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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

wish the weather would warm up so we can go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem being where we live, if the weather is warm, all the place are filled with dog walkers, grannies and kids unless you go at stoopid o' clock then run the risk of being nabbed by the pollis, and in the winter the dog walkers, grannies amd kids have all pissed off but then its too bloody cold and your there sat on ya own

Cannot win

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here

cant get out the bloody driveway never mind anywhere else.

HNY

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Problem being where we live, if the weather is warm, all the place are filled with dog walkers, grannies and kids unless you go at stoopid o' clock then run the risk of being nabbed by the pollis, and in the winter the dog walkers, grannies amd kids have all pissed off but then its too bloody cold and your there sat on ya own

Cannot win"

has anyone been caught by the police and if so what happened?

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"

has anyone been caught by the police and if so what happened?"

It pretty much depends on what you've been doing, how you react to them and how they feel.

Sometimes they'll laugh it off. Sometimes they'll follow you home and sit outside your house with their rooflights going. Sometimes you'll find yourself reported to the fiscal, charged and, if convicted, possibly fined and placed on the Sex Offender Register.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

by law, you cannot be charged by any policeman for being in your car at a doggin venue (so long as its not trespassing), even if your there intentionally or not,only if you are not engaged in any intimate scenario. tho if you are caught, then its down to the character of the officer who rumbled you in action.....they are all different.

i do agree with the posts about the weather tho. but this is where having a mate with a transit van comes in wink wink haha

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


" ............tho if you are caught, then its down to the character of the officer who rumbled you in action.....they are all different.

......... "

Mostly the polis are fine.

Occasionally you'll get some officious or jealous bastard who'll see it as his duty to give your car the once over - they can usually find something wrong if they set their minds to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if anyone fancies some playtime in the wakefield area but is worried about getting stuck in mud or snow in some deserted lane or field etc we have a nice big 4x4 thats more then capable of getting you out again so a quick pm before you go so we know where you are and as long as your able to cover our fuel then were happy to get you out of a sticky spot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not been caught by the fuzz...but we did have a blow out on the way back lol very late at night with charlotte with no knickers or bra on and with only a very short dress lol....went to change it and we couldnt find the special bolt for the alloys grrrr so had to drive back home on the rims, not good pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usualy in them situations depending on the type of locking nut thats fitted i bash a socket on it and take it off that way or use a gator grip socket.

in this weather have a look for the towing eye front and rear of your vehicle...most have a screw in eye bolt but most people dont know where it is as they have never had to use it .

check it out before the weather catches you out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we've had close runs with the police, but nothing has happened... its kind of put me off doing it to be honest lol x

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Well we aint doggers as such but we did visit a well known location out this way 1 night on our way back from a club just to see what goes on.

Upon our arrival at the spot a car seemed to come from knowhere and draw along side with a couple in it. Must admit by this time we both had started laughing rather a lot for some reason.

We did not notice a second car enter the carpark until it pulled right across the front of both of our cars blocking us in. It was at that point i noticed some humps on the roof of the car. This only caused us to laugh even more when we realised it was the Gistapo.

Here we are sat in a soft top 2 seater car in the dead of night and blocked in by plod ???

Plod gets out the car and comes over with 20 questions like do i own the car, have i been drinking ect and all we can do is roll about laughing. Eventually the cop gets to the crunch question as to why we are here only to be met with more laughter from us.

Eventually i think he thought he better help us out and said "is it for courting couple purposes" (very copper speak) well all this did was make us laugh more but he did get a nod from me in agreement. I think around this time he knew he was not gonna scare us and was sick of us laughing all the time he just told us to go.

Our first and last dogging venture but we still laugh about it.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi all does anyone now of any dogging sites in or around brighton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never ever had trouble with the police in the places i go even the well advertised place near gloucester, as for the cold i have been to another place where everyone was in camper vans!!!! posh or what lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi all does anyone now of any dogging sites in or around brighton "

you wont get a reply to that in the forums but someone might P.M. you

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By *tockingloversukCouple
over a year ago

canterbury

AFAIK you have to be "seen" doing something that could be considered by someone as offensive etc.

In reality, the police constable can be the person thats offended ( doesn`t have to be a member of the public complaining ) so if he can`t see you or you are not doing anything offensive he hasn`t really got much of a case

A recent episode of a road police programmes showed the police approaching a car that was very steamed up. The conversation after they spoke to the occupants and said that it might be better finding somewhere else, went along the lines that they themselves didn`t know if it could be considered offensive because the steamy windows meant they couldn`t see anything....I know they would have a hard time in court if they didn`t know if an offence had been committed or not...lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"

has anyone been caught by the police and if so what happened?

It pretty much depends on what you've been doing, how you react to them and how they feel.

Sometimes they'll laugh it off. Sometimes they'll follow you home and sit outside your house with their rooflights going. Sometimes you'll find yourself reported to the fiscal, charged and, if convicted, possibly fined and placed on the Sex Offender Register."

Why would you be put on the sex offenders list for doggin??????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been dogging but in my younger days as a taxi driver I quite often parked in laybys, outside houses or anywhere I could "collect my fare" to be honest.

A number of times I was approached by the Police and on every occasion they first established that the female present was happy with the situation and not being forced in any way then basically had a good laugh as they left.

One female police office walked away and as she did so quipped "make sure you get the full fare from her"

Most Police officers are decent with you if your doing no harm and are decent to them.

There are exceptions to every rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can get registered as if you having fun outside your car they look at it as exposing in public... some coppers just laugh others will do anything to get into "goodbooks" of their bosses... we have given up on dogging a) all sites overrun by boyracers b) coppers checking these sites.. and last its either cold no one there or packed with grannies and their dogs....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well i must be very naive as i have never heard of someone being put on the sex offenders list for doggin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose if you were doing it in Tesco’s car park at midday you might just end up on it

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

It happened in Ayrshire in August 2008. If newspaper reports are to be believed the couple were placed on the sex offenders register.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Suppose if you were doing it in Tesco’s car park at midday you might just end up on it "

Oi thats my local spot lol, only kidding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happened in Ayrshire in August 2008. If newspaper reports are to be believed the couple were placed on the sex offenders register."

That’s only because they done it in brood daylight though, in front of horse riders which included children.

Even the judge said

"If it had even been a more secluded spot or if they had remained in the vehicle, that would have been a different matter."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happened in Ayrshire in August 2008. If newspaper reports are to be believed the couple were placed on the sex offenders register."

You are correct, on Irvine beach during the day in full view of parents and kids.

And the funny thing is the couple that were caught were cheating on the their partners to go and have their fun together in the public eye, you couldn't make it up

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"It happened in Ayrshire in August 2008. If newspaper reports are to be believed the couple were placed on the sex offenders register.

You are correct, on Irvine beach during the day in full view of parents and kids.

And the funny thing is the couple that were caught were cheating on the their partners to go and have their fun together in the public eye, you couldn't make it up "

Lol well now we have the full story completly different. Having said that how could it be classed as dogging if it was only the couple and they where having sex on the beach??

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

Again, according to the local paper.

(name of fiscal) prosecuting at Kilmarnock Sheriff Court, said uniformed police in an unmarked car saw 'suspicious activity' in a parked (colour and make of car).

(name of fiscal) told Kilmarnock Sheriff Court: 'There appeared to be other cars whose drivers were sharing an active interest in the activities of the accused.

'Police saw the accused both get out of the car, take a blanket out and put it on a grassed area. The police then saw them perform a sex act simultaneously while the people in the other vehicles were looking on.

'The accused were perfectly aware they had an audience.'

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Again, according to the local paper.

(name of fiscal) prosecuting at Kilmarnock Sheriff Court, said uniformed police in an unmarked car saw 'suspicious activity' in a parked (colour and make of car).

(name of fiscal) told Kilmarnock Sheriff Court: 'There appeared to be other cars whose drivers were sharing an active interest in the activities of the accused.

'Police saw the accused both get out of the car, take a blanket out and put it on a grassed area. The police then saw them perform a sex act simultaneously while the people in the other vehicles were looking on.

'The accused were perfectly aware they had an audience.'

"

Please don't forget that the laws in Scotland are different from the laws in England.

And to be arrested, in broad daylight, would constitute a lewd and obscene act here. But it is unlikely that an English court would put you on a Sex Offenders Register for going dogging at midnight.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"Again, according to the local paper.

(name of fiscal) prosecuting at Kilmarnock Sheriff Court, said uniformed police in an unmarked car saw 'suspicious activity' in a parked (colour and make of car).

(name of fiscal) told Kilmarnock Sheriff Court: 'There appeared to be other cars whose drivers were sharing an active interest in the activities of the accused.

'Police saw the accused both get out of the car, take a blanket out and put it on a grassed area. The police then saw them perform a sex act simultaneously while the people in the other vehicles were looking on.

'The accused were perfectly aware they had an audience.'

Please don't forget that the laws in Scotland are different from the laws in England.

And to be arrested, in broad daylight, would constitute a lewd and obscene act here. But it is unlikely that an English court would put you on a Sex Offenders Register for going dogging at midnight."

I doubt a Scots court would either but this isn't about going dogging at midnight.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Again, according to the local paper.

(name of fiscal) prosecuting at Kilmarnock Sheriff Court, said uniformed police in an unmarked car saw 'suspicious activity' in a parked (colour and make of car).

(name of fiscal) told Kilmarnock Sheriff Court: 'There appeared to be other cars whose drivers were sharing an active interest in the activities of the accused.

'Police saw the accused both get out of the car, take a blanket out and put it on a grassed area. The police then saw them perform a sex act simultaneously while the people in the other vehicles were looking on.

'The accused were perfectly aware they had an audience.'

Please don't forget that the laws in Scotland are different from the laws in England.

And to be arrested, in broad daylight, would constitute a lewd and obscene act here. But it is unlikely that an English court would put you on a Sex Offenders Register for going dogging at midnight.

I doubt a Scots court would either but this isn't about going dogging at midnight."

Dogging is generally held at night.....

Those that go dogging in the day, in spots where they can be seen by 'normal' members of the public and possibly children, get everything they deserve.

If a court was to start putting doggers onto a sex offenders register, they would only serve to push that form of enjoyment further underground and possibly ensure that the 'harmless' doggers had to look for another activity.

Fairly counter-productive when the police know where the dogging spots are and can control the action (to a point) if they wish to.

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By *s2_ukCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We have been caught. There had been reports of a woman heard screaming in the woods we were in, and no it wasn't my wife. We ended up with a helicopter hovering above us a dog section van and a police car in the car park. My wife at this time was hastily trying to put some clothes back on discreetly which isn't easy. One of the guys who had been watching spoke to the police officers and after confirming that everything was ok with us he apologised for disturbing us and they all went on their way . My wife vowed that would be the last time we ever went out, didn't last long though.

So there are good police forces out there and we seem to have one that is very tolerant of safe outdoor activity

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By *uttorallyukCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

We tried dogging but found the sites too busy with cars in and out shining lights etc, we now prefer quiet spots and meets by arrangement, have met quite a few nice guys from Fab for this "park and play"

My interpretation of the law on sex outdoors is that it's only an offence if a member of the public see's the act and is offended or if the act took place in such a place or at a time when a member of the public may be offended.

ie 10pm on a dark night in a secluded place being ok? Obviously if the police were to appear one would need to be very sheepish and apologetic otherwise the bastards would no doubt find something to pin on you lol

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"We tried dogging but found the sites too busy with cars in and out shining lights etc, we now prefer quiet spots and meets by arrangement, have met quite a few nice guys from Fab for this "park and play"

..............."

Dogging by arrangement isn't dogging - it's outdoor swinging. Nothing wrong with that but it ain't dogging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dogging by arrangement isn't dogging - it's outdoor swinging. Nothing wrong with that but it ain't dogging "

So if you happened upon one of these arranged meets, what would you call it then Jim?

The thing about dogging is, every time you come across some action how do you/we know that it hasn’t been arranged by the people already there?

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"Dogging by arrangement isn't dogging - it's outdoor swinging. Nothing wrong with that but it ain't dogging

So if you happened upon one of these arranged meets, what would you call it then Jim?

The thing about dogging is, every time you come across some action how do you/we know that it hasn’t been arranged by the people already there?

"

The essence of dogging is the unpredictability and the frisson people derive from that. Not knowing who, if anyone, will show up and not knowing what, if anything, will happen.

I suppose you could argue that someone who stumbles across an organised meet is a dogger but there's still no way those who planned the meet are dogging, however trendy they think dogging is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unfortunately jim its evolved just like swinging has, you can also argue by its own defenition that couples showing are not doggers either so does it make a difference if arranged a meet as they weren't doggers to start with, they go to be dogged, arranged or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and Jim we agree with most of what your saying, we’ve in the past asked in the feedback forum for an Outdoor Sex interest/category but it went unanswered, there’s probably loads on here who like Outdoor Sex but have no interest in actual Dogging, but as this site is that’s the closest and only category to describe having sex outdoors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are big fans of outdoor fun however we tend to go off for a walk in the country and find our own quiet spot I.E. a clearing in the woods and not a public car park, Lolly would never be up for that. I have been dogging a few times both pre arranged and turn up and see and all the people i have met that way would consider themselves doggers. The main thing that puts us off these days isnt the police but the underage people that we have found in doging spots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess my last statement killed the thread lol

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By *uttorallyukCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough


"We tried dogging but found the sites too busy with cars in and out shining lights etc, we now prefer quiet spots and meets by arrangement, have met quite a few nice guys from Fab for this "park and play"

...............

Dogging by arrangement isn't dogging - it's outdoor swinging. Nothing wrong with that but it ain't dogging "

Thats why we call it "park and play"

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Not really our thing dogging but park and play sounds like it could be fun with the right people.

Steve

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By *uttorallyukCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough


"Dogging by arrangement isn't dogging - it's outdoor swinging. Nothing wrong with that but it ain't dogging

So if you happened upon one of these arranged meets, what would you call it then Jim?

The thing about dogging is, every time you come across some action how do you/we know that it hasn’t been arranged by the people already there?

The essence of dogging is the unpredictability and the frisson people derive from that. Not knowing who, if anyone, will show up and not knowing what, if anything, will happen.

I suppose you could argue that someone who stumbles across an organised meet is a dogger but there's still no way those who planned the meet are dogging, however trendy they think dogging is."

See above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you get to join in is it then park and ride lol

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

wee gives a hoot its only a lable dogging outside swing if you get what you after the lable dont matter does it really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love a bit of dogging the thrill of not knowing who or how many will turn up and that makes for better fun

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"love a bit of dogging the thrill of not knowing who or how many will turn up and that makes for better fun"

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically as has been said someone must be offended by the act being performed.

however there is the other side for a watcher if the people being watched do not want be watched. Basically the old peeping tom scenario. The best idea is to go somewhere out of the way most of the 'advertised' dogging sites get heavily policed because of complaints, either about number of cars, activity when dog walkers and the like are around or left condoms/wrappers. Single guys going have an excuse worked out if pulled when parked up the migrane because of bright car lights is a good one because you can't drive at that time but will be ok in about twenty minutes. And the majority of the sites up here aren't good any more because of over advertisement and excessive policing

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"wee gives a hoot its only a lable dogging outside swing if you get what you after the lable dont matter does it really "

exactly watch,join in is asked or invited enjoy the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tried "park and play"... had three cpls joining guess what we had a lovely time alone..laughs...at least with dogging you get the thrill of who will join in...

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