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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone ever feel shameful, that they live a swinging life.

Maybe as parents some do etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no shame in having an active sex life, or having the belief that variety is the spice of life, and that no one can tick all the boxes, etc. etc., IMHO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone ever feel shameful, that they live a swinging life.

Maybe as parents some do etc"

nope.. it's my lifestyle if those around me can't accept it.. then it's not my problem. I feel no shame if people find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't the day I do I will be stopping it

Why do something that makes you feel like that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is no shame in having an active sex life, or having the belief that variety is the spice of life, and that no one can tick all the boxes, etc. etc., IMHO.

"
what IMHO?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a swinging life style is nothing shameful.

Its about having fun with like minded adults.

Bit like football but very few 0-0 draws.

More shameful would be playing away (cheating)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No I don't the day I do I will be stopping it

Why do something that makes you feel like that? "
People always do things their ashamed of. Like buying coldplay albums lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no shame in having an active sex life, or having the belief that variety is the spice of life, and that no one can tick all the boxes, etc. etc., IMHO.

what IMHO?"

.

Que?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IMHO = in my humble opinion

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't do anything I'm ashamed of.

I think some people confuse being discrete about ones private life as being ashamed: major difference!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs has admitted to me that sometimes she finds it hard to switch from mum of two, to mum sucking off two haha

Mr x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mrs has admitted to me that sometimes she finds it hard to switch from mum of two, to mum sucking off two haha

Mr x"
lol brillant

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

We're not ashamed but don't make it public knowledge.

It's a sad fact that people will judge you, and while at there is an element of "that's there problem", all it takes is for a few wagging tongues around the school gate, and social services are turning up at your door step.

So, no, not ashamed, but don't even want to risk the potential backlash from people who have nothing better to do.

D&K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

part of me does sometimes, its the way i was brought up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're not ashamed but don't make it public knowledge.

It's a sad fact that people will judge you, and while at there is an element of "that's there problem", all it takes is for a few wagging tongues around the school gate, and social services are turning up at your door step.

So, no, not ashamed, but don't even want to risk the potential backlash from people who have nothing better to do.

D&K

"

I've had the tongues wagging and social services sent to my house... Eventually the tongues stopped wagging... It wasn't my choice to tell all but I see no point in hiding that I am into alternative lifestyles..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel very strongly about being forced to keep quiet about something I love and believe in!

I know people will judge me who cant understand but equally it may encourage some others to dip their toe in who had never heard of swinging before.

It has changed my life for the better in so many ways..I am evangelical about it.

I think England is still so influenced by The Victorians sexually.We need to move on and embrace alternative choices!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel very strongly about being forced to keep quiet about something I love and believe in!

I know people will judge me who cant understand but equally it may encourage some others to dip their toe in who had never heard of swinging before.

It has changed my life for the better in so many ways..I am evangelical about it.

I think England is still so influenced by The Victorians sexually.We need to move on and embrace alternative choices!!"

some people seem to think that being open means expressing all you do.. I just admit my lifestyle.. both bdsm and swinging... Not details..

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I feel very strongly about being forced to keep quiet about something I love and believe in!

I know people will judge me who cant understand but equally it may encourage some others to dip their toe in who had never heard of swinging before.

It has changed my life for the better in so many ways..I am evangelical about it.

I think England is still so influenced by The Victorians sexually.We need to move on and embrace alternative choices!!

some people seem to think that being open means expressing all you do.. I just admit my lifestyle.. both bdsm and swinging... Not details.. "

Some people simply believe not everything is for public consumption. For example I'm losing my hair and have spent a fortune on lace front wigs.

Nearly all my friends wear weaves, extensions, wigs etc and don't mind talking about it. I choose not to.

Admittedly, no one is going to make judgements on me for wearing a wig, and friends don't go into intricate details on their false hair choices...but I'm sure you get the point I'm making.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't jam it down people's throats and tell them in gory details what I get up to in my free time.

Whether they approve/not approve of my choices how I spend my free time has no bearings on how I live my life as I see fit.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I know some people who think I should be ashamed. I am happy to prove them wrong.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

What's there to be ashamed of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't do anything I'm ashamed of.

I think some people confuse being discrete about ones private life as being ashamed: major difference! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If know one is getting hurt go for it i say you only live once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not ashamed its my life my choice ( and oh as well) regarding other people few people know what we do and I'd like to keep it that way for my kids sake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say " don't judge me unless you have walked in my shoes "

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"part of me does sometimes, its the way i was brought up."

I agree but it doesn't stop me. Living in a very rural area amongst a lot of nosey people I just like to keep my private life private.

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By *lyce and Mister MCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Not at all my kids don't know and won't know as im discreet n don't accommodate. I have a fantastic active sex life and swinging will add to it. I don't full swap with men and I come as a twosome so it's part of our life. Not ashamed at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not at all my kids don't know and won't know as im discreet n don't accommodate. I have a fantastic active sex life and swinging will add to it. I don't full swap with men and I come as a twosome so it's part of our life. Not ashamed at all."
they'll know if they join fab lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just ashamed I can't do it more than I do!

Susan....

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

No shame here we just have to be careful as mother lives 2 doors up from us

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