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When did planning meets become so hard?!

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By *tagvixen89 OP   Couple
18 weeks ago

Midlands

We are close to giving up. Looking forward couples to meet for full swap. Week nights are easiest for us

Maybe down to location but it’s becoming very difficult to get anything planned in

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Week nights is going to difficult for most people the weekend is the only time we could ever arrange a meet best of luck tho

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By *r JMan
18 weeks ago

Helston

Don’t give up …. In the long run it’s worth it

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By *ustus5555Woman
18 weeks ago

Mansfield


"We are close to giving up. Looking forward couples to meet for full swap. Week nights are easiest for us

Maybe down to location but it’s becoming very difficult to get anything planned in "

If you could do a Friday night I would happily meet with you guys via my cpls profile. Unfortunately I smoke tho . Sooo 🤷

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By *aomilatteCouple
18 weeks ago

Midlands


"We are close to giving up. Looking forward couples to meet for full swap. Week nights are easiest for us

Maybe down to location but it’s becoming very difficult to get anything planned in "

Clubs are probably your best chance, though Fridays and Saturdays are busiest.

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By *carlettxWoman
18 weeks ago

Essex

This is why we do the clubs

Less flakey

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By *enlikesbothMan
18 weeks ago

york area or visiting


"We are close to giving up. Looking forward couples to meet for full swap. Week nights are easiest for us

Maybe down to location but it’s becoming very difficult to get anything planned in "

It’s always hard but it’s always been worth it when it happens

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By *ackonceagain1777Couple
18 weeks ago

West Mids

Clubs definitely, it's way too hard on here!

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By *lubBullRqdCouple
14 weeks ago

Skelmersdale

We have arranged to have meets at club from this site with single guys . That itself is difficult because unless they get a guarantee they won't turn up. The idea is basically if it don't work out their may be options at the club . But that isn't great either because the few guys that turn up may not be what she likes .

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By *mandaxxx34Woman
14 weeks ago

london

I agree. Plus safety

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
14 weeks ago

Gillingham

We never have any issues to be honest. We make our profile as comprehensive as possible, without making it too long, and when people have read it and understand it, we can cut out a huge amount of small talk and get straight to the point.

I think many people get caught up with the idea that they want to "make a connection" with someone but only intend to fuck them once. We have made great connections and friends, but not through here, we've met them in person at clubs. If we meet someone from here, then it's simple, are they verified? Are they attractive? Are they into the same things? Are they local?...if yes and we can accommodate...then go for it.

Don't overthink it...it's just sex, not a new relationship.

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By *sianpearlWoman
14 weeks ago

swindon

Planning a meet is fine but people turning up is the problem most dont

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By *ewtfaceMan
14 weeks ago

Bracknell

Sometimes seems like there are a lot of stars that all need to line up perfectly. Often seems to be a reason why one party or the other can't do it.

Not a criticism; just the way life is; we all have busy stuff going on as well as sexy time.

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By *aveonMan
14 weeks ago

Dartford

Tend to agree - some do over think a meet and understand some love to plan - I’m very much spur of the moment let’s have fun and hope to find others

Problem I’m seeing is that something has changed on fab where the profile status is not as accurate as before, says someone in a search is online, click the profile to find it’s not been online for a considerable time - and therefore miss people

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By *ordpele2Man
14 weeks ago

London, Herts, Bucks, Costa Del Sol

Definitely take the advice and be patient. Try going to a club where you may get a lot more connections and build up some friends , it worked for me.

I have built some connections on here as well and have a few with a view to a meet . This may take time as life gets in the way but as long as both know you’ll have something to look forward to. Best of luck x

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By *ongAndThick123Man
14 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

I’ve noticed meets are becoming flakier. I’ve had 6 no shows in the last month. (And zero actual meets).

Every time they are “on the way” and then vanish into thin air.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Trouble is finding someone genuine!

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By *lubchuckerMan
14 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

And there's also the fact that a lot of the time the genuine reliable ones aren't gym bodied adonis's so not attractive enough so it works both ways.

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By *illjoyCouple
14 weeks ago

Newport

We just go with the flow and have zero expectations, I’d say 80% of people on here just want to wank and chat about the thought of a meet. Then they either make an excuse or they disappear, either way they get blocked so they won’t mess us around anymore.

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By *ecret-64Couple
14 weeks ago

Wrexham

We find it extremely hard.

We are looking for a bi fem couple. My wife has needs that include other ladies.. we really struggle to find just fem on fem meets!

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
14 weeks ago

South Wales

Planning meets is always tricky. Finding someone available when we’re free can be difficult especially as our time is limited to when our children are not home. This is why club meets can be a lot easier to organise xx

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By *plejoy FabMan
14 weeks ago

London

Go to a party. Shows willing and you meet people there. Also feedback is gold dust for people who are serious

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By *osh blokeMan
14 weeks ago

hereford


"We just go with the flow and have zero expectations, I’d say 80% of people on here just want to wank and chat about the thought of a meet. Then they either make an excuse or they disappear, either way they get blocked so they won’t mess us around anymore. "

After seeing your profile I cant understand why anyone would not show up! Absolute madness.

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By *illjoyCouple
14 weeks ago

Newport

Nerves maybe? We appreciate though how difficult it must be for a single man to meet a couple, so we try and be as welcoming as possible.

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
14 weeks ago

South Wales


"Nerves maybe? We appreciate though how difficult it must be for a single man to meet a couple, so we try and be as welcoming as possible. "

We’re the same…..we try to be friendly and welcoming as they’re taking a bit of a chance turning up at a strangers house! Xx 😄

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

I was invited by one couple on here to join them and they never showed up sadly but I won't name and shame lol. Always on the look out for couple fun though.

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By *heWanderer100Man
14 weeks ago

benfleet

I think nowadays unless you are prepared to go to a club, meets are fewer and further between. And if like me you don’t want to go to a club and feel judged by people, then it’s even harder. I know not all clubs are like that, but an awful lot are very cliquey.

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By *arparkquickyMan
14 weeks ago

Harpenden

I like the clubs, but don’t take the time to get contacts and miss the repeats. I now book a posh hotel and put the date out to see if anyone fancies a drink and some fun, no pressure. Next one near Luton on 14th May.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
14 weeks ago

Halifax

Just one thing I noticed op, you don't have any pics of the male on your profile.

It's something many couples do, just have pics of one party.

That makes it a bit harder to attract other couples, as if you're a full swap, the lady of any couple is going to want to see if there's any attraction to the man.

Miss

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By *eltic connectionCouple
14 weeks ago

Manningtree

Unfortunately fab has become swamped with fakes and fantasists. Until they put much stricter joining restrictions and vetting in place it will just continue to go down hill! It seems to have sadly lost its way, it was a really good site when it started.

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By *heGigglersCouple
14 weeks ago

Stourbridge

We've never had much joy on here tbh. Most of our meets have either been from clubs or as a result of meeting people at group socials

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By *ang average kinkMan
14 weeks ago

Huntingdon

When I first joined I had a lot of luck bit have given up now and started going to clubs.

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By *ddfellowMan
14 weeks ago

wirral

Covid/lockdown was the start of your woes, all those millions stuck at home and bored, stumbling onto a site they would never have found otherwise, pre covid was certainly far easier to get a meet, seems to me loads joined who would never want to meet and just want to talk about it.

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By *outhsuffolkcoupleCouple
14 weeks ago

Ipswich

Are there any local social events that you can attend? Definitely worth it.

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