERCEDCOCK71Man
1 week ago

BASINGSTOKE

def interior on off light a good signal to join whoever's in the car, as i went to a spot in surrey according to the net was a doggin spot and was another car there and after a cpl of mins they flashed the interior light on and off was a couple in the car and she was sucking him off and I got to fuck her doggie while she carried on sucking him off

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By *icolerobbieCouple
1 week ago

walsall


"We had a go once and it was too wild west for us and we didn't feel terribly safe when we looked back at it, we thought "What were we thinking .LOL" fun to have go but not for us I'm afraid.

We've been out in the woods too amongst the ferns. I was bitten to deat by mozzies. My cock looked like the elephant mans's after so again not terribly succesful but erotic at the time.

I can see the attraction though as a male to get some action."

I’m sure we met you both years ago for an outdoor adventure! If I’m correct, you drew us a map to find the spot!

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By *oxy jWoman
1 week ago

somerset


"My advice is to park up, get going bit of play, anyone else parks up then flick your interior light on for a few seconds, if they get out and come over then you decide if you continue or not, if not they'll soon get the message. If you want them to just watch crack the window slightly, if you want them to join in open it and invite them, then it's up to you what happens next. But if you stay in the car then you stay in control, if you get out and go for it you risk it being a free for all, unless that's what you want. "

risk being a free for all ??? well thats r*pe and sexual ass*llt ... the only rules in dogging are your own all this lights interior lights low beam high beam break lights all rubbish and always was rubbish hust because its dogging dont mean theres no choice even if they get out of the car if a guy touches me without consent my fingers are going in his eyes that if hubs dont get to him first ...

as i said dogging today is full of desperate and entitled men not all but makes it harder to find the right guys

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By *obs333Man
1 week ago

Durham


"My advice is to park up, get going bit of play, anyone else parks up then flick your interior light on for a few seconds, if they get out and come over then you decide if you continue or not, if not they'll soon get the message. If you want them to just watch crack the window slightly, if you want them to join in open it and invite them, then it's up to you what happens next. But if you stay in the car then you stay in control, if you get out and go for it you risk it being a free for all, unless that's what you want.

risk being a free for all ??? well thats r*pe and sexual ass*llt ... the only rules in dogging are your own all this lights interior lights low beam high beam break lights all rubbish and always was rubbish hust because its dogging dont mean theres no choice even if they get out of the car if a guy touches me without consent my fingers are going in his eyes that if hubs dont get to him first ...

as i said dogging today is full of desperate and entitled men not all but makes it harder to find the right guys"

Not what I meant when I said free for all, probably a bad choice of words as everyone I've ever come across has always respected boundaries, just meant you'll have every one coming over for a look, rather than just who you want to. Staying in the car makes that easier if you're new to it.

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By *ayandjimCouple
1 week ago

scotland

We like day time so lights don't really work so we try another way to show them we are dogging

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By *ife4bbcxCouple
1 week ago

Newark


"Considering dogging for the first time, not entirely sure what to expect. Any tips and advice "

It’s very exciting but can be quite uncomfortable. Don’t get me wrong still loved it!

There a pic in public of it.

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By *J_OuizziCouple
1 week ago

Nottingham


"Considering dogging for the first time, not entirely sure what to expect. Any tips and advice "

Make sure you have a chat about your boundaries before hand. The couple of times we have been out we have only put on a show, but have thoroughly enjoyed ourselves.

Have a safe word so you can stop immediately you feel out of your comfort zone.

If you involve others make sure you are clear with your boundaries.

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By *eahxocallumCouple
1 week ago

studley

We usually pre-arrange and screen guys, we also have someone keeping an eye out for trouble.

But it varies, and it's becoming more difficult to find a location; as such, we usually stick to the rural areas and have used a fellow swingers farm on occasion.

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By *apperleymanMan
1 week ago

Nottingham


"Considering dogging for the first time, not entirely sure what to expect. Any tips and advice "

As others have said - talk about it first and have an idea what you both want out of it.

A lot of seasoned doggers are friendly chatty types but you do get the occasional shy or quiet one, as well as inexperienced lads/ couples.. so talk if you feel up to that..

No need to flash lights etc, if it’s really dark then put an interior light on for a few seconds so other doggers know you’re a couple.

Other than that it really is your rules, your night out so enjoy..

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By *ayxWoman
6 days ago

brentwood


"I've been dogging a few times with my FB and it's a lot of fun if you avoid the meerkats that don't have the manners or ability to talk to people but jump out and act odd lol 😂

I imagine they act odd because you haven't given a clear signal that that's what you're there for, have you any idea how it feels as a single man to just walk over to someones car and start talking in the hope that that's what you're there for and not got it completely wrong and it's just a random couple who's evening you've interrupted. "

We follow the suggested etiquette but sadly a lot of men don't seem to care.

When people have followed it we have had a great time

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By *illy-ButcherMan
6 days ago

Brigstock

Have been dogging for many years and there has been a decline in recent years...but in my experience most old school guys are very respectful and encourage newbies to behave.

The mantra was that the couple decided the rules..as it should be.

As another guy said..as a single guy it can be a minefield firstly dustinguishing between single men in cars..and couples...and then deciding whether they are there to smoke /chat...or to play.

A clear fairly brief inside light to show that you are a game couple is a starting place. Windows shut just for watching...you can crack a window to chat and break the ice. Open window usually means you are encouraging touching but you will likely be asked to confirm. Open door suggests more but also needs confirm.

Communication is key both ways.

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By *ros92Man
6 days ago

Oldham

Don’t go d*unk ha

I got used like you’d never believe!

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By *orfolk777Man
6 days ago

Norwich

Expect nothing…it avoids disappointment

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