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Can you be a good swinger without a car?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys!

I'm sooooo gutted: just missed a meet with a goergeous couple because they're living quite far away from public transports and I don't have a car...

So, my question, can you be a good swinger without a car??

x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I manage fine hun. I just make sure my meets are in places well served by public transport. Or they can come to York and we share a hotel.

By the way, TPE trains go direct from York to Manchester. Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 months into a 3 year ban. pain in the cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have met guys who have got train to mine and stayed the night from london and liverpool..so yes it does happen but rarely!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I manage fine without a car. It can be done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met guys who have travelled to me by train and I've picked them up at the station - no probs about doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't drive and meeting never been a problem for me, but then being a single woman guys are more will to travel to me than women and couple will be to meet a guy, unless you accommodate then a lot will travel if they cant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had guys travel to me...as long as they are worth it I'll pick them up from the nearest station

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met guys who have travelled to me by train and I've picked them up at the station - no probs about doing that "

This is how I usually go about meets outside of 'local' distance, otherwise, cycling works too.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"4 months into a 3 year ban. pain in the cunt"

Ouch! What for? *nosey*

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there


"I've met guys who have travelled to me by train and I've picked them up at the station - no probs about doing that "

I was just about to say that if they're serious about meeting you then solutions can be found, like being picked up from the train station.

If they're not willing to compromise a little then maybe you're not really missing out after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met guys who have travelled to me by train and I've picked them up at the station - no probs about doing that

This is how I usually go about meets outside of 'local' distance, otherwise, cycling works too."

lol i've often wondered what people would think if I pulled up on my bike I don't think it would be as acceptable for a woman than it would a man

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

having a car makes it easier but i recently went to the west midlands by coach from here in west wales for a meet on here . if you live in a major city or town then i am sure that your public transoprt system is good anyway and providing you have the motivation and desire i think it is well possible to have quite a lot of meets on here

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there


"I've met guys who have travelled to me by train and I've picked them up at the station - no probs about doing that

This is how I usually go about meets outside of 'local' distance, otherwise, cycling works too.

lol i've often wondered what people would think if I pulled up on my bike I don't think it would be as acceptable for a woman than it would a man "

You're supposed to turn up then get hot and sweaty, not the other way round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met guys who have travelled to me by train and I've picked them up at the station - no probs about doing that

This is how I usually go about meets outside of 'local' distance, otherwise, cycling works too.

lol i've often wondered what people would think if I pulled up on my bike I don't think it would be as acceptable for a woman than it would a man

You're supposed to turn up then get hot and sweaty, not the other way round "

I think it would be ok if it was someone you have met a few times before who wouldn't mind you turning up in legging and trainers and getting a shower once you was there and seeing you with wet hair and no make up not a good first impression tho I like to look my best on a first meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

mmmh, seems that i'm getting quite often to the point when people are ready to meet me but are turned off by the fact I don't have a car...

That's a proper shame!!

How many guys with cars would never turn up??

Thank you so much for the support though!! (because the girl I was supposed to meet was really really fit!!!!! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I manage fine hun. I just make sure my meets are in places well served by public transport. Or they can come to York and we share a hotel.

By the way, TPE trains go direct from York to Manchester. Just saying. "

Leeds not that far away from York either

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh


"I've met guys who have travelled to me by train and I've picked them up at the station - no probs about doing that

This is how I usually go about meets outside of 'local' distance, otherwise, cycling works too.

lol i've often wondered what peopule would think if I pulled up on my bike I don't think it would be as acceptable for a woman than it would a man

You're supposed to turn up then get hot and sweaty, not the other way round

I think it would be ok if it was someone you have met a few times before who wouldn't mind you turning up in legging and trainers and getting a shower once you was there and seeing you with wet hair and no make up not a good first impression tho I like to look my best on a first meet "
mmm leggings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mmmh, seems that i'm getting quite often to the point when people are ready to meet me but are turned off by the fact I don't have a car...

That's a proper shame!!

How many guys with cars would never turn up??

Thank you so much for the support though!! (because the girl I was supposed to meet was really really fit!!!!! )"

driving crash course is needed me thinks

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I manage fine hun. I just make sure my meets are in places well served by public transport. Or they can come to York and we share a hotel.

By the way, TPE trains go direct from York to Manchester. Just saying.

Leeds not that far away from York either "

That's where most of my meets are. York is a bit short of single horny men able to meet.

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there


"I've met guys who have travelled to me by train and I've picked them up at the station - no probs about doing that

This is how I usually go about meets outside of 'local' distance, otherwise, cycling works too.

lol i've often wondered what people would think if I pulled up on my bike I don't think it would be as acceptable for a woman than it would a man

You're supposed to turn up then get hot and sweaty, not the other way round

I think it would be ok if it was someone you have met a few times before who wouldn't mind you turning up in legging and trainers and getting a shower once you was there and seeing you with wet hair and no make up not a good first impression tho I like to look my best on a first meet "

Or they might want to share the shower with you.

You might be on to something there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met guys who have travelled to me by train and I've picked them up at the station - no probs about doing that

This is how I usually go about meets outside of 'local' distance, otherwise, cycling works too.

lol i've often wondered what people would think if I pulled up on my bike I don't think it would be as acceptable for a woman than it would a man "

I'd be impressed! Roads all seem to be uphill these days - mind though, its not like I ever pull up on my bike, it'll usually be locked up someplace else before I say hello x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't thought of it as an issue...until now....but i'm quite prepared to jump on the train and i'll consider anywhere in the UK given it's with the right company!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's the thing: I'm not so desperate that I would travel anywhere in the Uk for a shag... (not implying you do, btw)

But it is quite frustrating to be told that a meet is not possible when you're living 7miles away

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"That's the thing: I'm not so desperate that I would travel anywhere in the Uk for a shag... (not implying you do, btw)

But it is quite frustrating to be told that a meet is not possible when you're living 7miles away "

I am afraid that for us weirdos without cars its up to us to investigate ways to get there. If I recall correctly, Manchester has a very good bus system, so you could have said you'd get there that way.

However I suspect they used the lack of car as an excuse not to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MORE LADY CYCLISTS IN LYCRA I SAY

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

there was loads on southsea seafront earlier

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Most likely... oh well, they don't know what they're missing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't they have taxis in Manchester?!

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By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I get by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont drive, and to be honest the only thing it stops me doing is going to clubs on my own. However I have a few friends that I can go with so not really a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have problems travelling, i just hop in my leer jet

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

I don't have a car and the only time it has been an issue for me in this context was when the other party wanted me to take something too large for the back of my scooter with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could get an Aeroplane most of our meets turn up on aeroplanes , works for them .

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