FabSwingers.com forum: BLOCKED!!!!!!

By *arkhelga OP Couple
4 weeks ago

leeds

Having to block 2 guys this weekend and block list itself overflowing love to know other people's experiences of blocking.....

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By *luebell888Woman
4 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I seldom block, I prefer to ignore if someone annoys me.

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 weeks ago

Belfast

I can't remember the last time I blocked anyone and it's a very long time since I blocked someone I've actually chatted to or had a message from.

I used to block people I knew I wouldn't be compatible with and it kept my local updates more relevant.

I've blocked a few for idiotic forum comments and I've blocked some for playing games and dissecting my profile on the forums.

Once someone is on there there don't get a second chance and currently there are 40 something on the list which is tiny compared to some.

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By *all me FlikWoman
4 weeks ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

I'm getting quite a few cheats messaging lately and I really don't want to hear from them

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By *lasgowMinxWoman
4 weeks ago

glasgow

I block for various reasons.. persistent messaging after ive said no thanks, abusive after ive said no thanks, if i know them and have no interest in them, ranty status updates, vulgar pics on the updates.. the list goes on

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By *iss DevilWoman
4 weeks ago

Bedford

I block for a variety of reasons. Mostly - when someone clearly did not read my profile or can't take a polite "no, thank you" for an answer. The hardest block for me is when I have been chatting with someone, with a view of meeting (which hardly ever happens nowadays) and all of a sudden they say something in their message that seems very out of character or crass. I might let the "first offence" slip, but if it gets repeated, that person ends up on my block list.

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By *elightful 2Couple
4 weeks ago

Not living in the UK

Due to our profile write up we don't get too many messages so no need to block anyone.. our block list is pretty small thankfully.

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By *bckentMan
4 weeks ago

Medway Area

I got blocked over the weekend because I told a couple I wasnt able to drive 3 hrs to meet them immediately..

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By *heelerMan
4 weeks ago

Northants

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By *ynergyMan
4 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Our couples profile probably block 1 in 2 people haha

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
4 weeks ago

Norwichish

Only really block when someone has been abusive or when persistently messaging and not actually reading our replies.

That said everyone blocks for different reasons. Have seen a lot of threads where people use block to filter out the profiles that they can’t meet due to distance/times/accommodation whatever.

Would never be offended

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire

We only really block if someone gets abusive after being told no thanks

Or if they go into graphic detail about what they are doing while looking at our pictures

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By *heff32Man
4 weeks ago

sheffield

I blocked few

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By *uffsandkinkCouple
4 weeks ago

leeds

we will block if keep getting the same messages or someone who completely ignores that we are a couple.

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By *rdere OpusCouple
4 weeks ago

Brum - ish

We don’t block often. If someone is particularly rude, we’ll block. Then a few people whose photos pop up in local updates that aren’t for us and very occasionally people we really aren’t compatible with in the forum, in terms of approach.

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By *iniskirtCouple
4 weeks ago

Paisley

We have blocked a few, mostly when they have become a bit abusive, no one is on here for that, plus some people have a sense of entitlement and we don’t like that either x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

We're quick to block. Life's way too short to worry about things like that

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By *ustus5555Woman
4 weeks ago

Mansfield

As said above. Life's to short. If not for you, just block. It's an excellent filtering device & I'm sure ppl have blocked me for same reason. 🤷

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By *arblerWoman
4 weeks ago

Southampton

It is a useful feature for those who do not get the hint from a polite no thank you.

There are some who just want pictures or who say they are going to meet and after a second chance still muck around. I block them.

There have been people who I recognise too and I've blocked them straight away.

I am sure people have blocked me too.

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By *oughmanMan
4 weeks ago

Sunderland

I've got a very light block list. I don't get messages so that helps. The ones that are I just don't want any interaction with. There's just something in their profile that says "you and I just aren't going to get on".

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By *i FWB filthy fun coupleCouple
4 weeks ago

South East

Most of our blocks are overly persistent single males (shock horror!) and if bad behaviour off site or general non compatibility x

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By *oughmanMan
4 weeks ago

Sunderland

I'm also sure I've been blocked by more than a few. Because I've done or said something wrong in their eyes, or just because they don't like me for whatever reason. Like it's been said before it's a useful function.

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By *otwifeHusband888Couple
4 weeks ago

Within touching distance

Just timewasters/fantasists really for us.

We have also noticed we have been blocked from a couple of profiles which I find strange as there's been no interaction between us lol

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
4 weeks ago

Leeds

I block everyone, it saves time and hassle of we aren't compatible.

Mrs

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By *lly69coolMan
4 weeks ago

shanklin

One couple constantly sent me a Hi message. I replied, but they persisted in sending just ‘hi’. I blocked them after about four or five times of saying nothing else

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By *4bimMan
4 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Many reasons why.

But the main reason is that I do not want to ever meet them.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
4 weeks ago

Manchester

"Many reasons why.

But the main reason is that I do not want to ever meet them."

That pretty much covers it.

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
4 weeks ago

Norwich

I don't very often block but if people are abusive, cocky or won't leave me alone, I will.

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By *andSxxCouple
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

We just block another one. We gave they 2 chances. Both times they canceled the meeting.👿

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By *naswingdressWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's common enough that it's not noteworthy. Incompatible, rude, persistent, evidence of sociopathy...

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By *WANDTGCouple
4 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

If we look at a profile and see we aren't for them, due to age, distance or other preferences, then we might block to help streamline our own preferences.

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By *omRachCouple
4 weeks ago

Wirral

123 on ours.

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By *ikeExMan
4 weeks ago

Here to Eternity

In our couples profile, we've had several idiots who have struggled with simple text.

Couples looking for couples doesn't mean my partner wants solo guys and that's it!

So.. on her profile and the couples profile, we must be close to 200 blocked profiles.

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By * and T xCouple
4 weeks ago

Cannock

There used to be a guy on our update feed that would repost the same few pictures of his dick every day so that his profile was more visible. That was the first to be blocked, just because I found it annoying.

For anyone who gets upset about being blocked, I wouldn't take it personally. It's just another tool to tailor the experience to your needs

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
4 weeks ago

the moon

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
4 weeks ago

the moon

Most block me for no reason 😂 saves me doing it 🍒🌹

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By *enelope2UWoman
4 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

I block if ZERO comparability..are vile first messages, or other extremes

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
4 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"Most block me for no reason 😂 saves me doing it 🍒🌹"

You won't get a block from me, you're on my hotlist lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
4 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I'm block happy and make no apology for it. Makes my life easier

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By *obs333Man
4 weeks ago

Durham

Had to block a few pests, once got blocked for apparently sending a copy and paste message lol. How's that for being told you've got no banter

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By *uri00620Woman
4 weeks ago

Croydon

I never block but then equally I don't read messages so I guess there's no need. When I was meeting I just ignored rather than block.

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By *orseyMan
4 weeks ago

Stoke

I was on the receiving end of a block at the weekend. Spent hours chatting to the hubby, getting on really well. Next day I was blocked on here and messaging app too Absolutely no reason given. Just odd.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I was on the receiving end of a block at the weekend. Spent hours chatting to the hubby, getting on really well. Next day I was blocked on here and messaging app too Absolutely no reason given. Just odd. "

The first part of your second sentence is your answer. His wife was unaware that he was chatting and vetoed any further contact...if she even knows about the profile

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By *bitofaslutWoman
4 weeks ago

Cannock

I will block at the slightest bad feeling I get about someone. Life is too short and I very very much doubt they care.

Got blocked yesterday and it was weird. He'd been randomly messaging for weeks and talking dirty. Last night we were doing the usual filthy stuff back and forth and he sends "I'm (woman's name I don't know anyone with that name) and I'm getting banged" then blocks me. Like, did they think I was someone else the name would mean something to? Who knows.

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By *orseyMan
4 weeks ago

Stoke

The first part of your second sentence is your answer. His wife was unaware that he was chatting and vetoed any further contact...if she even knows about the profile "

Yeah quite possibly, although it would have been politer to have said thanks but no thanks. Although maybe politeness is an old fashioned concept or only works one way on here? Who knows!

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By *llaBelle1Woman
4 weeks ago

Worsley, Manchester

My preferences are patently obvious from the get go therefore it’s abundantly obvious when someone messages who hasn’t even attempted a basic read before scrolling down down to the pics so it’s an instant block !

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By *lee69Couple
4 weeks ago

Local To You

Messaging pests, messaging without any regard to what we have written on our profile page. Advice off men via message on how we should write our profile nicer, it’s because of Wollys like him that we have to make it crystal clear and still they pester. Meet now, hi, got any pics, she squirt, got an hour later are all blocked. So yes plenty.

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By *orseyMan
4 weeks ago

Stoke

"Messaging pests, messaging without any regard to what we have written on our profile page. Advice off men via message on how we should write our profile nicer, it’s because of Wollys like him that we have to make it crystal clear and still they pester. Meet now, hi, got any pics, she squirt, got an hour later are all blocked. So yes plenty.

Meet now?

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By *nigmaDreamWoman
4 weeks ago

West Midlands

I block local newbies. I have some stalkers unfortunately

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
4 weeks ago

the moon

"Most block me for no reason 😂 saves me doing it 🍒🌹

You won't get a block from me, you're on my hotlist lol

Oh 😈

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By *ilthy couple 111Couple
4 weeks ago

boston

Probablyblocking between 10 and 15 straight guys a day

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
4 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"Most block me for no reason 😂 saves me doing it 🍒🌹

You won't get a block from me, you're on my hotlist lol

Oh 😈"

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By *lee69Couple
4 weeks ago

Local To You

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By *allnHandsome12Man
4 weeks ago

Teesside

It’s so individual the reasons are aplenty, I’ve been blocked by people in this forum though never messaged them privately or had a disagreement 😂

I often use it myself to remove profiles from my searches that I don’t want to interact with as it helps keep it clear-my memory can be terrible and usernames don’t always stick in mind so I end up opening the same profile repeatedly🤦‍♂️

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By *erkshireGuyUKMan
4 weeks ago

Reading

Automatic block if people are being dicks. On occasion, blocking where you’ve spoken with someone before, didn’t find the conversation going well and accidentally messaged them again (sometimes the site doesn’t show this).

I always send an apology and note I’m setting a block so as not to make the same mistake and cause either parties embarrassment.

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By *oughmanMan
4 weeks ago

Sunderland

The biggest one for me is, why do they not bother reading the profiles? I see it said on the forums all the time. Is it so hard to spend, in most cases, less than an minute to read it. How brain dead and/or entitled can they be? To me it the kind of like them taking a trip to Florida, seeing a sign saying alligator infested waters and then getting surprised something tries to eat them when they go for a paddle.

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By *oni-massage-guyMan
4 weeks ago

Fareham

Some people are a little trigger happy with the block button. Personal choice and all that. I think couples in particular feel empowered by using it. I got blocked for having a beard ffs!!! And yes, no doubt I'll be blocked by a few now lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Some people are a little trigger happy with the block button. Personal choice and all that. I think couples in particular feel empowered by using it. I got blocked for having a beard ffs!!! And yes, no doubt I'll be blocked by a few now lol."

Empowered, in what way? We don't find blocking empowering in any way except for keeping our search results smaller.

How do you know you were blocked for having a beard?

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By *adeiteWoman
4 weeks ago

Stafford

I get abuse all the time and I do love that block button and the report one too 😂😂

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By *oni-massage-guyMan
4 weeks ago

Fareham

Empowered, in what way? We don't find blocking empowering in any way except for keeping our search results smaller.

How do you know you were blocked for having a beard?"

They literally said 'no beards' then was blocked. Yes personal choice but really!

Empowered as in they know the ration to single guys is humungously in their favour so they can block at will and advertise the fact on profikes and statuses. As Trump said "they git all the cards"

Just my bitter single guy moan.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
4 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

I block many and I am blocked by many I am sure. I never ask why. Why? Because they've blocked me FFS 😂

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By *oni-massage-guyMan
4 weeks ago

Fareham

"I block many and I am blocked by many I am sure. I never ask why. Why? Because they've blocked me FFS 😂"

Good to know

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By *he SmithsCouple
4 weeks ago

East Devon & London

Our latest video went viral at the weekend, as did the resulting unsolicited friend requests from horny guys. If they’d read our profile they’d not have sent one.

Genuinely hundreds of blocks since we posted.

Didn’t even look at their profiles.

Lemmings to the cliff.

Simples!

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By *oni-massage-guyMan
4 weeks ago

Fareham

"Our latest video went viral at the weekend, as did the resulting unsolicited friend requests from horny guys. If they’d read our profile they’d not have sent one.

Genuinely hundreds of blocks since we posted.

Didn’t even look at their profiles.

Lemmings to the cliff.

Simples!"

Easier to ignore though...no?

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By *oni-massage-guyMan
4 weeks ago

Fareham

"Our latest video went viral at the weekend, as did the resulting unsolicited friend requests from horny guys. If they’d read our profile they’d not have sent one.

Genuinely hundreds of blocks since we posted.

Didn’t even look at their profiles.

Lemmings to the cliff.

Simples!"

Hehe. Predictable but amusing....yes they blocked me....proving my point. Thank you.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I generally don't block guys unless they're unpleasant, or can't take no for an answer. I have probably a couple of dozen profiles in my block list. Most people respond reasonably to a polite thank "you for the attention, but I'm not meeting - its in my profile".

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Ah, more like 80 in my list 🙄

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
4 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Our latest video went viral at the weekend, as did the resulting unsolicited friend requests from horny guys. If they’d read our profile they’d not have sent one.

Genuinely hundreds of blocks since we posted.

Didn’t even look at their profiles.

Lemmings to the cliff.

Simples!

Hehe. Predictable but amusing....yes they blocked me....proving my point. Thank you."

Good to know.

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By *oni-massage-guyMan
4 weeks ago

Fareham

"Our latest video went viral at the weekend, as did the resulting unsolicited friend requests from horny guys. If they’d read our profile they’d not have sent one.

Genuinely hundreds of blocks since we posted.

Didn’t even look at their profiles.

Lemmings to the cliff.

Simples!

Hehe. Predictable but amusing....yes they blocked me....proving my point. Thank you.

Good to know."

Touche!!

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By *artfordBlokeMan
4 weeks ago

Dartford

Love my block list, it's 30% pre emotive, the rest are people who won't take "no, I don't want your cock in my arse" for an answer

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By *he SmithsCouple
4 weeks ago

East Devon & London

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By *he SmithsCouple
4 weeks ago

East Devon & London

"Our latest video went viral at the weekend, as did the resulting unsolicited friend requests from horny guys. If they’d read our profile they’d not have sent one.

Genuinely hundreds of blocks since we posted.

Didn’t even look at their profiles.

Lemmings to the cliff.

Simples!

Hehe. Predictable but amusing....yes they blocked me....proving my point. Thank you."

And you wonder why?!

This site is about having fun with people on your wavelength. Yours is so different to ours!

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By *herrybakewellCouple
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Blocking removes all the drama and bullshit.

If someone isn't looking for the same as us, there's no point seeing each other's profiles again.

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By *ever2old4toysCouple
4 weeks ago

Abingdon

Normally I'll ignore and then if they send a snarky comment that shows they feel entitled to our time I'll block.

Also anyone who barges in with their fantasy without even asking ours.

Literally had a guy start a message "Hello Cuck!" when we have nothing that suggests we like that shit (we don't!).

Blocked that guy without reading the rest of the message.

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By *heYorkshireGentMan
4 weeks ago

Leeds

I don’t usually block just for the sake of it but my block list is rather long now I’ve checked it

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"We're quick to block. Life's way too short to worry about things like that"

This 💯%

Its just a permanent filter to me/us, seldom personal. 🤷‍♂️

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By *hinstrapMan
4 weeks ago

sheffield

I've never blocked anyone yet....it doesn't help if I get messages haha

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By *oni-massage-guyMan
4 weeks ago

Fareham

I'm a block retaliater. My block list is just returning the favour if I know 100% they've blocked me. How very dare they!!!

Pathetic I know

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By *forfuntimesCouple
4 weeks ago

Sheffield

Literally have 100's on our block list - usually try and be polie with a no thanks etc, but then just get the persistent idiots, or some really verbally agressive idiots (always report these ones)...

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By *pslad99Man
4 weeks ago

pinewood

Must say I have a lot also many are men who I kinda let down nicely but keep coming back time after time

Say I’m not into men nor bi on profile.

Don’t like doing it as I feel bad but no is no.

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