FabSwingers.com forum: How far would you travel…

By (user no longer on site) OP
1 week ago

Just wondered how far people are prepared to travel for the right meet. And is there such a thing as too close…

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By *ast Lothian couple 888Couple
1 week ago

east lothian

We’d travel a couple of hours for the right people/person . We wouldn’t meet anyone we could bump into daily

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By *arysueCouple
1 week ago

West Wales

Had a guy travel from London , just wanted anal lol

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
1 week ago

furnace

Furthest I have traveled has been south coast for long term friend

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By *ounmacCouple
1 week ago

Market Harborough

3 hours for our first meet but we did stay for the weekend with them

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By *eeshellsCouple
1 week ago

Reading

We traveled 2 hours for our first social and then 2 hours to meet the same couple for play. When you know it's working, it's working.

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
1 week ago

furnace

Can be anywhere in uk inside two hour flight

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By *iss DevilWoman
1 week ago

Bedford

Long before Fab, when I was young and naive, I travelled to south London (on public transport) to meet someone I was chatting to on another site. Nowadays, I am not prepared to travel, but I am happy to accommodate. However, I would still not arrange a meet with anyone who is over 1h drive. I would travel to a good club, but that would be with my partner or my FWB driving, and we'd normally at least have an overnight in the area.

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By *heshire fun couple 123Couple
1 week ago

Nantwich

We tend to not travel more than about an hour. On the flip side we find the most no shows happen when it's people who live over an hour away.

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By *TWboyMan
1 week ago

Norwich

Any distance is ok for me. Usually I make a weekend of it it -especially if it’s somewhere interesting that I’ve not been before. Usually meet the couple on the Friday night and social/play, recover Saturday and spend the day visiting local attractions and go home Sunday. If we’ve clicked, I make it known to the couple I’m staying over for the weekend and have had a repeat offer for Saturday night…….

Once I even got Sunday lunch !!

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By *aftarse59Man
1 week ago

workington

Travelled from Cumbria to Dublin. That entailed driving to Blackpool airport and flying to Dublin. Was well worth it!

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By *oldyoudown41Man
1 week ago

caledonian

For the right person and connection… endless

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By *leasuregiver300Man
1 week ago

East Devon

If connection and trust built who knows but generally willing to travel couple hours

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
1 week ago

cardiff

We don’t mind travelling at all. Better to spend longer travelling for the right couple than settling just because someone might be easier to get to.

We try and make a weekend city break out of it so that it’s always at least a nice little holiday away if the meet isn’t what we planned xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

My job takes me all over the UK which seems to have advantages.

Hotel stays, people confident I'm not going to turn up on their doorstep a few days later and plenty of people to contact are a few.

Furthest one from me was probably Glasgow and I was living in Surrey at the time.

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By *xfordjohnMan
1 week ago

Oxford

I used to think about an hour but now think that is too restricted as there are people who want to meet all over, so why go to them? Being retired I can take my time and stay away if I have to.

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By *uxurycollectionCouple
1 week ago

Port Talbot

We only really meet at clubs so we always make a weekend away of it. Torquay is about the furthest. 3.5hr drive.

Not counting a four hour flight to Tenerife (but clubbing there is just a bonus!)

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By *ootylincs2024Couple
1 week ago

wet bed sheets pe129

About 11/2 hours for rite folk or couple hours for a club night

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By *enbelfast2019Man
1 week ago

Belfast

Have travelled to London, Glasgow, Manchester and Newcastle for meets. All been amazing.

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By *entleman JayMan
1 week ago

Wakefield

I think it’s about one and a half hours each way. I like a fab road trip. It’s adds to the excitement.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
1 week ago

St Austell

Pre-internet, there were a couple of occasions when I drove from Milton Keynes to Glasgow - 700+ mile round trips, of which one really wasn't worth the time or effort...

....the other, however, turned into a two-night stay with an insatiable young lassie who cooked up a couple of tasty dinners too!

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By *atte Lover 82Man
1 week ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

For me personally distance if the connection is good distance isn't a massive issue as I'd just plan a trip around it so either way I'm enjoying myself.

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
1 week ago

Staffordshire

We travelled 200 miles to meet a couple. It was our best experience yet, worth every mile. 😂

F x

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By *ypersoonMan
1 week ago

WHITCHURCH, Shropshire

Furthest I've have travelled for swinging fun: to Club Alchemy (50 mins drive from Whitchurch)

Shortest: to a dogging meet in Shrewsbury (30 mins drive)

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By *ray_BTWMan
1 week ago

Worcester

I'd rather travel further out for a meet than too close....so probably around a 2 hour drive.

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By *and12Couple
1 week ago

flint

We have travelled all over the uk for a meet and even had a meet in Tenerife

Off to the Caribbean soon so hopefully we can have a meet there

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By *ongAndThick123Man
1 week ago

Taunton

For someone I’ve never met? Maybe the other side of the city.

Likewise, I wouldn’t want anyone I don’t know to travel a long distance to meet me for the first time.

For someone I know and trust? There’s no limit on distance.

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By *lueDressWoman
1 week ago

Bath

I've had people travel for miles just to have a cup of coffee. It was their choice.

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By *emofaJamesMan
1 week ago

London

I once went to Milan for a hook-up. The city was nice.

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By *orester891Man
1 week ago

One hour

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By *andPextraCouple
1 week ago

North West

Hour or so. Unless we were meeting at a club and if it didn't pan out we could amuse ourselves.

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
1 week ago

Bristol

I think we'd be happy to travel further for people we knew we had a connection with.

Say we bumped into them at a club and arranged a follow up, I'd be more than happy to travel a fair distance if family logistics allowed it.

For a first meet, probably a little closer just to defend against timewasters. We've had people go silent just as we were about to head to the car before 🙄

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By *antasticMrFucks07Man
1 week ago

plymouth

"Just wondered how far people are prepared to travel for the right meet. And is there such a thing as too close…"

The right person/people are worth travelling for so distance isn’t the issue, it just takes a little more time to organise, but that give more time to build the tension 🤷‍♂️

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By *exyScientistsCouple
1 week ago

Castlebar

I'll travel 90mins fairly often if it's someone special but takes more planning to travel further. I definitely would for the right person/people.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
1 week ago

Nr. Oxford

30 minutes or so for a social drink.

Maybe an hour for a meet with the right person.

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By *ewcuriouscouple12Couple
1 week ago

Cork

We don't mind travelling (including flying) for the right people. As we usually use it as an opportunity for a weekend away also.

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By *llie AssMan
1 week ago

South Yorkshire

"Just wondered how far people are prepared to travel for the right meet. And is there such a thing as too close…"

I've travelled to London, Birmingham, Nottingham, Manchester and Leeds for the *right* meet.

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By *ove2LurveCouple
1 week ago

Dartford

We've travelled a couple of hours for a meet several times; I don't think we would put any firm limit on distance, but a couple of hours driving on mostly motorway is a different proposition to two hours driving down mostly twiddly country lanes out in the sticks.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
1 week ago

St Austell

"...a couple of hours driving on mostly motorway is a different proposition to two hours driving down mostly twiddly country lanes out in the sticks. "

There have been a couple of occasions when prospective playmates down here on holiday didn't seem to understand that although where they were staying was only some 20 miles from me on a map, that equated to the best part of an hour's drive on Cornish roads...

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By *urFantasy21Couple
1 week ago

Shrewsbury

We don't really have a limit especially for a meet with a couple that we were compatible with especially if it were a club meeting. Obviously would stay over somewhere.

We're very careful not to meet someone we'd bump into on the school run 😂

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By *eviant TogMan
1 week ago

Lanarkshire

I will literally go anywhere. I love travelling to a far off meet. Proper buzz and adds to the build up. I have involved 500 mile drives, planes and boats to find good sex!

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By *arriedminxCouple
1 week ago

leeds

There isn’t a limit, not for the right people! Before we were a couple we travelled roughly 4-5 hours on good traffic days from the north of England to west wales for meets! Was completely worth it considering we’re now a proper thing.

As for meeting now or going to a club event, same would apply, we’d make the most of escapism and make the most of our time away

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By *antasticMrFucks07Man
1 week ago

plymouth

"There isn’t a limit, not for the right people! Before we were a couple we travelled roughly 4-5 hours on good traffic days from the north of England to west wales for meets! Was completely worth it considering we’re now a proper thing.

As for meeting now or going to a club event, same would apply, we’d make the most of escapism and make the most of our time away

Turns out I would definitely travel to Leeds 😘😘

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By *oldyoudown41Man
1 week ago

caledonian

As for meeting now or going to a club event, same would apply, we’d make the most of escapism and make the most of our time away

Likewise, I have travelled 3 hours just for a social cup of tea .. the chance of meeting someone special is sometimes very real

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By *outhern77Man
1 week ago

Birmingham

I don't mind how far if the connection is there.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
1 week ago

Next Door

Have travelled a few hours for a meet, would do it again for the right person/people.

I try to tied meet in with a city break/ weekend away

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
1 week ago

Hounslow

We've travelled a couple of hours down to the coast to meet a couple and would do it again if the right people came along.

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By *hemainintainMan
1 week ago

North East

Was staying in Newcastle once and got an invite to a meet in Hull. Didn't quite crash just how far Hull is from Newcastle. I ask had to pay for hotel for meet. Headed off and got there some four hours later. Picked friend up outside her house and drove to local Premier inn.

Sex was good but she was a bit random and sparked a cigarette in the room afterwards which was a bit off putting so I made my excuses for a round two and left. Think I was back by midnight and put that one down to experience!!

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By *arriedminxCouple
1 week ago

leeds

As for meeting now or going to a club event, same would apply, we’d make the most of escapism and make the most of our time away

Turns out I would definitely travel to Leeds 😘😘"

That’s a long old drive! Better have some good tunes!

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By *arriedminxCouple
1 week ago

leeds

As for meeting now or going to a club event, same would apply, we’d make the most of escapism and make the most of our time away

Likewise, I have travelled 3 hours just for a social cup of tea .. the chance of meeting someone special is sometimes very real

I’m sure it was a very good cuppa! The company tops it off

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By *otsossieMan
1 week ago

Chesterfield

"30 minutes or so for a social drink.

Maybe an hour for a meet with the right person. "

Any further and I’d want to combine it with a gig or a visit to somewhere, make a thing of it.

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By *r_LickCouple
1 week ago

aberdeen

We drove 6hrs for a meet. And omg it was worth it, watching her with him

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By *oname1001000Man
1 week ago

San Francisco

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By *oname1001000Man
1 week ago

San Francisco

Flying to New York from California… should be worth it

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By *arcstudMan
1 week ago

reading

I would definitely travel as far as needed to meet anyone who wants to play

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By *sWyldWoman
1 week ago

Edinburgh

I love travelling so for the right person it wouldn't be an issue. However for a first encounter an hour or so is probably more likely.

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By *andora2Woman
1 week ago

South somewhere

Not for a meet but if it’s the right club then I’m prepared to travel.

I’ll be doing exactly that at the end of this month.

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By *overs4loversCouple
1 week ago

Shropshire

There is definitely too close! We won’t meet guys from our local area.

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By *parkle1974Woman
1 week ago

Leeds

I don't mind distance as I like driving. I love the butterfly feelings grow with each passing mile x

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By *KentMan
1 week ago

Canterbury

Personally I wouldn’t meet anyone within a mile.

I’d be happy to travel up to an hour, happily there are plenty of people within an hour who seem pretty fun.

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By *antasticMrFucks07Man
1 week ago

plymouth

"I don't mind distance as I like driving. I love the butterfly feelings grow with each passing mile x"

Exactly this 👆👆

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
1 week ago

Bedale

Depends.

If it's a first meet we wouldn't go much more than an hour, which brings Leeds and Club F into play, Shh at a push.

If it's someone we know well and there's a good reason like a night away somewhere special then we would go further

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By *andSxxCouple
1 week ago

Birmingham

"I don't mind distance as I like driving. I love the butterfly feelings grow with each passing mile x"

We've traveled 2-3 hours so far and it's been a great meetings.

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
1 week ago

Staffordshire

To be honest, for the right person/people, we would consider any distance.

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By *estinysswingersCouple
1 week ago

Worsley

Max 1 hour

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By *os19Man
1 week ago

Edmonton

90 minutes is the most I would be prepared to travel for a meet. I would have no problem meeting someone local to me but I understand and respect the fact that it seems a lot of people don’t want anyone too local.

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By *iasubTV/TS
1 week ago

Ilkeston

Absolute max 20-30 mins as from past experience the further more chance of time wasters

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By *big9Man
1 week ago

shire

I travelled to south Wales from Notts.

Something about Welsh women lol. Most of my meets have been in Sheffield though, which is about an hour.

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