FabSwingers.com forum: What's the fascination

By *ympho6969 OP Woman
1 week ago

glasgow

With asking women for their underwear? Do men ever get women taking them up on this offer?

I've had guys message me, as a first message and it's a weird one to me. Is it so common to do and km just oblivious

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By *asterfulsoulMan
1 week ago

Manchester

Dunno. Yes.

One woman in my area leaves them laying around places and posts the approximate location for men to go looking for them.

Not my thing but glad they're having fun.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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1 week ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Have you seen the price of good knickers? Fuck that. What sane woman would just give them away....🤔😮😮

Does make me massively cringe when guys offer up their partners smalls to other men on here, or start rambling on about raiding the washing baskets of unknowing wives, GF's and even worse...other family members or even friends or complete strangers. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

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By *onnyDVPMan
1 week ago

Warwick

I've often wondered.

I used to have a boss who bought ladies shoes on ebay dead cheap.

He'd make up some explicit story about how they were used, and what had happened to them, then sell them for a very tidy profit.

Good marketing, coupled with bullsh!t paid off his mortgage early!

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
1 week ago

Little clacton

I`ve a few friends who get turned on by them giving a man their underwear.

Although I also know someone where men use to send her underwear to wear/return. mortgage free by 27

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
1 week ago

Norwichish

If guys are willing to pay for postage and a replacement pair then surely no one should judge their fetish?

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By *ympho6969 OP Woman
7 days ago

glasgow

"If guys are willing to pay for postage and a replacement pair then surely no one should judge their fetish?"

This isn't about judging. It's about not expecting a question like that in a first message.

I wouldn't dream of messaging a guy first with my own personal interests out there so boldly. Cos what I like isn't for everyone. And that's fine too.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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7 days ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"If guys are willing to pay for postage and a replacement pair then surely no one should judge their fetish?"

Nope. But Fab is not the place for any commercial activity - it's not allowed.

There are other sites for that kind of thing and either advertising on here or approaching others with offers of money is likely to result in being reported and likely booted off the site.

Always worth remembering.

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By *empest2KMan
7 days ago

Derby

"Dunno. Yes.

One woman in my area leaves them laying around places and posts the approximate location for men to go looking for them.

Not my thing but glad they're having fun."

Sound a bit like a treasure hunt, which I enjoy, but that's not the treasure I'd be looking for.

I guess it's a case of ‘One lady's knickers is another man's treasure’ 😜

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By *elly_ukcdTV/TS
7 days ago

Hinckley

Underwear is a very common fetish in men, and although human sense of smell is pretty weak compared to many other animals (e.g. dogs), I suspect there is still an element of sexual odours being a big turn on.

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By *r TriomanMan
7 days ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I don't get the fascination with used panties; if a woman isn't wearing them, I not interested.

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By *iliciousCouple
7 days ago

Sussex/Surrey

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By *iliciousCouple
7 days ago

Sussex/Surrey

Nope. But Fab is not the place for any commercial activity - it's not allowed.

Really? How about all the profiles which are set up solely to promote (paid for) parties? We don;t have a problem with them personally, but for you to claim that there is "no commercial activity alllowed" is absurd.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
7 days ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nope. But Fab is not the place for any commercial activity - it's not allowed.

Swinging events and parties are fine. It's a swingers site after all.

It's not a marketplace for used underwear.

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By *hunky GentMan
7 days ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Personally - I'd rather see the lady wearing said underwear, especially if it's blue.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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7 days ago

East Sussex

The ones who ask for things in their first message are the ones who see women solely as providers of sexual comforts. That's what that's about

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By *urFantasy21Couple
7 days ago

Shrewsbury

We've had these messages, what surprised me was those that offer to buy them but clearly have no clue how much nice underwear costs. Not that I'm remotely interested in sending them to be clear.

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By *ast Lothian couple 888Couple
7 days ago

east lothian

Underwear does nothing for me (mr) unless she’s wearing it or I’m removing it but I’m sure there’s stuff I like that others wouldn’t

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
7 days ago

the moon

Some dudes are just weird … 🫡

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By *ikesEmBigMan
7 days ago

Herts

"With asking women for their underwear? Do men ever get women taking them up on this offer?

I've had guys message me, as a first message and it's a weird one to me. Is it so common to do and km just oblivious "

I'm making a patchwork quilt using them

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