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Trying to find my first couple

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By *anked up OP   Man
10 weeks ago

North Yorks

Messaged a few couples, and most couples don’t reply, anyboady know any couples that would be interested in me, I’m verified and jus want chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

It's virtually impossible to find a.couple on here. I've been trying for months - without success.

Messages either get ignored or deleted.

It's the women who are too fussy is my conclusion.

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By *iss KinkWoman
10 weeks ago

North West


"Messaged a few couples, and most couples don’t reply, anyboady know any couples that would be interested in me, I’m verified and jus want chance! "

Maybe a club visit might be easier?

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By *uffsandkinkCouple
10 weeks ago

leeds

If you're interested in some constructive advice I'd rewrite your profile read the profiles of guys who are getting meets and take inspiration from them

Referencing Facebook on your profile is pointless and those disclaimers do nothing

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By *hipdaleCouple
10 weeks ago

Greenhithe

Problem you have is single guys out number thexrest 2 to 1 if not more, the minority spoil it for the majority, most don't bother reading the bio they just look at the pictures and videos , and it depends on what you write in messages and how you communicate, 9 out of 10 messages we get are hi darling great tits fancy a fuck , not a great way to introduce themselves.

Good luck and happy fabbing

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By *uffsandkinkCouple
10 weeks ago

leeds


"Messaged a few couples, and most couples don’t reply, anyboady know any couples that would be interested in me, I’m verified and jus want chance!

Maybe a club visit might be easier? "

But 100% this too

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By *inch of NomCouple
10 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I obviously can't speak for all couples but we immediately disregard guys who have a dick pic as their profile picture. That does rule out 95% of guys on fab but we're looking for something a little more classy or creative.

Purely an observation, not a criticism.

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By *eri24Woman
10 weeks ago

Bridgend

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By *eri24Woman
10 weeks ago

Bridgend


"It's virtually impossible to find a.couple on here. I've been trying for months - without success.

Messages either get ignored or deleted.

It's the women who are too fussy is my conclusion."

Are they not allowed to be?

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By *couseFun2.0Man
10 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Messaged a few couples, and most couples don’t reply, anyboady know any couples that would be interested in me, I’m verified and jus want chance!

Maybe a club visit might be easier? "

I 100% agree on this . Club meets are for sure a great way to get noticed

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By *andPextraCouple
10 weeks ago

North West


"It's virtually impossible to find a.couple on here. I've been trying for months - without success.

Messages either get ignored or deleted.

It's the women who are too fussy is my conclusion."

Fussy. FFS. A sexual experience is not a “oh go on then” if I cant find a costa and settle for a Starbucks is it?

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By *anked up OP   Man
10 weeks ago

North Yorks

Thanks everybody for your advice

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By *as0046Man
10 weeks ago

stourbridge


"It's virtually impossible to find a.couple on here. I've been trying for months - without success.

Messages either get ignored or deleted.

It's the women who are too fussy is my conclusion.

Fussy. FFS. A sexual experience is not a “oh go on then” if I cant find a costa and settle for a Starbucks is it? "

I wouldn’t drink Starbucks 🤨

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By *couseFun2.0Man
10 weeks ago

Liverpool

Coffee nero for me 😉

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By *harAndBryCouple
10 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford


" It's the women who are too fussy is my conclusion."

Wow.

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By *harAndBryCouple
10 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Messaged a few couples, and most couples don’t reply, anyboady know any couples that would be interested in me, I’m verified and jus want chance! "

Your pictures (including your profile pic) are killing your chances.

(Bry)

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By *harAndBryCouple
10 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"I obviously can't speak for all couples but we immediately disregard guys who have a dick pic as their profile picture. That does rule out 95% of guys on fab but we're looking for something a little more classy or creative.

Purely an observation, not a criticism."

Very much this. It's actually insulting to think that guys think that we consider the most important factor in deciding who to meet is their cock.

(Bry)

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By *as0046Man
10 weeks ago

stourbridge


"I obviously can't speak for all couples but we immediately disregard guys who have a dick pic as their profile picture. That does rule out 95% of guys on fab but we're looking for something a little more classy or creative.

Purely an observation, not a criticism.

Very much this. It's actually insulting to think that guys think that we consider the most important factor in deciding who to meet is their cock.

(Bry)"

Your the one with a cock in your hand 😂😂

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By *harAndBryCouple
10 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Your the one with a cock in your hand 😂😂"

*You're

You're welcome.

(Bry)

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
10 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"It's virtually impossible to find a.couple on here. I've been trying for months - without success.

Messages either get ignored or deleted.

It's the women who are too fussy is my conclusion.

Fussy. FFS. A sexual experience is not a “oh go on then” if I cant find a costa and settle for a Starbucks is it? "

As above, I am never going to take one for the team, if I find a guy attractive then yes. Its not about being fussy!

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By *as0046Man
10 weeks ago

stourbridge


"Your the one with a cock in your hand 😂😂

*You're

You're welcome.

(Bry)"

It wasn’t my cock

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By *olte121Man
10 weeks ago

just up the road and first left

You lost it at the point of fussy lol

They are deciding on which bus to catch

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By *anked up OP   Man
10 weeks ago

North Yorks

So if we wanna keep our faces private, what else do we have to use as profile pic, I’ve seen lots of women with tits out arses out etc ….

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By *eri24Woman
10 weeks ago

Bridgend


"So if we wanna keep our faces private, what else do we have to use as profile pic, I’ve seen lots of women with tits out arses out etc …."

Arms? Legs? Torso? Bum? Fully clothed minus face?

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By *ustus5555Woman
10 weeks ago

Mansfield

Speaking as someone that's part of a cpl profile aswell, any & I mean ANY single guy profile that doesn't play safe, plays with bi males , and has pictures or videos of them with thier latest conquest is instantly deleted. 🤷

Don't shoot me, that's the hubby's preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Ok,choosy.is.probably a better word to use.

The the original poster, naked photo or dick photo is a big no no. All you have effectively done is reduce your chances of meeting a couple from near zero to a guaranteed zero, so avoid that.

Also, there is the fact that guys outnumber women by a huge factor. In fact I wouldn't be surprised if it is an order of magnitude.

Like other members have stated, you may be better off joining a club. I'm sure there will be one in your town.

Be patient.and try not to get dispondent when you see that 99% of your messages will not get a response.

Assuming you do get a reply, there is still no guarantee you will meet. It could be a polite No.

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