FabSwingers.com forum: How did you feel?

By *pookyman OP Man
14 weeks ago

Stockport

How did you feel the first time you shared your gf/wife/partner?

I’d had a few 3sums with ex’s but it was only when I got together with my fiancé that I really became kind of obsessed with sharing her with others.

The sex between us was amazing, probably the best I’d ever had and I really wanted others to experience her so after a while I convinced her to give it a go and let someone else fuck her. I won’t go into great detail about how we got to where she turned into a “hotwife,slut” but the first 3sum we had was extremely stressful and exciting all at the same time.

We’d met a guy and everything was arranged and when he came round my nerves we frayed. They sat on the sofa together and started kissing and undressing each other and I was very turned on but it wasn’t until her was ready to fuck her that the jealousy set in. In was way past the point of no return and I had such a mixed bag of emotions as I sat there and watched him push his cock into her, I was almost beside myself. I felt jealous, angry, excited, and so many other feelings running thru me but as I watched her being fucked by him and she kept looking over at me with pure lust in her eyes I knew I’d set this in motion, it was my fault and I had no one else to blame but myself. It was amazing and I had to just let him fuck her and for her to enjoy it, which she really did. When he’d finished we chatted for a bit then he got dressed and left. She asked me if I was ok, she knew me well and could see I wasn’t handling it but she held me and told me she loved me and it was just sex, no feelings attached. We sat on the sofa and I could see his cum oozing out of her and that’s all it took for me to part her legs and add my own cum to the mix.

After that we we had a lot more fun, sometimes I was there and sometimes she’d come home and show me the mess they’d left in her but it was much easier to control my feelings knowing she was still mine and other men just had the pleasure of her body.

Love to hear everyone’s experiences on this subject.

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By *ussraneCouple
14 weeks ago

Romford

I think you’ve summed up the feelings we get pretty well.

Uncontrollably excitement yet jealous at the same time, it’s the weirdest feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Felt great at the time, I was about 22, I got a bit jealous for a short time, but pushed thru it cause I was so turned on. Now I love sharing my woman if she's up for it.

I've only had 1 relationship since my divorce were the woman didn't want to swing at all. We ended within 2 months.

I kinda need a woman who's on my level of horn.

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By *ecouple76Couple
14 weeks ago

north east

I'm always excited but the first time was off the scale. I know I've had butterflies over the years for many reasons. The first time is the only time I still remember the feeling. I've never felt the jealousy, not even the first time. I kind of look at it as ultimate interactive porn.

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By *untimecouple2087Couple
14 weeks ago

manc

Nervous

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By *pslad99Man
14 weeks ago

pinewood

Was 100% the same but the reclaim sex after was amazing.

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By *ynergyMan
14 weeks ago

Chelmsford

I bet you want to stop it but same time the views to hot to stop it

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By *pookyman OP Man
14 weeks ago

Stockport

"I bet you want to stop it but same time the views to hot to stop it

Exactly this. Several times I was tempted to say something but obviously didn’t and I’m so glad I didn’t. We had tons of fun and she became my own personal porn star/slut.

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By *bitofaslutWoman
14 weeks ago

Cannock

Was about 20 years ago and it was pretty good. No jealousy, everything went great, we all got what we wanted out of it.

Now I'm single, I'm very open to being the third but it's proving a little difficult to find couples who both want to play equally.

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By *ee1967Man
14 weeks ago

watford

Totally loved it. Always the apprehension that it would be jealous. But loved it

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By *pookyman OP Man
14 weeks ago

Stockport

"I think you’ve summed up the feelings we get pretty well.

Uncontrollably excitement yet jealous at the same time, it’s the weirdest feelings."

Thank you. It was definitely a mixed bag of feelings for me.

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By *olds CoupleCouple
13 weeks ago

Louth Lincolnshire

I remember the first time with my ex mrs and best mate back in the mid 70s.The conflicting feelings, knowing it was wrong and shouldn't be happening, stomach turning cartwheels combined with an aching hardon. Knowing you should stop it but your excitement overrides your morals. Unfortunately those intense feelings disappear the further down the swinging road you go.

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By *onnachakeaneMan
13 weeks ago

Dundrum

Summed up well…..can relate to what you describe….

For me it’s an intense mix of fear, frustration, betrayal, anger etc… but the overarching feeling over all else is arousal… but a different level of arousal as all of the above emotions are bundled into it……

Commented on another forum… my Ex GF of 6 years cheated on me with her guy mates… was horrible, anger, sadness huge row and telling her it’s over and then in the moment discovered I had a massive erection mid row 😆🤣 I was hugely turned on by the thought of it…. That was quite a surprise in the heat of battle….. sometimes it’s only when you’re on an intense situation that you realise it’s your thing..

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By *hortntallstuffCouple
13 weeks ago

Perth

I wasn’t there the first time, as much as I wanted to see it I wanted her to concentrate on him without worrying about me, it was at a party and hour and a half later she came out of the room with the biggest grin and I was so relieved. After that I’ve watched her and she’s done solo a few times and sends me vids, such a turn on

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By *aintsnsinnersCouple
13 weeks ago

Tamworth

First time we tried this I was in Asia for a month, we were chatting to a local couple on fab so I said meet them in a cafe for a social and see if you like them and we would meet them on my return.

It was our first experience so she met them in a park cafe got on great and went for a walk in the woods with them.

They asked if she would pose with her for some pics so she took off her dress and posed.

They took it in turns videoing her with each of them.

They both played with her and all had a great time.

She sent me pics of them saying they were lovely then about the walk, the pics, kissing, touching, foreplay, sucking etc

The feeling was weird, jealousy, anger, fear, eroticism etc

Then pics and video of her with them

The most erotic sensation ever

Done it several times since, very horny

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By *pookyman OP Man
13 weeks ago

Stockport

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By *pookyman OP Man
13 weeks ago

Stockport

"First time we tried this I was in Asia for a month, we were chatting to a local couple on fab so I said meet them in a cafe for a social and see if you like them and we would meet them on my return.

It was our first experience so she met them in a park cafe got on great and went for a walk in the woods with them.

They asked if she would pose with her for some pics so she took off her dress and posed.

They took it in turns videoing her with each of them.

They both played with her and all had a great time.

She sent me pics of them saying they were lovely then about the walk, the pics, kissing, touching, foreplay, sucking etc

The feeling was weird, jealousy, anger, fear, eroticism etc

Then pics and video of her with them

The most erotic sensation ever

Done it several times since, very horny

A lot of our early experiences were just my fiancé and the lucky fella. The level of nerves were off the chart for me but I didn’t feel jealous or angry on those occasions. She text with updates she had a camera with her so she could take photos for me to see later (this was before smartphones with built in cameras) then when she got home she’d tell me all about it and show me what they’d left inside her. That was amazingly horny and exciting but when it came to me physically being present all the emotions I’ve mentioned were there, almost every time but I never said anything and as has been said, the reclaim sex was fantastic.

Thank you all for sharing your experiences and feelings.

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By *yeSureMan
13 weeks ago

Glasgow

Cuck wannabe. So waiting to find out

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