FabSwingers.com forum: Advice with lady friend

By *umagain58 OP Man
8 weeks ago

London

I met a woman late last year (not from here) and we had a great time. Sex was amazing and lovely person. I told her about this site and she joined earlier this year. She now has over 50 verification and last week she got 10 verifications. I now wonder if I should have told her about this site. When I spoke to her I got impression she might be used by a lot on here. From what she told me most just wanted to use her quickly and then leave her. I know that was not what she wanted but she keeps going back to find the perfect meet for her. I know it’s her decision but just feel guilty I introduced her to this and she can’t control herself now. Is there anything I can do to help her. I know I meet a lot myself but I do try and make sure it’s what all want and make it enjoyable for all.

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By *cgmcgMan
8 weeks ago

kingston

You can't put the genie back in the bottle. People's views change as they enter this more open minded world. Lucky lady to be on her journey of discovery... She should thank you for that

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By *umagain58 OP Man
8 weeks ago

London

"You can't put the genie back in the bottle. People's views change as they enter this more open minded world. Lucky lady to be on her journey of discovery... She should thank you for that"

Yes true. However I worry about people using her for own gratification and not considering what she likes or not. Did not sound good what some guys did

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By *oubleTrouble666Couple
8 weeks ago

Hampshire

What makes you think that she's not using them?

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By *umagain58 OP Man
8 weeks ago

London

"What makes you think that she's not using them?"

True but it doesn’t sound like that. A kind lady contacted me privately and gave good advice. I think I am over thinking this. Thank you

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By *icecouple561Couple
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8 weeks ago

East Sussex

What is your main concern, the quantity of meets or the one off nature?

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By *AYENCouple
8 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Presumably, when you introduced her to Fab you must have thought her a grown woman perfectly capable of making her own decisions, why do you now think you should intervene? K.

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By *umagain58 OP Man
8 weeks ago

London

"What is your main concern, the quantity of meets or the one off nature?"

Her getting used for others gratification and not considering her likes or not

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By *umagain58 OP Man
8 weeks ago

London

"Presumably, when you introduced her to Fab you must have thought her a grown woman perfectly capable of making her own decisions, why do you now think you should intervene? K."

Yes true I did but did not think she would meet so many. I will leave to get on after correspondence from a nice lady in here

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By *icecouple561Couple
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8 weeks ago

East Sussex

"What is your main concern, the quantity of meets or the one off nature?

Her getting used for others gratification and not considering her likes or not"

Do you think this is happening?

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By *umagain58 OP Man
8 weeks ago

London

"What is your main concern, the quantity of meets or the one off nature?

Her getting used for others gratification and not considering her likes or not

Do you think this is happening?"

It sounded that way from my perspective

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By *icecouple561Couple
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8 weeks ago

East Sussex

"What is your main concern, the quantity of meets or the one off nature?

Her getting used for others gratification and not considering her likes or not

Do you think this is happening?

It sounded that way from my perspective "

Oh well as you say you've had advice privately.

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