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By *ingdong11 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Emsworth

I have noticed that quite a few single female profiles on here are married and husband / partner doesn’t know .

Just wondering the reasons and peoples thoughts ?

Not enough sex from partner ? Different type of sex that partners won’t do ?

Thrill of getting away with it ?

I’m sure there are far more married men on here than women of course .

Men seem to get more stick for it than women though .

Not judging .

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By *uvs2snogMan
4 weeks ago

Now living in Spain - Vistabella

Probably the same reasons men do it

Hoping for a discreet shag

The thrill and risk

Learning about new things ?

Doing things they don’t do at home

Experimenting

Pushing boundaries

Probably loads more….

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

There's probably as many reasons as there are profiles.

Women do get treated less harshly. I've often said that infidelity is almost always blamed on the man whoever is being unfaithful. If it's him it's because he's a cheating rat if it's her it's because he's not treating her right 🤷‍♀️

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

Women cheat for the same reasons men do because they want to and because they can. Any other reason is secondary.

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By *ike_looking_forMan
4 weeks ago

Cumbria

Why people do is up to them, try not to judge too much. Though always best to know if there is a chance you are going to get caught and chased away

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By *entfootloverMan
4 weeks ago

Sevenoaks


"There's probably as many reasons as there are profiles.

Women do get treated less harshly. I've often said that infidelity is almost always blamed on the man whoever is being unfaithful. If it's him it's because he's a cheating rat if it's her it's because he's not treating her right 🤷‍♀️"

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By *ungMarried2020Man
4 weeks ago

Halifax

So many married folk on here - most are not upfront about it.

Personally, I’m here because I like the thrill of it and I’m not getting my needs met at home.

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By *ingdong11 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Emsworth


"There's probably as many reasons as there are profiles.

Women do get treated less harshly. I've often said that infidelity is almost always blamed on the man whoever is being unfaithful. If it's him it's because he's a cheating rat if it's her it's because he's not treating her right 🤷‍♀️"

Yep that last bit definitely rings true , not sure why it’s like that though !

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By *ingdong11 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Emsworth

I’m slightly torn , I love the thought of sleeping with a married woman , something about it gets me going …………but I know I would also feel a bit guilty !

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex


"There's probably as many reasons as there are profiles.

Women do get treated less harshly. I've often said that infidelity is almost always blamed on the man whoever is being unfaithful. If it's him it's because he's a cheating rat if it's her it's because he's not treating her right 🤷‍♀️

Yep that last bit definitely rings true , not sure why it’s like that though !"

On here it's because there are way more men than women and a lot of guys don't want to ruin their chances.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I’m slightly torn , I love the thought of sleeping with a married woman , something about it gets me going …………but I know I would also feel a bit guilty ! "

i always think that if I wouldn't like it done to me it's best not to do it to someone else 🤷‍♀️

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By *renzMan
4 weeks ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I've met and had sex with women who's husband's know and with those who's husband's don't know. They 'cheat' for many reasons and I feel it's not for me to judge. I don't specifically look for those married and 'cheating'. The only thing that annoys me and it has happened on occasion, is that they've not told me until after. I would prefer honesty up front, then I decide if I wish to continue.

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By *ingdong11 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Emsworth


"I've met and had sex with women who's husband's know and with those who's husband's don't know. They 'cheat' for many reasons and I feel it's not for me to judge. I don't specifically look for those married and 'cheating'. The only thing that annoys me and it has happened on occasion, is that they've not told me until after. I would prefer honesty up front, then I decide if I wish to continue. "

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Men get more stick because they come on to the forums, trying to justify cheating regularly and often blaiming their partners for it.

Cheating women are hot to many men for some reason, so those types will rush to her defence in the hope of a shag.

Some men and women cheat because they can, some don't get enough sex at home.

Others do it because they have the opportunity ie work away regularly and have a hotel room.

Either way, you only hear their side of the story and what they want you to know.

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By *parkle1974Woman
3 weeks ago

L

There are no "reasons" for cheating, there are only excuses.

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By *orny salesmanMan
3 weeks ago

Preston

I'm looking for married eonrn or couples as I'm married and find it easier

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By *urreypair1Couple
3 weeks ago

Shrewsbury


"There are no "reasons" for cheating, there are only excuses. "

This 100%

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By *ngelLordCouple
3 weeks ago

Newport

22 years together and never

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By *odd66Man
2 weeks ago

Suffolk and London


"There's probably as many reasons as there are profiles.

Women do get treated less harshly. I've often said that infidelity is almost always blamed on the man whoever is being unfaithful. If it's him it's because he's a cheating rat if it's her it's because he's not treating her right 🤷‍♀️"
and people see it as sexy and exceptable for women i feel....

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm not seeing the list of reasons as reasons, that's a cowardly list of excuses.

Why they do it -

Selfishness.

Needs ego boost.

Thinks grass is greener.

The need to expose themselves to others.

Thrill of the chase.

Too cowardly to discuss problems in their marriage.

Because they are -

Deceitful.

Untrustworthy.

Unreliable.

Liars.

Cowards.

Swinging should be about openness and honesty which is what brought me here, however the amount of disgusting cheats men & women spoil it, they aren't swingers.

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