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What are your club pre-plans?

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By *ottm OP   Couple
14 weeks ago

Nottingham

Posted by Mr.

We have a club event booked in and the hotel is booked for next week, so super excited.

What are everyone’s general pre-club plans or “day of the club” rituals? After speaking to some, their plans seem to be very different, which we find very interesting. They’re sometimes mundane or very exciting.

We like to make a day of it as it’s an opportunity to really connect so we will visit the city, go for lunch, we’ll do a bit of research on the city, and go to some ‘city sights’ as a city tour type thing.

We also tend to get ready and let the tension build, make sure we’ve connected, then go for pre-drinks and aim to get to a club around 21:00-22:30.

I guess plans will be very different depending on whether you are a single or couple dynamic too, or whether the club is in the middle of the countryside or not in a city.

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Ilkeston

For me its checking i have everything at least 4x as I’m bound to forget something important like my purse 🤦🏼‍♀️

Then its calming the nerves normally by doing a little meditation

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By *uxurycollectionCouple
14 weeks ago

Port Talbot

Have a drink in the hotel room then head to the closest pub to the venue for an hour. Have a look around and try and guess who in the pub is going to be in the club later!

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By *iss DevilWoman
14 weeks ago

Bedford

I don't have any specific pre-club routine. If it's a local club, I would usually be at work as normal during the day, then make sure I showered, had something to eat and head out. I like to be in a club relatively early, prefer it to fill up on me rather than walk into a club that's already busy (that applies to evening events).

If I'm going away, club is usually an added bonus rather than a reason. Therefore, we'd try to cram as much in that day as possible, sightseeing etc, have food, come back to the hotel to freshen up and then head to the club. Again, relatively early.

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By *ottm OP   Couple
14 weeks ago

Nottingham

I actually like the idea of the club filling up around me! Hubby prefers to go later but I Iove to people watch so I see it as a night of two half’s, people watching and soaking up the atmosphere chatting, then getting down and dirty!

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By *ottm OP   Couple
14 weeks ago

Nottingham

I find myself wondering a lot more than I thought I would about people I meet in everyday life if they are in the lifestyle! But the closest pub to a club would be a guarantee!

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By *ottm OP   Couple
14 weeks ago

Nottingham

Maybe a little drink too? Not too much but need to steady my nerves

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By *uxurycollectionCouple
14 weeks ago

Port Talbot


"Maybe a little drink too? Not too much but need to steady my nerves "

That’s our reason too.

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By *ustus5555Woman
14 weeks ago

Mansfield

It's already been mentioned, but love sitting in a pub having food an a few drinks wondering who else is going to be there. Love it . X

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By *urFantasy21Couple
14 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Depends what time we have. Ideally we like to have a little date before we go to make sure we are connected and on the same page. Usually involve a drink or two to boost the body confidence as well

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By *aomilatteCouple
13 weeks ago

Midlands

We check into our hotel about 3pm.

One of us knits one of us has a nap 😴, because that's how we roll . 6pm we shower and get ready, call a cab at 7.30pm, be one of the first to the club and watch it fill up.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
13 weeks ago

Manchester

Usually we check as early as possible and my wife will have an afternoon nap to prepare for a long night.

Often we will meet some guys for pre club drinks so she will shower and shave all the important bits and give herself a bum clean before putting in her butt plug. Then she will dress in something spectacularly skimpy and highly inappropriate to meet our playmates in a regular bar.

A few drinks, some flirting and groping sets up the mood perfectly

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