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By *erbys_couple OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Derby

If you get viewed by a couple and they don’t wink, fab a pic or message does that mean they don’t like what they see?

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

All things considered OP I'd say yes.

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By *erbys_couple OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Derby

That was our thought too, but they keep viewing us.

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By *ryton 123TV/TS
12 weeks ago

Chatham

Its when you get a message and instantly they go off line.

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By *gooddayforfunMan
12 weeks ago

rhyl

I've found when people view alot there in the middle of debating on whether to go or not or get distracted by other things

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By *enuine MikeMan
12 weeks ago

Guildford

I've had people that had viewed me countless times. Like 10 times a day, 30 times a week.

Message them and no reply. Not even a "No thank you"

Weird

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"If you get viewed by a couple and they don’t wink, fab a pic or message does that mean they don’t like what they see?"

No I don’t think it does mean that but it might be a case of not every box has been ticked so undecided we’ve checked profiles that we really like but there to far away or looking for slightly different things

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By *CatherineJohnxCouple
12 weeks ago

Cheshire/ London


"That was our thought too, but they keep viewing us. "

Not necessarily, could be there is something in the preferences of the profile that discourages a response, for example may say full swap and we aren’t in that space so I wouldn’t message or wink.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
12 weeks ago

Norwich

People may just like your pics and come back regularly.

Others may be checking out the competition

Others may be checking their “looked at” page and you are both stuck in loop

Many different reasons. Don’t really take any notice of the looked at. Do look at people who fab our content. And then if we are both online can happen more than once.

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By *WANDTGCouple
12 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

We have a joint account so we may view a profile more than once depending on each others views, we also may have added them to our hotlist especially if they aren't from our area but do visit at times. So gives the impression we are looking but for valid reasons. Simarlly it would be pointless messaging until they were local.

That's our take on the matter.

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By *erbys_couple OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Derby

Some great points raised. Thanks for your take

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By *nkymikeyMan
12 weeks ago

Andover

I have had someone who has veiw me everyday for the last 4 months.

I belive some people will do more to avoid pain than find pleasure.

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By *erbys_couple OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Derby


"I have had someone who has veiw me everyday for the last 4 months.

I belive some people will do more to avoid pain than find pleasure.

"

The wonderful world of fab!

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By *ellhungvweMan
12 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"That was our thought too, but they keep viewing us. "

If people keep viewing then that’s different to a one off look.

A flyby look could mean anything from accidentally clicked on the profile to love it but too scared to reach out. Or a whole host of other things.

A repeat viewer is definitely interested but something is stopping them - lack of confidence, only one partner is interested, whatever. I find that reaching out to multi viewer often flushes them out one way or the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"That was our thought too, but they keep viewing us. "

I meant if they were viewing me OP. I won't pretend to know what it means for you. I fabbed a few in the mean time

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By * MRS ShyButNotShy MRSCouple
12 weeks ago

Stoke


"If you get viewed by a couple and they don’t wink, fab a pic or message does that mean they don’t like what they see?"

why not wink or message them

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By *ust want fun 888Man
12 weeks ago

nearby

I’ve found a lot of people have revisited my profile but never message or wink or anything like that, would be nice if they did but I just think maybe my clips are helping them out, I really don’t know

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By *antasticMrFucks07Man
12 weeks ago

plymouth


"That was our thought too, but they keep viewing us. "

It could be that they think you are out of their league and are to scared to take their shot, but like to perv on your pics 🤷‍♂️

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By *alcolm XtraMan
12 weeks ago

Northfleet


"I've had people that had viewed me countless times. Like 10 times a day, 30 times a week"

What was his name?

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By *alcolm XtraMan
12 weeks ago

Northfleet


"If you get viewed by a couple and they don’t wink, fab a pic or message does that mean they don’t like what they see?"

Assume it's a fella.

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By *TWboyMan
12 weeks ago

Kings Lynn

I just send a quick note to say I saw they had viewed my profile and were they considering a meet or social. If no answer in 7 days then I block……

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By *ustus5555Woman
12 weeks ago

Mansfield


"If you get viewed by a couple and they don’t wink, fab a pic or message does that mean they don’t like what they see?"

I promise I won't look again.

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By *erbys_couple OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Derby


"If you get viewed by a couple and they don’t wink, fab a pic or message does that mean they don’t like what they see?

I promise I won't look again. "

Feel free to look as much as you want and hopefully you won’t mind us doing the same.

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By *erbys_couple OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

Derby


"If you get viewed by a couple and they don’t wink, fab a pic or message does that mean they don’t like what they see?

why not wink or message them "

We have

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By *big9Man
12 weeks ago

shire

Some people are just really nosey, or sometimes, like me, I'll look several times, trying to pluck up the courage to message!

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By *llGoodFun76Couple
12 weeks ago

Angus

Always nice to say hi x

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By *rystalsswingCouple
12 weeks ago

Galway / Midlands / West


"If you get viewed by a couple and they don’t wink, fab a pic or message does that mean they don’t like what they see?"

Definitely not the case for us! We look at plenty of couples we'd like to get in contact with - just might not be a good time right then! We don't send alot of first messages nowadays anyway 🙂

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By *ubikslongswordMan
12 weeks ago

Rubiksville


"That was our thought too, but they keep viewing us. "

Could be one of them really likes you but the other doesn't?

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By *host63Man
12 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

Of someone looks i always send a. Message and introduce myself and invite them to get in touch.

Will only do it once though.

If I get no reply I won't bother again

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

12 weeks ago

East Sussex

You could always contact them if you're interested.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
12 weeks ago

Herts


"If you get viewed by a couple and they don’t wink, fab a pic or message does that mean they don’t like what they see?"
i suspect it's because they think I'm just too amazing

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