FabSwingers.com forum: Talking to potential playmates and they dissappear?

By *ynergy OP Man
20 weeks ago

Manchester

Me and wife on our joint account spoke to a few people . We finally find someone we like then they disappear off of fab or just haven't been active for a few weeks

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By *iss DevilWoman
20 weeks ago

Bedford

Life probably got in the way or they had their wank at your expense and left.

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By *dc1Man
20 weeks ago

essex and all over the south

"Me and wife on our joint account spoke to a few people . We finally find someone we like then they disappear off of fab or just haven't been active for a few weeks

That happens all the time. Its normally married boored people that want the lifstyle but not got the guts to go through with it. Or worried there wife will find out. Lol

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By *ynergy OP Man
20 weeks ago

Manchester

"Me and wife on our joint account spoke to a few people . We finally find someone we like then they disappear off of fab or just haven't been active for a few weeks

That happens all the time. Its normally married boored people that want the lifstyle but not got the guts to go through with it. Or worried there wife will find out. Lol"

The guy had veris etc, seemed genuine. Just a shame as we was pretty set on him and it's our first time and Mrs warmed to it with him.

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By *lthomasMan
20 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

A lot of people ghost on here, either disappear or leave messages unanswered for weeks.

Don't know why they just can't be honest, in what they're looking for, either real life meets or just chats.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
20 weeks ago

Coventry

This happens, it's fairly normal. Especially with singles. To be fair when I was a single I'd come off Fab a couple of times while I explored potential vanilla relationships. And I've know a couple of women from here do likewise. Plus I think there's lots of other reason, sometimes its just last minute cold feet or life getting in the way.

What is shitty is when people don't let you know where they're at and ghost you. I wish people could just be a bit more honest and not mess people about. Most of us are adults and this is hardly a monogamous environment so it really shouldn't be a problem to tell others you've changed your mind or pursuing a different thing.

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By *abble-onMan
20 weeks ago

Rotherfield

More often than not, unfortunately

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