FabSwingers.com forum: Cheating women and men

By (user no longer on site) OP
21 weeks ago

Would like to know how many men and women that are married/ attached that are on here without partner knowing.

Be interesting how many admit to this. I personally think there are alot on here but don't let it known.

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By *rivervaderMan
21 weeks ago

bolton

I hold my hands up

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By *unincornwallMan
21 weeks ago

launceston

Yes I am..what's point in saying otherwisex

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
21 weeks ago

Norwich

It seems acceptable for women but not men

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By *i-subhubby.Man
21 weeks ago

Down by the river.

Guilty

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
21 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"It seems acceptable for women but not men"

Nope.

Those that view cheating as wrong will generally feel the same about whoever is doing it, regardless of gender.

Generally speaking women don't make a big song and dance about it, state excuses on their profiles blaiming their partners loss of sex drive/menopause/a.n.other reason, or try and justify their choices.

They just get on with things.

If you want a clue as to who has partners but is on here as a single, then simply scroll through the countless threads offering up chat about them, swapping photos of them and even discussing giving away their underwear. Because in all my years on here I've yet to see a woman do any of those things...........🤔🤦‍♂️

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By *i-subhubby.Man
21 weeks ago

Down by the river.

Guilty

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

the scene has always had married folk playing away with out partners knowing and alot of people like that as meeting someone in a relationship can be much easier than meeting singles..

also bear in mind these forums are tiny add in alot on the forums don't even play let alone swing you'll never get a true picture

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
21 weeks ago

London

"Would like to know how many men and women that are married/ attached that are on here without partner knowing.

Be interesting how many admit to this. I personally think there are alot on here but don't let it known."

There seem to be loads of married men on this site who's wives don't know that they are on here. I get a lot of messages from decreetly married guys.

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By *oublesixesMan
21 weeks ago

Corby

Guilty, and mentioned first thing in my bio

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By *edwayBiiMan
21 weeks ago

Strood

Guilty as charged

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Yep!

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By *llicitnickMan
21 weeks ago

Sheffield

I'm here and partnered but with consent, so not quite the same I guess.

Helps that she's into it as much as I am

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By *eroLondonMan
21 weeks ago

Mayfair

Put it this way — the majority of the women I met, engaged with or socialised last year were married, attached, betrothed or going through a divorce.

They didn't hide it but equally so they didn't need to shout it from the rooftops, unlike men who can be quite unwitting.

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By *uriousBBWoman
21 weeks ago

cambridgeshire

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By *ilkycockyMan
21 weeks ago

wrexham

Guilty but have put it in my bio so I’m not hiding it

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Guilty as charged, not hiding it. It's on my bio

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By *andm2006Man
21 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

"Guilty but have put it in my bio so I’m not hiding it"

Ditto....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
21 weeks ago

East Sussex

I think there are a lot too. It appears that there are many more men than women but given that men outnumber women anyway it would look that way. Also men will attempt to justify their actions publicly almost always tacitly or actually blaming their wives, women seem less likely to do this.

I reckon the numbers are probably about even when adjusted to take account of the ratio of men to women

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By *empest2KMan
21 weeks ago

Derby

"Would like to know how many men and women that are married/ attached that are on here without partner knowing.

Be interesting how many admit to this. I personally think there are alot on here but don't let it known."

It's the polar opposite for me — I have both a singles profile and a couples profile with my (now) wife. She also has a singles profile for female-only fun.

I'm not averse to cheating females (or males) but I am wary of them, especially if my spider-senses start tingling and I think they aren't being fully honest regarding their relationship status.

Nonetheless, each to their own 😁👍

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By *urFantasy21Couple
21 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Hard to tell from our perspective as we have a lot more contact from men than women.

We don't pass judgement and we think it's much better when people are upfront about it so that everyone is aware and can make decisions based on their personal preference. We had a situation at a club where we were in a public room and a single man briefly engaged with us then followed us to the jacuzzi to tell us how long he'd been cheating on his wife and telling us about his family. It didn't feel particularly nice.

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By *endalshaggersCouple
21 weeks ago

Lake District

There will always be cheats on here, both men and women.

Up to the individual, it's their choice to cheat.

And up to you as the individual, if you wish to meet them or not.

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By *ibblepilotMan
21 weeks ago

Preston

Empowering for women whose crap shag husbands should try harder, shocking, disgusting behaviour from fellas, who should try harder and therefore would get more at home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
21 weeks ago

I'm also attached and she doesn't know.

I did mention it on my profile before but got alot of nasty messages so removed it.

Like to talk with those women in the same boat as myself

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By *eyond PurityCouple
21 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We much prefer honesty in people’s profile so we can make that decision on whether to interact or not.

Finding out down the line during chats feels like we’ve been conned into speaking to someone. Makes you wonder what other lies are then being told too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
21 weeks ago

"We much prefer honesty in people’s profile so we can make that decision on whether to interact or not.

Finding out down the line during chats feels like we’ve been conned into speaking to someone. Makes you wonder what other lies are then being told too.

Totally understand that. I mention that im attached in the first message

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
21 weeks ago

Leeds

"It seems acceptable for women but not men"

No, just women don't gloat about it as much as men, nor do they post the pitty me crap because they aren't getting any.

Both make me equally vomit a little in my mouth, it's the total opposite of what swinging is about.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Would never cheat on my mrs, we are open and honest with each other and that includes when we meet other people.

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By *he MinionMan
21 weeks ago

"We much prefer honesty in people’s profile so we can make that decision on whether to interact or not.

Finding out down the line during chats feels like we’ve been conned into speaking to someone. Makes you wonder what other lies are then being told too.

Totally agree.

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By *eroLondonMan
21 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Empowering for women whose crap shag husbands should try harder, shocking, disgusting behaviour from fellas, who should try harder and therefore would get more at home.

Indeed, I can only guess that behind every man that effuses "disgusting behaviour" is a woman whose own behaviour is most atrocious.

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By *oastal1968Man
21 weeks ago

London

"Would like to know how many men and women that are married/ attached that are on here without partner knowing.

Be interesting how many admit to this. I personally think there are alot on here but don't let it known."

I guess Colombo can retire now.

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By *irsSubCouple
21 weeks ago

Darlington

I suspect it's a high percentage of the single guys and low for the single ladies. We won't play with married or attached people, however we won't judge their choices. Cheating, however horrid, isn't illegal and is usually quite complex as why people do it.

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By *end1Man
21 weeks ago

southend on sea

Quite simply if your cheating on your wife/husband then you have no respect for them or your kids!

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By *he MinionMan
21 weeks ago

"Quite simply if your cheating on your wife/husband then you have no respect for them or your kids! "

In your opinion.

Which you are entitled too.

And I could agree with you but what's the point in us both being wrong.

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By *ibblepilotMan
21 weeks ago

Preston

"We much prefer honesty in people’s profile so we can make that decision on whether to interact or not.

Finding out down the line during chats feels like we’ve been conned into speaking to someone. Makes you wonder what other lies are then being told too.

Indeed. Hence why it's on my profile and folk can decide whether to reply. An honesty about my dishonesty, if you like

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By *issmorganWoman
21 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"It seems acceptable for women but not men"

If it is, it's only with some men, that's generally because they wouldn't slate cheating women as it may ruin their chances of sex.

Also alot of men find cheating wives hot, there's loads of threads started about it.

Most people who don't like cheating,feel the same If it's a man or women cheating.

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
21 weeks ago

cannock

It doesn't bother us either way to be honest

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
21 weeks ago

I've come across couples profiles were the Man/Woman or even both of them are cheating, They mention it on their profile and in most cases have been "together" for years,

I think the only reason Women get a easier ride when cheating is because there are 1000s of Men who will still fuck them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
21 weeks ago

"It doesn't bother us either way to be honest"

Wow loving the pics!

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By *ustmehorny1976Man
21 weeks ago

Birmingham/Lowestoft

I’m here without knowledge or permission, I am sure we all have our reasons

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By *andC1000Couple
21 weeks ago

Ashford

Plenty on here and fabguys cheating away

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By *vonne5exMan
21 weeks ago

Doncaster

"the scene has always had married folk playing away with out partners knowing and alot of people like that as meeting someone in a relationship can be much easier than meeting singles..

also bear in mind these forums are tiny add in alot on the forums don't even play let alone swing you'll never get a true picture"
I think you'll get an higher percentage of people in these forums will be here to chip chat and not interact in physically swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP
21 weeks ago

"Plenty on here and fabguys cheating away "

Wow absolutely stunning!

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

I make no apologies for finding cheating women a turn on

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By *dc1Man
21 weeks ago

essex and all over the south

I will put my hands up to this as well. But i always inform them first. Its not hard to spot. I have a wedding ring on. Some say sorry not for us,and some arnt worried. Its there choise.

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By *xhib12Man
21 weeks ago

Blyth

It's on my profile.

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By *eroLondonMan
21 weeks ago

Mayfair

My question to those men who have remarked on this thread that they are cheating AND it's mentioned on their profiles...

How many sexual meets have you had in, say, the last 12 months (or less)...?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
21 weeks ago

Chichester

Prob more than half of the men on here lol

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
21 weeks ago

Hounslow

"Prob more than half of the men on here lol "
you know that!

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By *eroLondonMan
21 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Prob more than half of the men on here lol "

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But, proportionally, more women than men.

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