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By *rishb26 OP   Man
over a year ago

maynooth

I’d love to hear some stories of how people started in this lifestyle.

I personally heard of fab through a friend and pretended like I wasn’t interested while still asking a million questions

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Going back over thirty years now - my first wife and i fantasised about it a lot, then a friend and she fancied each other, she asked if she could and I said yes. We both had affairs then tried mmf threesomes and I've never looked back - still my favourite activity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 22, my girlfriend at the time was proper wild and always talked explicitly when we were shagging (I loved it).

She told me on many occasions that she wanted to be spit-roasted, so we made it happen, and I loved that even more!

The rest just happened from there.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I'm bi and wanted/needed to meet other women. So I suggested we join here. Now we both enjoy all sorts of different scenarios with other people.

Ruby

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By *each needs some creamWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

I enjoy sex, but don't want a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years of people pleasing and boring sex

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By *ike_looking_forMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

out of a long term relationship and felt like catching up on a few things, joined a different website and been enjoying things since then

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By *ndy17Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire, Glasgow and all over UK for work

Got divorced and I wa thinking about all the things u missed out on getting married early in my 20s so decided that the swinging carefree lifestyle is great so here I am

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

Never been interested in a relationship,was a random encounter with a couple on a pub crawl around London well over 10 years ago. Who introduced me into swinging.

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By *unincornwallMan
over a year ago

launceston

My wife having menopause and car crash

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Nearby

Someone pushed me and I came back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something happened in my life that made me realise life is short so experience all you can x

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By *exyScientistsCouple
over a year ago

Castlebar

Mr was keen to watch me fuck other guys. And turns out I was quite keen to do that 😈. Then he joined in and so the journey continues...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr was keen to watch me fuck other guys. And turns out I was quite keen to do that 😈. Then he joined in and so the journey continues..."

Same to be fair I suggested it and now here looking for it and maybe other things also only die once .

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By *ttis669Man
over a year ago

Warrington

Barmaid that used to work for me seduced me (was very naieve and didn't realise) then loaned me to her friend. Afterwards suggested we join a different swinging site and go to some clubs and it all escalated from there, that was 20 years ago!

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By *ed-devilsCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

Me and my Mrs were in London one night on a session and decided to go to a seedy strip club. She paid for me to have a private dance and it really excited her watching the woman with me. Following morning we started a bit a research in clubs and found the boudoir which then we found out about fab and a whole new world, rest is history.

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By *eeshellsCouple
over a year ago

Reading

Sheshells confessed to sleeping with her BFF, just before we met. This moved the conversation to threesomes, where it got stuck for years.

Then we thought couples might work better - so here we are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bored, horny and being a full time single dad I don't get out as much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grew up with a mother that was a swinger and it was sex with no attachments so I started soon as I was old enough plus you can try more things sexually

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By *arleycplWoman
over a year ago

Frodsham

Andy started as a single, years before we met, he was getting divorced and a lady friend showed him her profile on fab, at the time he was not looking for a relationship ship so give it ago, when we met he told me about fab, he had deleted his profile be then. It intrigued me so we give it ago and years later are still here

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

towcester

Unlucky in the dating world, a friend told me about this site so thought I give it a go.. joined during the pandemic so no one was meeting so gave me a chance to wise up, make friends and have never looked back since. I absolutely love this lifestyle, the places I've been, the people I've met, the experiences I've had, the friends I've made...

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By *mizhereMan
over a year ago

thame and surrounds

Ex Mrs and I enjoying a session porn playing

Two guys start bi fun and she asks would I do that

I said yes if I saw her eat pussy

Few days later we are on swinging sites and that week we both went bi and became swingers

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By *hipdaleCouple
over a year ago

Greenhithe

I was with my ex she brought a guy home for a mmf threesome, went from there we split up a few years later, I met T we got chatting she told me she was bi I told her I use to swing she said let's do this.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

towcester


"I was with my ex she brought a guy home for a mmf threesome, went from there we split up a few years later, I met T we got chatting she told me she was bi I told her I use to swing she said let's do this."

That's awesome

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By *ohnboy64Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

Wife went off sex years ago and wouldn't discuss it. That's why I'm on here. Not looking for a relationship but I need to have intimacy with someone now and then.

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

We got together 10 years ago and both wanted to open up our selfie.We both wanted to try a threesome so we were recommended fabswingers.We found all our fantasies under one roof so to speak ❤

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God told me to do it 😈😈

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Friend was doing it and using this site and told me how much she was enjoying it and I should give it a whirl xx

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By *eeshellsCouple
over a year ago

Reading


"Friend was doing it and using this site and told me how much she was enjoying it and I should give it a whirl xx"

Good that friends can be so open!

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By *ickandHilaryCouple
over a year ago

Barnstaple


"God told me to do it 😈😈"

It’s a mission haha !

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

When I first met my partner he was open about the lifestyle and, long story short I was intrigued and it went from there. Fab was a later addition.

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

We are pair of dirties and just fucking each other isn't enough 😉🤣😊

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By *urFantasy21Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

A lot of tipsy talking of fantasies and then talking about it in the cold light of day when we realised we'd both like to take the plunge.

It has been a wonderful way to add some excitement when life can sometimes feel slightly monotonous x

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By *rthur WrightusMan
over a year ago

Round the Bend

Divorce a long time ago, subsequent visits to a club or two, the rest is history as they say

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