FabSwingers.com forum: When you bring in a 3rd what do you say to them after you finished

By *ynergy OP Man
10 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Thank you come again? Haha no seriously after everyone's cum is it awkward after like thanks mate now you can go ?lol ? I'm asking as a first timer ? Me and my wife are looking to make this a reality this summer

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By *antam AvershiresMan
10 weeks ago

Falme

So I've been brought in as a 3rd and what I've learnt from kink play is to do a debrief of things we liked, would like to try our is anything was uncomfortable or not as fun as was expected to be.

Snacks and drinks help but sometimes they want you away quick so it's a judge the situation sort of thing.

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By *wingingphil69Man
10 weeks ago

castleford

Friendly chat drinks all round you never know it could be 2nds on the menu then.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I find snowballing cum with their wife makes for a nice ending

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
10 weeks ago

Next Door

"I find snowballing cum with their wife makes for a nice ending

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By *icecouple561Couple
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10 weeks ago

East Sussex

We just chat normally. If we were at theirs we'd judge an appropriate time to leave it they were at ours they usually left after a cup of coffee.

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By *_new_memberMan
10 weeks ago

Tewkesbury

Do you have time for round 2?

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By *urFantasy21Couple
10 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

It's been a while since we have but once everyone gets dressed usually a bit of polite chat often about this site x

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By *ogerroger69Man
10 weeks ago

West Yorks

Honestly I always thank single guys for fucking the wife x

Is that weird?

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By *hipdaleCouple
10 weeks ago

Greenhithe

Use to meet a guy he always use to bring another guy with him T use to like the suprise , after we would sit chat and 9 times out of 10 it would end up playing again for round 2

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By *herryEatersCouple
10 weeks ago

East Cheshire

Lol varies wildly depending in the situ and how it went. Everything from "do you fancy staying over" to "we'll have to bring things to an end now as up early in the morning (NOT)"

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By *antam AvershiresMan
10 weeks ago

Falme

"Honestly I always thank single guys for fucking the wife x

Is that weird?"

Not at all, you've recognised the fact they were genuine, not wasting your time and most have acted within boundaries and scenarios that were set forth.

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By *r TriomanMan
10 weeks ago

Somewhere Southwest

"So I've been brought in as a 3rd and what I've learnt from kink play is to do a debrief of things we liked, would like to try our is anything was uncomfortable or not as fun as was expected to be.

Snacks and drinks help but sometimes they want you away quick so it's a judge the situation sort of thing. "

Love the idea of a debrief, makes subsequent meets so much more enjoyable.

Also, is there a PowerPoint presentation? 🤣

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By *antam AvershiresMan
10 weeks ago

Falme

Yes, but that's before and it's the "Zapp Branigan's guide to making sweet sensual love"

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By *ikerjohn123Man
10 weeks ago

Whickham

"Honestly I always thank single guys for fucking the wife x

Is that weird?"

Not in my experience. A good shake of the hand often too. Maybe as a sign of respect that the other guy is not a bullshitting wannabe like many on here?

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
10 weeks ago

Bristol

Ask for a review on TripAdvisor

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
10 weeks ago

kent

Fancy a cuppa? ☕️

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By *ichaelsmyMan
10 weeks ago

Douglas

"Thank you come again? Haha no seriously after everyone's cum is it awkward after like thanks mate now you can go ?lol ? I'm asking as a first timer ? Me and my wife are looking to make this a reality this summer "

set the ground rules, expectations etc before hand. hopefully avoid the negatives

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
10 weeks ago

South Wales

I don’t really find it awkward at all. There’s normally a bit of a chat, there has been known to be a handshake which is nice. Depending on where we are either a club or at home there can be chance for a drink or a cup of tea depending. Also, sometimes round 2 if there’s time xx 😉

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
10 weeks ago

cardiff

Thank you x

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By *as0046Man
10 weeks ago

stourbridge

Normally y thank them but get no response when they e got ball gags in there mouths 🤷🏻‍♂️

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By *hunky GentMan
10 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *hunky GentMan
10 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Same time tomorrow??

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By *xfordjohnMan
10 weeks ago

Oxford

Having been in both situations, husband and extra guy, I've never experienced any awkwardness; usually friendly smiles, chats, cup of tea or whatever.

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By *ondonMagicCouple
10 weeks ago

Durham

So for us, we only meet for a threesome at a club incase it gets wierd.we have 1 person who we meet at our home and we’ve known her for years so it’s safer

Mr x

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By *ynergy OP Man
10 weeks ago

Chelmsford

"I don’t really find it awkward at all. There’s normally a bit of a chat, there has been known to be a handshake which is nice. Depending on where we are either a club or at home there can be chance for a drink or a cup of tea depending. Also, sometimes round 2 if there’s time xx 😉"

Incredible figure

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By *ocketman81Man
10 weeks ago

Ennis

Think it's a case of reading the room to be honest, I recently met with a couple and afterwards there was some kissing and cuddling with Mrs and chats, then left. Have been back with Mrs on her own since amd have plans in motion for another meet with her.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
10 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Good job, now fuck off

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

It depends on how much time you have. We have had “fuck and go” meets and also meets where we have long chats in between rounds where the guy is naked, I’m partially clothed in lingerie and hubby is fully dressed but it’s never been awkward

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By *ony MannMan
10 weeks ago

South Newton

Just do what feels comfortable. If you want to chat chat. It's a good idea to agree the verification, in the end do what you are comfortable with, chat it over with your wife.

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By *ichaelsmyMan
10 weeks ago

Douglas

my actual experience was when i was staying down south for a couple of days. got chatting to a couple, they said what they were looking for. but they couldn't make the first night and then let me know that they could on the second night if that was ok with me.

i met them outside the hotel to avoid any strangeness, went for a couple of drinks in the bar to settle nerves etc.

i gave the husband a room key, the wife and i went up together. fun was had and all was good after.

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By *scarpatMan
10 weeks ago

sexy town

I was a regular for a couple. At first id judge a good time to leave but after a while the the chat flowed well after sex and the wife would be reluctant to let me go. I was fine with this but the husband realized she was getting feelings for me and nipped my visits in the bud.

Shame as she was beautiful and an amazing fuck! Hay ho!

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By *eedsmale36Man
10 weeks ago

Leeds

I normally say thanks for a great time and I will leave you in peace to reclaim your wife.

He’s normally eating her cunt as I exit the door.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
10 weeks ago

Cannock

"I normally say thanks for a great time and I will leave you in peace to reclaim your wife.

He’s normally eating her cunt as I exit the door."

As a cuckold couple that sounds about right !

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
10 weeks ago

North West mainly. Sometimes London/SouthWest

As the person being brought in I have never had any awkwardness as we usually have a good rapport before meeting. After we tend to chat about the evening and generally, have a laugh and a cuppa and then I’ll go on my merry way to leave the couple to do whatever they like to do after such a meet.

If I was ever bringing a 3rd person in, I’d ask for a Mexican wave after 😁

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By *eedsmale36Man
10 weeks ago

Leeds

"I normally say thanks for a great time and I will leave you in peace to reclaim your wife.

He’s normally eating her cunt as I exit the door.

As a cuckold couple that sounds about right !"

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By *eyeYCouple
10 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Goodnight to the last as she had her husband outside to pick her up.. 😉🔥😈

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By *ornycougaWoman
10 weeks ago

SOMEWHERE IN AFRICA

Offer a cuppa/wine then lie around a chat and laugh

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By *as0046Man
10 weeks ago

stourbridge

Normally say with that was fun. Hopefully your dog won’t watch us next time

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By *od ThrusterMan
10 weeks ago

Newport Pagnell

As the third it has varied with each couple. Some want you to leave straight away, some you sit around chatting naked and maybe go at it again, or maybe not, and others you get dressed and chat for a bit before leaving.

I've never felt awkward yet, hopefully none of them have either.

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By *mateur100Man
10 weeks ago

nr faversham

First time we tried it, the guest finished, said thanks and happy new year before leaving our hotel room.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
10 weeks ago

Honeysuckle lane

Thank you for turning up & hope you enjoyed the experience with us I will leave you a verification bye

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
10 weeks ago

Coleraine

We always try and get to know the guy on here a little bit first and once we feel comfortable set up a social. If after that things are all good for a meeting we make a first meeting a no hurry scenario. Chat first for a while before play. After all of this it makes things far more comfortable and relaxed after we are finished.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
10 weeks ago

Manchester

Lie around together, cuddle, chat, laugh, have drinks, etc. I'm not a toy or there just to fulfill their desires and leave. I wouldn't have have sex with a couple who made me feel like that.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
10 weeks ago

wonderland.

We only really have people join us at clubs... so tend to just leave... its not as rude as it sounds as we would all be leaving whatever room... or its in a group situation so possibly nothing is said when they leave only time we have had a 3rd as such, they have been good friends, so we laugh and go back to doing none sexual things

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By *ellhungvweMan
10 weeks ago

Cheltenham

In my experience everyone is pretty spent and you all just kind of fall into that post coital heap and the wind down chat just sort of happens. You don’t need to over think it.

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