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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it that most females/couples asking for face pics have either no public pics or absolutely no pics whatsoever?

Do they really expect people to send face pics to complete strangers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do

You can of course ask to see one they may have in their private folder xx

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Common courtesy. If we make first contact we will always attach face pictures and we expect the same in return. It saves so much time rather than playing mail-tennis for ages only to then find there's no physical attraction and vice versa. - Those we've sent our's to can decide there and then whether they like the look of us or not. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes they do

You can of course ask to see one they may have in their private folder xx "

Problem is, many of these profiles ask for face pics in first message or they threaten with instant deletion!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Plus, can you imagine the whole awkward:

"Do you have a face pic?

- I do but I would need to see you first.

We don't send them out unless we've seen you.

- Well I don't send mine out unless I've seen you!".

Time. Effort. Frustration. Block.

If you're not comfortable with their "demands" though, at least you've got others to move on to. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that most females/couples asking for face pics have either no public pics or absolutely no pics whatsoever?

Do they really expect people to send face pics to complete strangers?

"

That is kind of the process... Ask before you send it, if they will also do the same! Where mostly women do jold tge power on here, it's an easier way to work out who you want to meet... if ya don't like the pics, ya don't respond - in some cases. Many a man cannot handle being told no, i'm not new here and get all uppety etc. If ua don't like it tho, noone says you gotta play be their rules... Move along... And there are search facilities to be looking at only profiles with pics! Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Plus, can you imagine the whole awkward:

"Do you have a face pic?

- I do but I would need to see you first.

We don't send them out unless we've seen you.

- Well I don't send mine out unless I've seen you!".

Time. Effort. Frustration. Block.

If you're not comfortable with their "demands" though, at least you've got others to move on to. x"

Only, I'm talking about profiles that have no pics of any kind, not just face pics! That's what annoys me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that most females/couples asking for face pics have either no public pics or absolutely no pics whatsoever?

Do they really expect people to send face pics to complete strangers?

That is kind of the process... Ask before you send it, if they will also do the same! Where mostly women do jold tge power on here, it's an easier way to work out who you want to meet... if ya don't like the pics, ya don't respond - in some cases. Many a man cannot handle being told no, i'm not new here and get all uppety etc. If ua don't like it tho, noone says you gotta play be their rules... Move along... And there are search facilities to be looking at only profiles with pics! Good luck "

I can spell, honestly

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

they can ask...

just don't send them if you don't want and focus your attention of the profiles that meet your requirements and match theirs

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"There are search facilities to only look at profiles with pics! Good luck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont no which profiles your looking at op, but honestly out of all the couples and fems profiles we have looked at i can count on 1 hand the few that didnt have any pics on display.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm constantly amazed by people who send mail saying "hi you look great on cam, have you got any face pics you could send"...

Erm do you think i look that different to my appearance on cam then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that most females/couples asking for face pics have either no public pics or absolutely no pics whatsoever?

Do they really expect people to send face pics to complete strangers?

That is kind of the process... Ask before you send it, if they will also do the same! Where mostly women do jold tge power on here, it's an easier way to work out who you want to meet... if ya don't like the pics, ya don't respond - in some cases. Many a man cannot handle being told no, i'm not new here and get all uppety etc. If ua don't like it tho, noone says you gotta play be their rules... Move along... And there are search facilities to be looking at only profiles with pics! Good luck

I can spell, honestly "

Is it wrong that I easily deciphered that message ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will ask for a photo on the first message and then if i get one, i will message back with my photo attached. I have always done it this and always will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus, can you imagine the whole awkward:

"Do you have a face pic?

- I do but I would need to see you first.

We don't send them out unless we've seen you.

- Well I don't send mine out unless I've seen you!".

Time. Effort. Frustration. Block.

If you're not comfortable with their "demands" though, at least you've got others to move on to. x

Only, I'm talking about profiles that have no pics of any kind, not just face pics! That's what annoys me!"

I dont have pics on my profile but will send them to people I chat to. I got fed up with people who just want to collect naughty photos. Not interested in people who judge by looks alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send my face pic with a first message, (even though it's also my profile pic), after all, I'M the one who is introducing myself and its just common courtesy! (maybe thats why they get deleted, lol).

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