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By *ollyPocket75 OP   Woman
7 weeks ago

Aberdeen

So many people want a fwb, it seems pretty difficult to find. If you had a fwb how regular would you want to see them? What would you class as a fwb?

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By *r.and.Mrs.DSCouple
7 weeks ago

Somewhere in Neverland

Once a week would be great! Twice a month seems to be what we can do atm. A longer wait would be hard, but it depends on circumstances.

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By *antstoexploreCouple
7 weeks ago

wales

Twice month for missus maybe more depending on the mood

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By *ife NinjaMan
7 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Weekly would be nice 🤓

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By *each needs some creamWoman
7 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I didn't want a FWB but over time with one person it has deployed into a FWB. I would say we meet up every 3 months or so for a week of debauchery.

In the meantime I have FB's that keep me sexually satisfied.

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By *hoccaMan
7 weeks ago

local

The way I see it is a fwb is a genuine friendship with sex included. Different from a FB where you may only ever speak to eachother for sex related activities.

Interns of frequencies

FWB: every now n then if you both happen to be free and horny at the same time:

FB: whenever your both horny but probably reach out to them first before I see what my fwb is doing 🤣

They might even be the same thing but that’s the way my brain differentiate them

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By *aughtywelsh89Man
7 weeks ago

Pontyclun

Maybe in time

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
7 weeks ago

Leeds

Id much prefer this to one off meets, the sex is always better the more you learn about each others bodies.

Difficult to find though, especially with the ladies.

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
7 weeks ago

Norwich

I had one. We saw each other once or twice a week.

We had a lot in common and liked each other very much and spent considerable time together.

This was the problem as it got harder and harder to stay detached. I had to end it as it was getting too hard.

I would say if you're lucky enough to find someone let them be nice but not somebody you have loads in common with.

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By *ollyPocket75 OP   Woman
7 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I'd like a fwb, someone to spend time with in and out of the bedroom, it's proving difficult to find someone who doesn't just want to fuck and go.

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By *exytimeCoolMan
7 weeks ago

swadlincote


"So many people want a fwb, it seems pretty difficult to find. If you had a fwb how regular would you want to see them? What would you class as a fwb? "
would like enjoy fwb at wkends as and when suit be great fun but as you say hard to find for all

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By *addy bareMan
7 weeks ago

southend

I'm always on the lookout for one,once a week,once a month? Whatever they are comfortable with.

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By *alipartyhomeMan
7 weeks ago

rhyl

Me to but im not perfect so some of the women on here don't hold back on their replies lol any tips advice would be seriously appreciated

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By *alipartyhomeMan
7 weeks ago

rhyl

I'm willing to travel or accommodate anytime really

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By *aste-the-RainbowCouple
7 weeks ago

Worthing

The Mrs has a fwb who she has been seeing for about 10 years. They get together as often as they can but it's not always for sexy time. As mentioned it's a friend who she can have sex with when they both feel like it. It's the added extra bonus content.

Mr

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By *eve500Man
7 weeks ago

Leeds

Strikes me the idea of a fwb is a relationship without the hangups of a normal romantic one. The sex is bound to be good and explosive, and push the boundaries that a normal relationship quashes? Or am a a mirangue?

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By *eddy004Man
7 weeks ago

Toy Town

Generally weekly catch up for some fun and frolics but then we'd chat and message fairly freely too

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By *ucka39Man
7 weeks ago

Newcastle

Had few in my time, some we did everything else besides the sexual stuff like going clubbing, meet up casual drink or meal even out shopping just the norm

Some spend hours over the phone chatting as well, as we had built up a fantastic connection

How often would we indulge in sexually depended how busy we were otherwise few times a week

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By *inky MelissaTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Considering I'm in male mode 98.777 percent of the time, then a fwb needs to get that my CD is only a fraction of my persona.

I would ideally like to have folk I can do other things with than just sex. After all that's what the definition of fwb is meant to be?

Cofffees, hikes, make up stuff when the mood takes, the odd trip away.

Not going ice skating with anyone though. I would be more stable mountain climbing in my highest heels than I would taking to ice skates again

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
7 weeks ago

Next Door

It would depend on how close we lived.

If within 30mins maybe once a week.

If over 30 mins then once or twice a month.

Ideally 2 fwb would be ideal for me

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By *urvelover87Man
7 weeks ago

London


"So many people want a fwb, it seems pretty difficult to find. If you had a fwb how regular would you want to see them? What would you class as a fwb? "

When I had fwb in the past, I was seeing them at least once a week. As for the definition, someone who on a mental level relates to your interests and is capable of stimulating your mind, share laughter and time together without developing deep feelings.

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By *ollyPocket75 OP   Woman
7 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"So many people want a fwb, it seems pretty difficult to find. If you had a fwb how regular would you want to see them? What would you class as a fwb?

When I had fwb in the past, I was seeing them at least once a week. As for the definition, someone who on a mental level relates to your interests and is capable of stimulating your mind, share laughter and time together without developing deep feelings."

This is exactly what I'm looking for.

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By *eliWoman
7 weeks ago

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"So many people want a fwb, it seems pretty difficult to find. If you had a fwb how regular would you want to see them? What would you class as a fwb? "

As often as works for both of us. I'm quite busy, already have people in my life. I'd say a fwb is where there's a real friendship there, fuckbuddy where it's sex based and little interaction aside from sex/organising it. I don't have any interest in fuckbuddies, does nothing for me.

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
7 weeks ago

Preston

Having had this before it can be amazing fun maybe once a week xx

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By *eviantSilverFoxMan
7 weeks ago

Walton on Thames


"Having had this before it can be amazing fun maybe once a week xx"

Have been one before...for 4years although could be calles lover as well. Used to see them 2-3 times a week...on her own and with hubby...was fabulous. Great friends outside of the bedroom too

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By *ittymcgeeCouple
7 weeks ago

Stevenage

We would love to find this with a couple. Be nice to have some friends to just hang out with, then at times some extra fun

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By *adeiteWoman
7 weeks ago

Stafford

Trying to find a fwb seems impossible sometimes

I don't want to just meet and fuck. I wana hang out and chat shit and have a laugh too, ofcourse all of that can progress to fun if the moments right but that isn't the point of meeting them.

Maybe one day I'll get lucky again

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By *rK MrsJCouple
7 weeks ago

Kidderminster


"We would love to find this with a couple. Be nice to have some friends to just hang out with, then at times some extra fun "

Yes this would be what we would like as well.

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By *antassack889Man
7 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

Hard enough finding someone to play with anyway let alone a fwb 😅😂

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By *urvelover87Man
7 weeks ago

London


"

I don't want to just meet and fuck. I wana hang out and chat shit and have a laugh too, ofcourse all of that can progress to fun if the moments right but that isn't the point of meeting them.

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This. The "Friend" in FWB is the important part...the benefits are just added bonus.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
7 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We've always wanted to find a couple for fwb situation....meeting a couple of times a month or whatever you can really.

Were still looking lol.

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By *eddy004Man
7 weeks ago

Toy Town


"

I don't want to just meet and fuck. I wana hang out and chat shit and have a laugh too, ofcourse all of that can progress to fun if the moments right but that isn't the point of meeting them.

This. The "Friend" in FWB is the important part...the benefits are just added bonus."

I completely agree, there's a much better bond and understand of life's situations

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By *ilverfox for youMan
7 weeks ago

Hull

Once or twice a month would be nice !

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By *ecretxLoverWoman
7 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Hard enough finding someone to play with anyway let alone a fwb 😅😂"

Exactly this x

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By *ustus5555Woman
7 weeks ago

Mansfield

I'd love a gfwb. It's surprising how hard it is. Most ppl seem to want one offs, which can be great. As others have said though, the more you meet the more you get to know each others bodies.

Just my thought's. 🤷

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By *m3232Man
7 weeks ago

maidenhead

Once a week would be good.

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By *obbiKentMan
7 weeks ago

maidstone

Ince a week, sexy guy or lady, prefer couple

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By *orbidden eastMan
7 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

Now that would be marvellous, but let’s start with a reply first

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago


"So many people want a fwb, it seems pretty difficult to find. If you had a fwb how regular would you want to see them? What would you class as a fwb? "

I was very lucky and actually found one at work who happened to be on fab and introduced me to this site thinking that it would be a passing phase. We have become the very best of fwb and meet as often as we can and not always for sex. I consider her the best of me and we have got wach others backs, laugh at each other, eat and drink together but also know we are not exclusive....but always 100% honest about our thoughts or intentions.

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By *ollyPocket75 OP   Woman
7 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"So many people want a fwb, it seems pretty difficult to find. If you had a fwb how regular would you want to see them? What would you class as a fwb?

I was very lucky and actually found one at work who happened to be on fab and introduced me to this site thinking that it would be a passing phase. We have become the very best of fwb and meet as often as we can and not always for sex. I consider her the best of me and we have got wach others backs, laugh at each other, eat and drink together but also know we are not exclusive....but always 100% honest about our thoughts or intentions."

Sounds perfect 👌

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By *tevenwantstoMan
7 weeks ago

dorset

Its very difficult to find that person your vomfy with, trust and can be open with sadly.

I prefer regular and cant just go with anyone i have to like them too x

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

I would like to meet a fwb and I think once or twice a week seeing them would be sufficient.

However I would love a friend first to build that connection and see what develops.

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By *arkJonesMan
7 weeks ago

Bangor

I have one but we live so far apart that we are both looking for some one closer. I think she will find someone before me!

Ideally something irregular but once a week or there abouts.

Need to be close...but not too close...

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By *wlmanMan
7 weeks ago

Rugby


"So many people want a fwb, it seems pretty difficult to find. If you had a fwb how regular would you want to see them? What would you class as a fwb? "

I had a fwb and we met once or twice a week until she moved to Blackpool. Did have a nice weekend away with her there after she moved but we realised that there was no way we could live together.

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By *LiamMan
7 weeks ago

Midlands

I feel a big shift in this site lately. Most women ask me to be FWB from the start. Which is alot to take on straight away

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By *phrodisiac2000Man
7 weeks ago

saddleworth NW


"It would depend on how close we lived.

If within 30mins maybe once a week.

If over 30 mins then once or twice a month.

Ideally 2 fwb would be ideal for me

"

Can I be one of them

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By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Mayfair

If I'm honest I'm not overtly concerned with the label of "FWB" at this stage. For me it's the geographical disparities between myself and the other person/s. The Fåb Curse™ is really aggravating.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
7 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

FWB take time to develop you have to meet up and get have sex to see if it develops in to FWB.

Personally with the exception of one person, I stick to FB's a lot less hassle and easier.

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By *attledogMan
7 weeks ago

Hull

Fwb is great, you get to know each other more, and develop you sexual relationship, but for me, it's not just about the sex, sometimes if you have had a bad day at work for inst, sometimes it's. Ice to have someone there to chat with, also just to meet for a social drink or meal etc.

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