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Straight but still message a cd why ?

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By *1974 OP   TV/TS
17 weeks ago

Reading

I’ve had a lot of guys who say they are straight but still message a cross dresser who is clearly bi why ??

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London


"I’ve had a lot of guys who say they are straight but still message a cross dresser who is clearly bi why ?? "

What would you bring bi have to do with it?

And they ‘probably’ aren’t straight.

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By *1974 OP   TV/TS
17 weeks ago

Reading


"I’ve had a lot of guys who say they are straight but still message a cross dresser who is clearly bi why ?? "
so why put straight on a profile

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London


"I’ve had a lot of guys who say they are straight but still message a cross dresser who is clearly bi why ?? so why put straight on a profile "

This has been discussed often. People are free to identify how they wish to (and how they perceive themselves). A lot of bi guys won’t put bi as they think it will put women off.

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By *luttTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Duns


"I’ve had a lot of guys who say they are straight but still message a cross dresser who is clearly bi why ?? "

Option one: they’re interested in anyone as long as they’re fem-presenting, and wouldn’t shag a man - thus more straight than they are anything else

Option two: they’re lying to fool women who won’t meet bisexual men

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By *oding2Man
17 weeks ago

marlow


"I’ve had a lot of guys who say they are straight but still message a cross dresser who is clearly bi why ??

Option one: they’re interested in anyone as long as they’re fem-presenting, and wouldn’t shag a man - thus more straight than they are anything else

Option two: they’re lying to fool women who won’t meet bisexual men"

I'm with option two..

I delete people with straight on their profile if they message me.

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By *all me FlikWoman
17 weeks ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

I'm straight but chat with anyone...all part of being in the lifestyle.

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By *r X46Man
17 weeks ago

Liverpool

I get messages from straight guys for sex. They ain't straight, but as stated, there are women/couples on here who don't want to play with gay/bi guys so they are probably hedging their bets.

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By *hunky GentMan
17 weeks ago

east of Stamford

I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).

Why?

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I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight).

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By *r X46Man
17 weeks ago

Liverpool


"I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).

Why?

.

I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight). "

There are plenty of gay guys out there that would like to have sex with straight married men

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By *hunky GentMan
17 weeks ago

east of Stamford


"I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).

Why?

.

I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight).

There are plenty of gay guys out there that would like to have sex with straight married men"

But if we're straight then the answer will always be 'No'.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
17 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Because they can i guess.

Im the old fashioned kind of straight that wouldn't message you lol.

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Ilkeston

People are attracted to femininity and therefore will message.

It also the biphobia that is really common also prevents people from being honest with who they are mixed with the fear of rejection from women and couples

Theres a million different reasons unfortunately

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By *avid 50Man
17 weeks ago

kendal

you should feel proud of yourself he obviously just enjoyed the picture it doesn't matter whether he's straight or bi, beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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By *luttTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Duns


"I’ve had a lot of guys who say they are straight but still message a cross dresser who is clearly bi why ??

Option one: they’re interested in anyone as long as they’re fem-presenting, and wouldn’t shag a man - thus more straight than they are anything else

Option two: they’re lying to fool women who won’t meet bisexual men

I'm with option two..

I delete people with straight on their profile if they message me. "

Well clearly in your case, because you’re a man!

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).

Why?

.

I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight). "
mr here i don’t buy that fab straight crap you’re either straight or your not any guy that wants to meet another person with a cock isn’t straight . There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being bi or gay so why lie to yourself and others

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"I’ve had a lot of guys who say they are straight but still message a cross dresser who is clearly bi why ??

Option one: they’re interested in anyone as long as they’re fem-presenting, and wouldn’t shag a man - thus more straight than they are anything else

Option two: they’re lying to fool women who won’t meet bisexual men

I'm with option two..

I delete people with straight on their profile if they message me.

Well clearly in your case, because you’re a man!"
and any genuine straight guy would look at you as a man genuine straight guys wouldn’t meet you for any kind of sexual play

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Not in your area

On the flip side you get "straight" men on here who ask their wives/a woman to wear a synthetic penis and fuck them in the arse.

Orientation labels on here should be taken with a pinch of salt. Some people change their preferences by the hour.

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By *allandbald80Man
17 weeks ago

Probably near you

The whole “masculine stigma” of being free with your sexuality as a guy plays a big part in hiding behind being straight. I always thought of myself as straight but a few years ago became curious and acted upon his it…enjoyed it and occasionally scratch that itch, so to speak.

Do I now class myself as bi? If by the specific meaning of the label then yes, why should we all have labels? People have curiosities, and if they want to message a guy hiding behind a straight mask, then let them…they might be dipping their toe into a new part of themselves.

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By *1974 OP   TV/TS
17 weeks ago

Reading


"I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).

Why?

.

I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight). mr here i don’t buy that fab straight crap you’re either straight or your not any guy that wants to meet another person with a cock isn’t straight . There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being bi or gay so why lie to yourself and others "
And very well said

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By *hunky GentMan
17 weeks ago

east of Stamford


"I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).

Why?

.

I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight). mr here i don’t buy that fab straight crap you’re either straight or your not any guy that wants to meet another person with a cock isn’t straight . There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being bi or gay so why lie to yourself and others "

I completely agree, but it happens.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Chichester

Who cares

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By *inkyalfieMan
17 weeks ago

hampshire

Some men regard themselves as straight if they are only attracted to feminine. So take it as a compliment and enjoy the attention.

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By *isterMushroomMan
17 weeks ago

Warrington

I’m straight and never would message a Cd/Ts.

However, my profile says that I’m straight and most of the fabs and winks that I receive are from Cds and gay men

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By *luttTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Duns


"I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).

Why?

.

I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight). mr here i don’t buy that fab straight crap you’re either straight or your not any guy that wants to meet another person with a cock isn’t straight . There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being bi or gay so why lie to yourself and others "

If you’ll only meet feminine people, then you’re not bisexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).

Why?

.

I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight). mr here i don’t buy that fab straight crap you’re either straight or your not any guy that wants to meet another person with a cock isn’t straight . There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being bi or gay so why lie to yourself and others

If you’ll only meet feminine people, then you’re not bisexual. "
a man in a skirt is not feminine 😂

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Chichester


"I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).

Why?

.

I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight). mr here i don’t buy that fab straight crap you’re either straight or your not any guy that wants to meet another person with a cock isn’t straight . There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being bi or gay so why lie to yourself and others

If you’ll only meet feminine people, then you’re not bisexual. a man in a skirt is not feminine 😂"

Trans women in skirts are I find. I know as a trans woman I am feminine to general public mooching s out In mine / or bikini on beach / pool on holidays etc

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).

Why?

.

I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight). mr here i don’t buy that fab straight crap you’re either straight or your not any guy that wants to meet another person with a cock isn’t straight . There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being bi or gay so why lie to yourself and others

If you’ll only meet feminine people, then you’re not bisexual. a man in a skirt is not feminine 😂

Trans women in skirts are I find. I know as a trans woman I am feminine to general public mooching s out In mine / or bikini on beach / pool on holidays etc "
your one of the few that do look feminine from the waist up so hats off to you but there’s not many that’s put in as much effort as you have . You do look great but I still wouldn’t want sexual contact with you

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By *he Boy of WonderMan
17 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I’ve had a lot of guys who say they are straight but still message a cross dresser who is clearly bi why ?? "

In a society that now has about 300 genders and sexuality why do we still just have straight, bi and gay?

I’d say men attracted to femininity, gynesexual, would be a useful sexuality option to consider.

By fabs strict rulings if a guy finds a pretty trans girl attractive but wouldn’t pump Sue Boyle then he’s gay…it isn’t quite so simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"I’ve had a lot of guys who say they are straight but still message a cross dresser who is clearly bi why ??

In a society that now has about 300 genders and sexuality why do we still just have straight, bi and gay?

I’d say men attracted to femininity, gynesexual, would be a useful sexuality option to consider.

By fabs strict rulings if a guy finds a pretty trans girl attractive but wouldn’t pump Sue Boyle then he’s gay…it isn’t quite so simple. "

It is simple tho Susan boyles a genuine woman trans isn’t

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By *ryton 123TV/TS
17 weeks ago

Chatham

Get loads of messages from straight men, 90% of the time they are bi but choose not to put it in there profile. Which i don't get.judt wastes time.

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By *igeltamsMan
17 weeks ago

clady

I mean this in the most sincere way possible and not to be taken as dig or insult. 2 things can be true at once even when contradictory. Take the trans ideology for eg. A guy who is a woman even when he/she isn’t . Not always straightforward. Again please don’t send missiles my way. I think get it out there . Discuss dont hate

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By *uckboy786Man
17 weeks ago

London


"I’ve had a lot of guys who say they are straight but still message a cross dresser who is clearly bi why ??

In a society that now has about 300 genders and sexuality why do we still just have straight, bi and gay?

I’d say men attracted to femininity, gynesexual, would be a useful sexuality option to consider.

By fabs strict rulings if a guy finds a pretty trans girl attractive but wouldn’t pump Sue Boyle then he’s gay…it isn’t quite so simple.

It is simple tho Susan boyles a genuine woman trans isn’t "

You're free to believe that but not everyone agrees, so it's not that simple

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