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Advice - Swing Clubs

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By *thanDiPool OP   Man
16 weeks ago

alloa

Considering heading to a swingers club for the first time as a single male. Never been to one before and was wondering if it would be worth the entry fee even if I just sat in the bar area for most the night? As I wouldn't know where to start in well "initiating" any advice helpful!

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By *bitofaslutWoman
16 weeks ago

Cannock

Best advice if it's not a "dress down" club is too just treat it like a Renault regular club, enjoy the atmosphere and have a dance, don't expect to play, if there's open rooms don't be a creep, enjoy the show and just be chill and friendly.

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By *thanDiPool OP   Man
16 weeks ago

alloa


"Best advice if it's not a "dress down" club is too just treat it like a Renault regular club, enjoy the atmosphere and have a dance, don't expect to play, if there's open rooms don't be a creep, enjoy the show and just be chill and friendly."

Thanks!

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By *inkycreamCouple
16 weeks ago

manchester

Go with no expectation, just enjoy the atmosphere, make a few friends, chill out have a beer or two after a few more visits you will know we’re your at enjoy it.

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
16 weeks ago

Nottingham

One of the best social areas is the hot tub . It's often easier to initiate conversations there.

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By *aprica2Couple
16 weeks ago

Chertsey

Don't be one of the wanking dead, for us as a couples view nothing is more of a turn off than some fella beating his meat pestering to play with you, nothing worse on a night with single guys all trying to get a bit of your mrs with out any consideration towards the male of the couple, you've got to win us over before you'll go anywhere near the Mrs.

Be a nice guy smile and don't float about like a vulture looking for it's prey, it's hard but spark up a conversation with people it's hard but 99.9% of the time they'll engage with you and you'll have a great time.

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By *thanDiPool OP   Man
16 weeks ago

alloa


"Don't be one of the wanking dead, for us as a couples view nothing is more of a turn off than some fella beating his meat pestering to play with you, nothing worse on a night with single guys all trying to get a bit of your mrs with out any consideration towards the male of the couple, you've got to win us over before you'll go anywhere near the Mrs.

Be a nice guy smile and don't float about like a vulture looking for it's prey, it's hard but spark up a conversation with people it's hard but 99.9% of the time they'll engage with you and you'll have a great time."

Thanks

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By *xcited99Couple
16 weeks ago

omagh


"Don't be one of the wanking dead, for us as a couples view nothing is more of a turn off than some fella beating his meat pestering to play with you, nothing worse on a night with single guys all trying to get a bit of your mrs with out any consideration towards the male of the couple, you've got to win us over before you'll go anywhere near the Mrs.

Be a nice guy smile and don't float about like a vulture looking for it's prey, it's hard but spark up a conversation with people it's hard but 99.9% of the time they'll engage with you and you'll have a great time."

Totally agree with this. Just spark up a conversation and most couples will engage with you. Most importantly have fun.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
16 weeks ago

Central

Plan on it being a long term engagement where you get to know people and familiar to others.

Financially it's probably sensible for you as a single man too.

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By *uckboy786Man
16 weeks ago

London

I just went to a club for the first time myself as a single guy on Saturday. As most others mentioned, just try to strike up a conversation with people you think are interesting or hot. Get to know them a bit without any expectation. If it's a couple, speak to the man and woman equally if you're starting the conversation. There was one couple where I got to play without really engaging the guy, but that was because the woman initiated the conversation, so I think she was already interested.

Once you've spoken to them for a while and sense they might be interested, I found that flirting is a good next step. If they respond well again then it's up to you what to do next but chances are you'll get lucky. One thing to note, though, is that even if someone is interested in you they may not want to play, so don't be a pest. And finally, and most importantly, don't be a creep. No one likes guys who just watch others having fun from the corner. If you see someone you like having a conversation, join in. If they're having a play, leave them to it and find someone else.

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By *oxesMan
16 weeks ago

Southend, Essex


"Best advice if it's not a "dress down" club is too just treat it like a Renault regular club, enjoy the atmosphere and have a dance, don't expect to play, if there's open rooms don't be a creep, enjoy the show and just be chill and friendly."
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