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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering what your opinions are about a friend from every day life that you have known for years fucking your wife in a sharing situation, has any one crossed this line from private swinging into some one you actually know joining in the fun, whats your thoughts on it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering what your opinions are about a friend from every day life that you have known for years fucking your wife in a sharing situation, has any one crossed this line from private swinging into some one you actually know joining in the fun, whats your thoughts on it?"

This is how we started swinging, wasnt the brightest of ideas if im honest it opened up a big can of worms!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

My opinion is that it wouldn't work. Too much history and the risk that it would spoil a friendship if the sex didn't work out, but I think some people do manage it successfully. Lots of people do become friends after they have swung together though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't do it as think it would get complicated and boundaries could be crossed later down the line, we tend not to play with anyone in the same town and sort of look for meets 20miles plus away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is how we started to it was fun there was no jealousy at all and had no worries about anything else going on. The only problem it had was we enjoyed it so much it become to reqular and the normal friendship we had got over shadowed by the fucking. So we cut it of and went looking else were for it. Now the friendship we had is back to normal and we are still having lots of fun just not with him. It was a good first experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend, (of over 35 years), who was at our wedding, My wife and myself enjoy a 3 some when ever the fancy takes us. Then we have just a normal friendship at other times...BEST OF BOTH WORLDS LOL!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"My best friend, (of over 35 years), who was at our wedding, My wife and myself enjoy a 3 some when ever the fancy takes us. Then we have just a normal friendship at other times...BEST OF BOTH WORLDS LOL!"

Good for you, that's a great set up.

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales


"Just wondering what your opinions are about a friend from every day life that you have known for years fucking your wife in a sharing situation, has any one crossed this line from private swinging into some one you actually know joining in the fun, whats your thoughts on it?

This is how we started swinging, wasnt the brightest of ideas if im honest it opened up a big can of worms! "
agree with that one big can of worms

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Woudnt go there....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering what your opinions are about a friend from every day life that you have known for years fucking your wife in a sharing situation, has any one crossed this line from private swinging into some one you actually know joining in the fun, whats your thoughts on it?"

Would never consider it with a friend we have known for years. Just feels wrong to us. Almost like a family member.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My best friend, (of over 35 years), who was at our wedding, My wife and myself enjoy a 3 some when ever the fancy takes us. Then we have just a normal friendship at other times...BEST OF BOTH WORLDS LOL!"

That's fantastic that it works for you. I would say in most cases I wouldn't cross that line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very good friend of my Hubbie's who he used to work with and has known for 20 years visits us on occasions. Initially he would sleep in the spare room but one weekend we decided to take it further and it ended up with him fucking me.

Now whenever he visits us he sleeps in our bed with me in the middle. Quite by surprise my Hubbie's mate turned out to have an enormous cock. We are all great friends and all love the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A very good friend of my Hubbie's who he used to work with and has known for 20 years visits us on occasions. Initially he would sleep in the spare room but one weekend we decided to take it further and it ended up with him fucking me.

Now whenever he visits us he sleeps in our bed with me in the middle. Quite by surprise my Hubbie's mate turned out to have an enormous cock. We are all great friends and all love the experience."

Good for you, sound like a great set up an loads of fun!

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Definately a rule of ours not to do this.

Not for any reason of doubt and things going pear shaped it's just one thing we are totally in agreement over.

Fair play to those that do.

We have made friends and played but see that differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to follow Newcastle united home and away for years until my chest problems.and 2 of my mates used to come back to ours for fun with Ali after the game on a few occaisions,great fun and total discretion as we can all go out for a drink with the rest of the lads and nothings said

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By *occomMan
over a year ago

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I used to join my best mate and his lovely lady on a regular basis. I even was best man at their wedding!! We did it for years. Best of both worlds. Great friends and great sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have done this with some friends we were having drinks and we all ended up playing as we did tell them we swung all worked out well as they have now joined fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two of my friends have fucked my partner, although it was before I got with her, whilst we were in our 20s.... Ones hung like an oak tree aswell, I know because I once had a threesome with him with a girl years ago. She wouldn't entertain having sex with a friend of mine now, although we often talk dirty about how his cock filled her up when we're fucking...

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By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Why not? It is only a problem if you make it one. You control the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it with friends before but wouldn't recommend it, thankfully mine went well but you can easily see where it could go tits up. I'd never do it if it was my partner, its too close to home and your everyday life. Your just asking for trouble that Jeremy Kyle wouldn't even be able to sort out.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why not? It is only a problem if you make it one. You control the situation. "

No one person controls the situation that's where the potential for trouble comes in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to a party a couple of years ago and bumped into a lady that I work with, it was a very strange atmosphere at work on the Monday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My best friend, (of over 35 years), who was at our wedding, My wife and myself enjoy a 3 some when ever the fancy takes us. Then we have just a normal friendship at other times...BEST OF BOTH WORLDS LOL!"

Same here, we've had regular sessions with our very good friend of 15 yrs when the notion takes us. But most of the time we meet up and have a normal friends get together. We even go on holiday together.

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