FabSwingers.com forum: Mens action pics on profiles? Yes or No?

Barnet

Ladies and couples, what do you think about action shots and vids of guys playing on the profiles. Obviously it probably not the sole factor, but does it make it more or less likely of getting a response?

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By *issmorganWoman
7 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Much less likely from me, especially if I can see more of other women than him.

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By *rdere OpusCouple
7 weeks ago

Brum - ish

"Much less likely from me, especially if I can see more of other women than him. "
. Same!

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By *ikeHawkenerMan
7 weeks ago

I’d say more don’t want to see that on a single man’s profile than do, we’re all adults and know how it works

It definitely puts me off seeing it on a single woman’s profile but again it’s personal preference, different strokes for different folks

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By *eniandMikeCouple
7 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Real turn of if a single profile and have pics of other on there as well as the profile holder!

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By *RcplSldnCouple
7 weeks ago

London

It makes us think about consent: do those other women know their pictures are up on Fab?

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By *ittyNCremeCouple
7 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

Not our thing either

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By *arkDesiresDude OP Man
7 weeks ago

Barnet

There appears to be a theme emerging!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Bristol

Personally I think it's fine

This site is about people swinging and having sex... so expect to see photos of people swinging and having sex.

Others likely won't see things the same way I do though.

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By *vaRoseWoman
7 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I always question consent for the photo being uploaded on a single profile so it’s an immediate no for me

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Chichester

See I don’t think any single profile should be allowed pics with others. Single should be single imo , couples as couples etc

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/London

"See I don’t think any single profile should be allowed pics with others. Single should be single imo , couples as couples etc "

+1 to this

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By *tockton GentMan
7 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

"See I don’t think any single profile should be allowed pics with others. Single should be single imo , couples as couples etc "

Interesting and fair comment I guess. Although I think all of my pictures where I'm playing have been shared with and are also on my corresponding partner's profile.

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By *iFruityCoupleCouple
7 weeks ago

Watermouth

If the pic is of 'her' then no, but if it's of them and she is not identifiable it's OK.

Would it be the reason we say yes? No. Would it stop us saying yes? No.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Some guys profiles look more like a women's with the amount of tits on their pics, it can be off-putting especially hanging bareback out of many different people.

I want to see the person I'm supposed to meet not some random tits and arse, yes we know you can have the sex but we don't need to see it.

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By *b750Couple
7 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Love seeing action so you can see what you get before you buy

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By *ustus5555Woman
7 weeks ago

Mansfield

"Real turn of if a single profile and have pics of other on there as well as the profile holder!

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

No for us and same as a few have said it’s not really possible to tell if the other person has granted permission to share the photos

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By *ongAndThick123Man
7 weeks ago

Leeds

One rule I’ve learned on fab - what people say publicly on the forums doesn’t reflect what they (or others) believe privately.

All you can do is make a judgement call yourself as to how you want to present yourself .

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By *arkDesiresDude OP Man
7 weeks ago

Barnet

Lets assume other people in the picture or video has given consent.

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By *vaRoseWoman
7 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"Lets assume other people in the picture or video has given consent. "

Ok but how is that verified? They can’t be tagged, they have no control over whether the image is used or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

"Lets assume other people in the picture or video has given consent. "

That's what they all say, it's like saying I'll just put the tip in.....

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By *ustus5555Woman
7 weeks ago

Mansfield

"Lets assume other people in the picture or video has given consent.

That's what they all say, it's like saying I'll just put the tip in....."

And on thier profile they always play safe 😴😴😴

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

"Lets assume other people in the picture or video has given consent.

That's what they all say, it's like saying I'll just put the tip in.....

And on thier profile they always play safe 😴😴😴"

While hanging out of several bareback in their pics as well as being single and forgetting to remove the wife's belongings from the pics 😂😂

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By *erry bull1Man
7 weeks ago

doncaster

I have some action pics from my army days , but they were deemed not suitable for this site

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By *arkDesiresDude OP Man
7 weeks ago

Barnet

It's just so this doesn't turn in to a debate about consent, as this could be true for couples, females and males.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
7 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

No, it raises consent issues that never get addressed. Especially when they say it’s an ex - oh I’m sure they are completely fine with posting pics up whilst trying to entice someone new

Also, we get distracted by the women in a singles man’s profile, since you can see more of them usually

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By *ustus5555Woman
7 weeks ago

Mansfield

"Lets assume other people in the picture or video has given consent.

That's what they all say, it's like saying I'll just put the tip in.....

And on thier profile they always play safe 😴😴😴

While hanging out of several bareback in their pics as well as being single and forgetting to remove the wife's belongings from the pics 😂😂"

Don't forget the family pics.

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By *iFruityCoupleCouple
7 weeks ago

Watermouth

"Lets assume other people in the picture or video has given consent.

That's what they all say, it's like saying I'll just put the tip in.....

And on thier profile they always play safe 😴😴😴

While hanging out of several bareback in their pics as well as being single and forgetting to remove the wife's belongings from the pics 😂😂

Don't forget the family pics. "

You should report family pics, they are a no, no.

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By *ony MannMan
7 weeks ago

South Newton

I had to check my pics, I think they are exceptable to most commitments here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
7 weeks ago

East Sussex

Action shots on anyone's profile man, woman ,couple trans, cd etc make me less likely to respond. It's just not my thing.

However, it's obviously what the profile holder likes and if it's working for them it's all good.

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By *andb69Couple
7 weeks ago

leeds

Guys posting what they want to post, rather than posting what you would like them to post, tells you a lot about them and helps you decide whether you might want to meet them. Moreover, I don't object to them posting action shots as long as their partner(s) cannot be identified.

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By *akeland-ladMan
7 weeks ago

South Lakes

It all depends.

Whilst I can see it may put some people off, I also find it ironic some of those complaining have action shots/videos of themselves on their own profiles (and some labelled "not with wife/hubby or clearly with a different partner) and that's apparently fine, but it's not for single guys to post the same? Double standards is it not?

I appreciate the "consent" angle but that could apply to any.

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By *arkDesiresDude OP Man
7 weeks ago

Barnet

Everyone is free to do as they wish obviously. I'm just interested as to whether it makes the profile more or less attractive. It'd interesting to see people's views on this.

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By *ornycougaWoman
7 weeks ago

SOMEWHERE IN AFRICA

It's a yes from me. I want to know if a guy can fuck how I like to be fucked, and is he plastering a woman's face all over t'internet or fucking multiple women bare. It's a great filter for me so keep it up lads - just let me look if I'm interested, don't spam my inbox with crappy vids I'm not interested in

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By *ittyNCremeCouple
7 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

"It's a yes from me. I want to know if a guy can fuck how I like to be fucked, and is he plastering a woman's face all over t'internet or fucking multiple women bare. It's a great filter for me so keep it up lads - just let me look if I'm interested, don't spam my inbox with crappy vids I'm not interested in "

🤣🤣🤣

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By *eyeYCouple
7 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Beats every possible angle of their cock tbh.. Although we'd say if their without verifications we agree with the consent argument.

We will say that there are plenty of ladies with action pics too.. 🤔

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By *ontymum09Woman
7 weeks ago

pontefract

Yes from me such a turn on x

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By *w funwifeWoman
7 weeks ago

near taunton

its thier profile to do as they wish just as its me decieds if they are for me or not , its part of my filters

no one should tell someone else how they do their profile as its their prifile if it puts you off then its a good filter

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By *LiamMan
7 weeks ago

Midlands

What I get from this is, Women are more likely to not want to share a man.

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By *rDuracell88Man
7 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Thing is it seems its OK for a women to have pics and vids, of her getting fucked of guys, but it's not OK for men. Just like alot of the time it's not OK for a guy to be bi, but it's absolutely fine for a women to be bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

"What I get from this is, Women are more likely to not want to share a man. "

I don't think it's not wanting to share given the site we are on but seeing them hanging out of several different people is off-putting.

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By *LiamMan
7 weeks ago

Midlands

"What I get from this is, Women are more likely to not want to share a man.

I don't think it's not wanting to share given the site we are on but seeing them hanging out of several different people is off-putting."

My experience here confirms my statement to be honest. It's always can we be 'fwb' even after 1 meet

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By *um2me123Man
7 weeks ago

burin

I have taken pics but would never include them on my profile...

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By *AYENCouple
7 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I'm sure some will like them, but action pics on a single man's profile are a definite no no for us - it's one of the many reasons we block. K.

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