FabSwingers.com forum: been recognised ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

wondering if anyone has ever been rumbled by friends or family on here or other sites???...or seen your neighbors in a chat room?

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By *leasurexxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

i was in chat once and someone said see you at the school later!!...i asked who they were and they wouldn't say..just added they knew there was something about me the way i move my ass when i walk lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been recognised, but have had the pleasure of meeting someone who I "could" very easily met in a working environment! And yes, if I did not know she was on here, would have still fancied the pants off her!

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By *hybutsweetCouple
over a year ago

sweetness

met a guy off here first thing he said was did you go to ......... school I rember u u were ugly as hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly different take on this thread.

We've seen a couple of people on the site who we know in real life but don't think they realised who we were.

We flirted with one of them but he was a bit standoffish.

Odd looking at his profile and pics though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a message sent to us on here from a single guy to say he had seen us in our local shop. That was a bit off putting but hey ho.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

Being recognised doesn't bother me now, it's happened three times and they are here for the same reasons as me. Most recently I was recognised in chat by my uncle. Now we always have a laugh in the chat room

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

But what should be the proper etiquette if you do recognise someone?

Do you mention it?

Keep quiet?

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By *orphinCouple
over a year ago

wirral

my hubby is a security guard at a shop and he has recognised people off 3 profiles on this site, he has chatted regually and had a laugth with them in the shop and they know him well from the shop but he has never mentioned to them about being on this site and knowing they are, he said its quiet funny seeing them and knowing what they look like naked etc

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

We were having fun on web cam when some 1 put on chat hi man and Wifey i worked on your house couple of years ago and they even put our road name on chat. Couples we're saying hi man and Wifey from so and so road we have not been on cam when since ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i was in chat once and someone said see you at the school later!!...i asked who they were and they wouldn't say..just added they knew there was something about me the way i move my ass when i walk lol x"

We've had very similar. Got a message from a guy who we'd previously said no to as he was to young and local to us, and he told us, no worries I'll say hello to you at school then. (Named school so knew he wasn't bluffing). Won't tell us who he is, but evidently saw our pics through some kind sole who's on our friends list showing him, nice eh!!! We are so careful with our face pics and was really annoyed, put an update on at the time hoping that said person would own up, but no.

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By *obsrocketMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

"We were having fun on web cam when some 1 put on chat hi man and Wifey i worked on your house couple of years ago and they even put our road name on chat. Couples we're saying hi man and Wifey from so and so road we have not been on cam when since ha ha

It is against chat room rules to put in an address even street name so he was lucky to not get a ban. I'm guessing you wont be planning to use his sklls again in the future.

On an other note I have seen an ex-work colleague on fab but we haven't spoken yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But what should be the proper etiquette if you do recognise someone?

Do you mention it?

Keep quiet?

I personally wouldn't mention it, and I find it really in bad taste when people imply they know people, then decline to say who they are.

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

We didn't know him he worked for a local builder but was embarrassing for the wife as i was stuck between the legs deep see muff diving but has put us off camming ha ha don't mind having a perv on others though

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By *wo shades cplCouple
over a year ago

leeds

A patient had a visitor one afternoon who said he recognised me it was bugging him,he named pubs,clubs etc,we couldnt think where. When i returned in the room he shouted "I rem i saw you at a swingers party in york a while back"

It dont really bother me as im here for me but think a bit of discretion when its a work thing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do people mess about xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was reconised by someone who used to play football for me thing is he lives in Manchester now, i didnt have a clue who he was but he told me the name of the team, asked how my son was etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was messaged by someone whom did not recognise me, and should not be here (IMHO, and I know I am being judgemental), and I revealed my identity to him.

He hinted that we were both in compromising situations, and I reminded him I was single and had every right to be here, unlike him, who was married and playing away etc...

And he left.

It happened a couple of years ago, and I never said a word to his unfortunate other half.

I had to distance myself from her and her family, which pains me to this day, as I liked her very much. I did this because I believe it would be wrong for me to be close to her and not tell her about her husband's indiscretion.

I was recognised by an ex-colleague who was kind of surprised to find me here. We just acknowledged each other's existence and went our separate ways.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We were contacted by a colleague of mine who had face pictures in his profile. We blocked him it just isn't worth the possible fall out. We would never make ourselves known to anyone we recognised either on here or outside.

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Mine was a little different, I was staying at my foster brothers while I was flat hunting. One day I was working a 24 hour shift and had forgot to take my mobile with me. My brother nosed through it. I was still logged on to fab, he then took my phone and showed my sister lol.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I get messaged by people I work with all the time. And have had some interesting meets out of it.

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By *leasurexxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

on a happier note met a guy at chams who goes to my gym..we both looked smiled..and the rest was mmmmmm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being recognised doesn't bother me now, it's happened three times and they are here for the same reasons as me. Most recently I was recognised in chat by my uncle. Now we always have a laugh in the chat room"

What you 2 chat and cam ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine was a little different, I was staying at my foster brothers while I was flat hunting. One day I was working a 24 hour shift and had forgot to take my mobile with me. My brother nosed through it. I was still logged on to fab, he then took my phone and showed my sister lol. "

What did she say about it to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They 3 women at work that I would love to be on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were both shopping in asda once , this guy ( quite cute too

) sort of was shopping close by was looking at me with an almost puzzled look , he asked if he could speak with us , we said yes what about , he just said " I, m sure I recognise you " ,me and hubby thought he must mean from fab , but he then said ...." Yes, loved the pics in readers wives " ( a few years ago had some published ) , we just smiled and he carried on with his shopping

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By *CLCPLUKCouple
over a year ago

Gateshead

I quite like the idea of a guy recognising my gf! Just think it wud be horny known every time they see her they are imagining her naked mmm

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I once got messaged on another site from a woman looking for a sub. Same woman then messaged me again to tell me knew who I was and that she worked with my dad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to xtasia before Xmas and we were sat there then all of a sudden bumped into my old English teacher lol

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

What you 2 chat and cam ? "

We chat all the time on cam, most days in fact.

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By *leasurexxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"We went to xtasia before Xmas and we were sat there then all of a sudden bumped into my old English teacher lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you 2 chat and cam ?

We chat all the time on cam, most days in fact. "

why use this site to do that?

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

We chat all the time on cam, most days in fact.

why use this site to do that?"

Why not? We both happen to be here, have lots of mutual friends and both use the same chat room regularly. Don't you think it would be rather odd if we didn't talk? Besides, chat rooms are in my experience a lot of fun and are not much different to having a laugh with your mates in the pub

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By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Been recognised but then Perrie has her own Tumblr where she posts naked photos and she has over 4500 followers so yeah... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We chat all the time on cam, most days in fact.

why use this site to do that?

thats cool

you get horny on cam and show your bum off?

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

thats cool

you get horny on cam and show your bum off?"

No I don't get horny on cam at all, doesn't do anything for me. For me, chat is exactly that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs b was in chams and her md walked into the jacuzzi and they sat and spoke for a while but she fancied him anyway and also she got messaged more recently by a guy she works with (different job) and they chat at work but nothing sexy as its work lol she goes back to uni in sept that could be fun !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recognised a few people but not said anything.

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By *inkyrikMan
over a year ago

chorleywood

yeah I went to a small party and as I pulled up I recognised a family members car there,

I was tempted to go in but I didn't.

a few weeks later I saw them and they said why didn't you stop?

they were still in there car as I pulled up, a very embarresing moment for me but we have chatted about the life style a lot since

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

We have met 2 couples where I went to school with the female half. I know of another female again from school that is on another site.

I am talking to a guy on fet life..I know who he is and where he works but he doesn't know it's me I chat to him when i go into the shop.

We had a meet with a couple where hubby had worked with him.

Thing is over here you are bound to meet people in everyday situations as the island is so small

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in our early days we met a couple that Mrs N knew before. We still see them now and again in the local supermarket. Lovely wicked thoughts whenever I see them and remember what we got up too.

Another experience we've had is new local people join the site, say Hi and ask for your face piccy. They disappear soon after and you just get a nasty feeling they are fishing to see if the know you. Don't like that. It's very sneaky and Devious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But what should be the proper etiquette if you do recognise someone?

Do you mention it?

Keep quiet?

I seen someone I went to school with on fab and a work colleague on another site. I didnt message either of them. And not told anyone they are on here. I think people should keep quiet unless they want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was out shopping with my son a car screeched to a halt and the guys said "I recognise you from Fab."

I could have killed him the big blabber mouth, thank God my son didn't hear!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was out shopping with my son a car screeched to a halt and the guys said "I recognise you from Fab."

I could have killed him the big blabber mouth, thank God my son didn't hear!!

Lol what a plonker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A kind soul( twat) showed our profile round the whole pub, so now everyone knows what we look like naked. Back fired on him though as most people didn't care. Even had a few of the girls saying I had a nice cock, so not all bad.

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

three people on here from my street alone we know about each other have never played though bit to close to home+ they are all guys a widower and two without their OH knowing so we say hello on here now and again but thats it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my hubby is a security guard at a shop and he has recognised people off 3 profiles on this site, he has chatted regually and had a laugth with them in the shop and they know him well from the shop but he has never mentioned to them about being on this site and knowing they are, he said its quiet funny seeing them and knowing what they look like naked etc"

oh fuck thats me doing all shopping via online ordering now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always bothers me a little if there is anyone I know on here. Its one reason I ask for a face pic in messages. Id be mortified I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently spotted someone I know through my work life, was really odd as I would never have guessed he was the type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

someone messaged me once to say ive just seen u shopping in morrisons. bit of a shock i can say my basket was full of vodka and fray bentos, lol the shame

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive recognised a few yes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES ! and see this couple often in the local park ! I KNOW THAT THET KNOW THAT I KNOW !! lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned up to meet a couple once. We had swapped pics and agreed a time. As soon as I walked through the door I recognised her as someone I used to work with 5 years previously. She instantly recognised me as well. After some awkward chat I eventually said "didn't we work together". We discussed whether we should just leave there, but we all agreed that as we were all adults..... I still meet them from time to time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I messages a lady when I was on here with my old profile. Attached a picture and got a reply straight back say it was so and so from a company that I contracted for lol

Half hour later I was round hers and in her bed!

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By *ane_andrew69Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

I recognised a fried on here, so I invited him to shag my wife. It was nice that we used to travel together to work knowing he fucked her

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By *srsozeMan
over a year ago

Romford

This guy that used to work for me messaged me a while back. He didn't make any reference at all to recognising me tho.

I've recognised a couple of people on the train on the way to work and someone at the gym too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We saw a guy that we've regularly played with at Chams recently in our local supermarket. Obviously as he was with his family, it would never occur to us to say anything. As it was, we both gently ignored each other.

There's also a couple who run a shop in the town but other than making hints to him regarding Monday nights, we haven't taken it further.

They were at Chams last week but didn't engage, so fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On diff site but met a couple who live only a few doors down, always had taughts of em swinging an gladly they are

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

When we first started we saw a uncovered female face pic on a single males profile and realised it wa the woman who works as the driver for the Chinese takeaway/delivery

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By *ickloverMan
over a year ago

Devizes

I think I've been recognised, there's a lady local to me has quickly blocked me and I've not even had the chance to view her profile let alone message her !!! Lol. I'm intrigued !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I've been recognised, there's a lady local to me has quickly blocked me and I've not even had the chance to view her profile let alone message her !!! Lol. I'm intrigued !!!

I block people very local to me in case they recognise me even if I never seen them before

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By *ickloverMan
over a year ago

Devizes

That's possibly why then, it's a shame, but everybody has their own reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went dogging started playing with a guy he was putting on a condom to fuck kaz when he set he new where we lived as his ex's best friend live across from us asked how he new he recognized the private plate on the car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we cirst started our swinging journey on a dicerent site we arange for a coupls to meet us in a lo al put only to be mortified as the male half was my ex boss lol but thought what the hell iwe played lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ecuse typo erors is the phone lol wink wink

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By *erekduvallCouple
over a year ago

swansea

Our next door neighbor is on here,

weve not said anything, but I look differently towards her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Went dogging started playing with a guy he was putting on a condom to fuck kaz when he set he new where we lived as his ex's best friend live across from us asked how he new he recognized the private plate on the car "

He recognised a random number plate? Smart man lol I only know my own number plate thats it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive seen three people on here that ive seen in real life, girl from my local costa coffee, security guard at my work (female) and saw a lady at my gym

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeaah iv recognised heaps of folk, I have a few friends on here I compare meets with and ivchatted to folk that know my family but before I show them my pic I ask them who know etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that I'm aware, but sometimes you get paranoid that you're getting a strange look when out and about.

Oh and theres some twisted sense of humours out there....the folk you contact and send a picture to, then reply saying they know you as a joke.....I've almost had a heart attack !

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By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Too many people are allowing the taboo to restrict them. It's only sex. Who cares who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many people are allowing the taboo to restrict them. It's only sex. Who cares who knows. "

Totally didnt say I cared lol just trying to find an amusing way to let the Costa coffee girl know i know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many people are allowing the taboo to restrict them. It's only sex. Who cares who knows. "

Very true, however some of us like having anonymity for whatever reason, though good for you being completely open and true to yourselves about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many people are allowing the taboo to restrict them. It's only sex. Who cares who knows.

Very true, however some of us like having anonymity for whatever reason, though good for you being completely open and true to yourselves about it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many people are allowing the taboo to restrict them. It's only sex. Who cares who knows. "

Exactly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many people are allowing the taboo to restrict them. It's only sex. Who cares who knows.

Exactly!! "
Yeah but if your in a relationship, your family and friends don't know what you get upto and can go online and see pics of it, thats why I'm discrete. A persons sex life is between them and the person/people there having sex with, no one else.

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

If I've been 'rumbled' I don't know it yet! It wouldn't bother me if friends using Fab found me on here, we're obviously here for similar reasons.

My very close friends (couple) are on here, (right location and I recognise the body shapes and items in their pics). I won't tell them, perhaps it would change (possibly ruin) our friendship if they knew.

Shoot, maybe they know now or was this my not so subtle way of telling them. Oh and yes I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He recognised a random number plate? Smart man lol I only know my own number plate thats it "

It was a private plate on our car he had noticed it outside or house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He recognised a random number plate? Smart man lol I only know my own number plate thats it

It was a private plate on our car he had noticed it outside or house "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was recognised on a bus whilst got my 2yr old and the bloke was quite pushy so got off bus ....not embarrased or anything by been recognised but if kids are with me ...then its a no go ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inecrestMan
over a year ago

West Yorks

There are enough stories in this thread of members being indiscreet and even devious to blow apart the "It's okay, we're all here for the same thing" argument. Respect for others' right to privacy and discretion here ought to be the watchword every time.

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By *estLondonGuy49Man
over a year ago

Harrow Ealing Northolt Uxbridge London

Best yet......my g/f used to be into swinging with her ex. She had a picture ad in a contact mag (remember them?). Although face was obscured she was recognised from the wallpaper and picture in the background....... by her rather randy mother who read the ads with her lover! My g/f was mortified but her mum laughed it off.....although disagreed with her being bi.

On another occasion we had a reply from a guy I know from football (he didnt know it was us when he replied) and we agreed to share id's so that neither of us had an advantage over the other. Thats the only fair way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a few times i have been recongised usually on my looking rough days lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightly different take on this thread.

We've seen a couple of people on the site who we know in real life but don't think they realised who we were.

We flirted with one of them but he was a bit standoffish.

Odd looking at his profile and pics though

I have seen two couples i know on here but they don't know i am on also was strange looking through their pics also seen 4 single guys I know

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I know who most of the locals are on here, they're acquaintances/mates in real life as well as on here - have never been indiscreet in public.

My most mortifying moment was early this year when my neighbour had arranged some builders to come do both our damp-coursing, I'd recently had my hip replaced, was on 2 crutches, wearing my tatty dressing gown, furry bedsocks and even furrier bed hair when the builders arrived...one of them was the husband of a couple from a few villages away that I'd played with on several occasions

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By *drianukMan
over a year ago

Spain, Lancs

Seen a few people on here that I know in real life. Never said a word tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes and the man in question is currently working with my mother we both have had a bit of a giggle about it and carried on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a paramedic found for mum a few weeks back and he kept saying he recognized me even though i told him I've not lived in the area long. Can only guess he's seen my pics on here

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I passed the lady in the flat below mine the other day with her friend. Said hello and both giggled like little girls.I ask them what was so funny?her friend said she knew me from here and had told her friend about me to cut a long story short had a great weekend with both of them

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