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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im not being rude but i just don't understand why people give them advise, isn't it just like giving people a cheat sheet on how to bed people? People are not responding or meeting them for a reason.

If they use the information that you give them then they could just change the way they are on here to just get a meet. its probably coming out wrong as I'm all for people doing well on here but shouldn't it be down to the individual to work this out for themselves instead of just getting a crib sheet?

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By *neplusserMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Why didnt you just write this in the discussion already going on about advice to singles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the problem is a woman only as a humor when it suits her , iv recently been blocked by a woman by saying you need a spanking , didn't mean owt by it but got blocked , and she is in to swinging lol sticks 666 man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the problem is a woman only as a humor when it suits her , iv recently been blocked by a woman by saying you need a spanking , didn't mean owt by it but got blocked , and she is in to swinging lol sticks 666 man"

And heres me thinking romance is dead! The cheek of some people mate eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the problem is a woman only as a humor when it suits her , iv recently been blocked by a woman by saying you need a spanking , didn't mean owt by it but got blocked , and she is in to swinging lol sticks 666 man"

there are men that fall into that category too - it is not gender specific

the other thing you have to consider the written word does not carry the same inflections as the spoken so context can often be lost in translation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever happened to giving people a helping hand ?

To me it is just second nature that if someone asks for help, you try and give it.

That applies to all things in life, not just swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to worry. If you look at the guys profile before and after advice has been given there's only a minority who actually pay any heed to what's been said

Lots ask for all this advice then don't take it.

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

I think its quite reasonable for most people to have not a clue how to chat-up or approach another person.

Making friends is a skill we are all born with, then as we get older it tends to become more and more difficult to make friends.

This is a lesson we learned when we first ventured into this hobby when we realised that we had never before actively looked for friends.

Outside of a hobby like this friends tend to 'happen along', maybe a neighbour, a work mate, the parents of a friend of your child... you're mates at the pub...

Knowing what to do and say when making a point of trying to make some sort of friendship, even for one session of sex for most people isn't all that easy.

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