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"Are you single in the scene but would love to find a partner in the lifestyle? To have an ENM relationship and swing, whether that's with them or solo, stag vixen, hotwife, hothusband, cuckold, open relationship etc in whatever dynamic appeals to you. Do you find it difficult to meet someone in the lifestyle already? Do you find if difficult to bring up this lifestyle when you meet someone on a 'vanilla' dating app? Would you be interested in a non-monogamous dating event/social? Xx" Yes definitely | |||
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"I would 100% be interested in this!! As someone in the lifestyle, finding a relationship is so difficult. As soon as it’s mentioned on the traditional dating sites people are either put off by it, or think you’re only after one thing. I’d love to find a meaningful relationship with someone I could still be involved in the lifestyle with, ideally with a hotwife or stag/vixen dynamic 🫶🏻" Couldn't agree more | |||
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"I would 100% be interested in this!! As someone in the lifestyle, finding a relationship is so difficult. As soon as it’s mentioned on the traditional dating sites people are either put off by it, or think you’re only after one thing. I’d love to find a meaningful relationship with someone I could still be involved in the lifestyle with, ideally with a hotwife or stag/vixen dynamic 🫶🏻" Exactly this! | |||
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"Are you single in the scene but would love to find a partner in the lifestyle? To have an ENM relationship and swing, whether that's with them or solo, stag vixen, hotwife, hothusband, cuckold, open relationship etc in whatever dynamic appeals to you. Do you find it difficult to meet someone in the lifestyle already? Do you find if difficult to bring up this lifestyle when you meet someone on a 'vanilla' dating app? Would you be interested in a non-monogamous dating event/social? Xx" Actively looking. Not going to find a partner in the lifestyle on a vanilla dating site | |||
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"Are you single in the scene but would love to find a partner in the lifestyle? To have an ENM relationship and swing, whether that's with them or solo, stag vixen, hotwife, hothusband, cuckold, open relationship etc in whatever dynamic appeals to you. Do you find it difficult to meet someone in the lifestyle already? Do you find if difficult to bring up this lifestyle when you meet someone on a 'vanilla' dating app? Would you be interested in a non-monogamous dating event/social? Xx" absolutely brilliant idea. Being a single male makes meeting like minded people near on impossible. And to be able to experience the feeling of liberation of being able to chat openly would be amazing 😉 | |||
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"Are you single in the scene but would love to find a partner in the lifestyle? To have an ENM relationship and swing, whether that's with them or solo, stag vixen, hotwife, hothusband, cuckold, open relationship etc in whatever dynamic appeals to you. Do you find it difficult to meet someone in the lifestyle already? Do you find if difficult to bring up this lifestyle when you meet someone on a 'vanilla' dating app? Would you be interested in a non-monogamous dating event/social? Xx" Yes to all of that! | |||
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"Are you single in the scene but would love to find a partner in the lifestyle? To have an ENM relationship and swing, whether that's with them or solo, stag vixen, hotwife, hothusband, cuckold, open relationship etc in whatever dynamic appeals to you. Do you find it difficult to meet someone in the lifestyle already? Do you find if difficult to bring up this lifestyle when you meet someone on a 'vanilla' dating app? Would you be interested in a non-monogamous dating event/social? Xx" Definitely interested | |||
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"Absolutely this 💯. Social/events for meeting in this form would really work and should be popular. " Watch this space 😉 | |||
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"Can couples or half a couple hang out in this group?" If in an open relationship looking for another partner to date in the scene then yeah 😊 | |||
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"I'd love to find someone who is into swinging to enjoy the journey/experience together...unfortunately I'm more likely to find the needle in the haystack first x" Or them being on the other end of the country! | |||
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"Trouble is, everything seems fine and open to begin with, then their feelings get in the way." ENM relationships and feelings aren't mutually incompatible. It's a relationship, not a FB/FWB situation. Both my current partners I met on Fab. My previous long term partner I met on Fab. An ENM themed social or event would be lovely. My only concern would be that as with any vanilla site, here or a normal speed dating event, you'll get a lot of people attending that aren't really looking for an ENM relationship, just another potential avenue to hook up. But you run that risk whatever avenue you choose of course. There's no better way to find an ENM relationship than to not look for it in my experience. It's something that progresses naturally over time and can't be forced. Find a FWB not averse to the idea and take it from there, and treat it as you would any normal relationship. 🤷♂️ | |||
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"Absolutely this 💯. Social/events for meeting in this form would really work and should be popular. Watch this space 😉" Would love to get involved in this, please do keep us posted | |||
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"I would love to find someone in the scene who can put up with me lol " I doubt youd struggle to find someone lol | |||
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"Yes. Personally I find for those of us that understand this lifestyle, that see it for its strengths and how it can empower yourself and a relationship. I think meeting people in a social setting that would allow for a more “air to date” setting then a sexual one, would be a of great benefit for all parties to put themselves across to a number of persons in a fun and social way, with still keeping allowing a tone of “more then sex”. If we know the people we are chatting up are swingers in the first place it takes a huge amount of the pressure off. It allows us to just crack on with the normal dating thing and getting to know each other. Because we already know that if things work out down the line the swinging isn't an issue and it's something you're most likely to enjoy together as a couple. Just removes all the awkwardness around bringing up the subject, wasted time invested and rejection because of sexual/relationship preference. Sadly it is a small scene (most people don't want to swing) so selection is limited. However in our/experience and my own of single dating (where I was always un front about it) more people especially women are intrested than you think. Maybe it's because of the exposure the scene gets in the media these days. As long as they've established your not a creep first you'd be suprised how many are open minded and will at least have an mature adult conversation about it. Mr | |||
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"ENM ~ Swing ~ Date event coming soon 😉🙌🏻 " I'd be interested in such an event | |||
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"Yes, would love to meet someone 'open' to the idea. Was married to a jealous'prude' for a long time, so I 1. Won't make that mistake again, and 2. Intend to make up for wasted years. Trouble is, everything seems fine and open to begin with, then their feelings get in the way." Feelings wtf? | |||
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"I would 100% be interested in this!! As someone in the lifestyle, finding a relationship is so difficult. As soon as it’s mentioned on the traditional dating sites people are either put off by it, or think you’re only after one thing. I’d love to find a meaningful relationship with someone I could still be involved in the lifestyle with, ideally with a hotwife or stag/vixen dynamic 🫶🏻" I've given up. | |||
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"ENM ~ Swing ~ Date event coming soon 😉🙌🏻 " I'll be keeping an keen eye out for this 👀 | |||
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"I am not currently seeking. But when I was actually single and looking it was fucking hard work pulling out the people who are actually ethically non monogamous from the sea of actually just arseholes who like to fuck around. And that's before factoring in compatibility and attraction 💜" Ditto | |||
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"Can couples or half a couple hang out in this group?" Anyone can hang there bits n bobs out here i presume | |||
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"This would be great to find as trying to find someone to share the lifestyle with in the vanilla world is not the easiest. Though whilst it would be great to find someone on here that is looking for that too its not what I imagine most people are on here for and not something that can be rushed into. If it happens it happens I would say." Well said | |||
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"100% would love to meet someone to date that was into this lifestyle so yea" Hey - need more folk like you in Glasgow | |||
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"100% would love to meet someone to date that was into this lifestyle so yea Hey - need more folk like you in Glasgow Oh it sounds like you have an interesting set up | |||
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"Are you single in the scene but would love to find a partner in the lifestyle? To have an ENM relationship and swing, whether that's with them or solo, stag vixen, hotwife, hothusband, cuckold, open relationship etc in whatever dynamic appeals to you. Do you find it difficult to meet someone in the lifestyle already? Do you find if difficult to bring up this lifestyle when you meet someone on a 'vanilla' dating app? Would you be interested in a non-monogamous dating event/social? Xx" Actively looking ..... not easy | |||
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