FabSwingers.com forum: Has any other men never came from a bj or am i just unlucky??

By *yorks4couples OP Man
1 week ago

doncaster

Came close but struggle to lay there i feel. Surely it cant be just me

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By *bitofaslutWoman
1 week ago

Cannock

Going back decades before my transition I just thought I was shit at getting blown. I would get all the mind blowing sensations, the pulsing, the body wracking feeling of orgasm over and over but nothing ever came out.

It was frustrating as hell for me and my partner.

I've given oral to a few women over the years and only very recently realised and discussed with someone who I've gone down on and who's given me oral, that we're both having the same sensations.

As I embraced the realities of expressing my sexuality and being intimate with people as a woman I'm leaning into those sensations rather that treating them as a failure.

I get clitoral orgasms. It's weird and it sounds like bullshit but people with clitorises have witnessed them and agree and I'm going to accept that expert opinion.

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By *am4sinMan
1 week ago

Mansfield

I struggle, due to years of abuse lol, I lost a lot of feeling so as much as I enjoy a good BJ I fail to cum. I'm more like an old car now, you have to get it going by hand and jump on at the last minute.

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By *utlongjohnMan
1 week ago

Im the opposite, i can sometimes cum too quick from a bj. Sometimes its my preference.

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By *igNick1381Man
1 week ago

BRIDGEND

I've never been a big fan, they don't do much for me, and I've had a lot of girls with different techniques

It's a mental problem I'm sure, I need that control to cum which I've never felt I had get blown, even by the best deep throater

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By *ettieAndIrvingMan
1 week ago

Derby

I'd never cum froma blowjob until last year.

Years of wanking kind of got me to place where I thought only me could get myself off.

But my partner B has amazing skills with her mouth and tongue and also taught me to just relax, not rush and just be in the moment.

The feeling when she does make me cum is incredible.

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By *otsossieMan
1 week ago

Chesterfield

It’s unusual for me, but with the right person

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By *helamontsCouple
1 week ago

Edinburgh

Cum every time here ...

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By *MandMMCouple
1 week ago

Welwyn

I will cum from oral, but it definitely takes longer

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By *hunky GentMan
1 week ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I can easily cum from a blowjob.

The only problem I have is actually getting one in the first place. 😆 🤣

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By *oelDorianMan
1 week ago

vanaheim

I do find it a struggle honestly as I have quite a girth cock

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By *otsossieMan
1 week ago

Chesterfield

I just ignore the complaints about jaw ache, but yes.

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By *octor ProdMan
1 week ago

working Overseas

I don't always and I have had BJ's that have been mind blowing where my back has arched and I haven't cum and times when I have.

Theres no logic or reason, its one of those things

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By *he_turtle_movesMan
1 week ago

york

Never have, fairly sure now it's a mental block

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By *ein-guyMan
1 week ago

Cowes

I do most of the time but i find that with age it needs a good old hand shandy inbetween too

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By *33ukMan
1 week ago

fareham

Total opposite. I can't hack them sends me wild, I think it's mental though... Its bloody annoying cause I wanna lay back and enjoy a nice long BJ but I have to tell them to stop after fuck all time sometimes a few sucks... Embarrassing

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By *cottyl1983Man
1 week ago

Tyne and Wear

Sometimes takes a while other times can cum quite quick depends how horny I am

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By *xkritTV/TS
1 week ago

High Wycombe (ish)

In the "very much enjoy it but rarely cum" group!

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1 week ago

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

I've never cum from a BJ.

I think its quite common, one of my colleagues at work reckons he's slept with 100 women and only 2 have made him cum from a BJ.

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By *ene FairfaxMan
1 week ago

Dover

Absolutely no problem here lol, even from naff ones to mind blowing ones

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By *xoticFrolicMan
1 week ago

Gosport

You're not alone. I too never cum from a bj. Still a nice bit of foreplay though.

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By *romsgrovianMan
1 week ago

bromsgrove

the mood has to be right and the level of horniness high, but a few ladies have gotten me off with a bj ,but only one lady with her hand wanking me makes me cum everytime. A bj feel nice though, i enjoy them and i do get lovely feelings i just dont ejeculate very often from a bj.

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By *orthWestUKCoupleCouple
1 week ago

Preston

Never cum from a bj, but that’s just because k doesn’t give them to me!

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By *rh_charlesMan
1 week ago

bedfordshire

I think circumcision makes big difference. Not as sensitive nowadays which makes it harder to get there so as mentioned before it needs a bit of hand work to help get me there. Sloppy deep throat with some oily hand wank work usually does the trick

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By *iverredMan
1 week ago

Aberystwyth

I've have never cum while receiving a bj. Dont know when I last had a bj off someone.

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By *he Lollipop ManMan
1 week ago

Truro

The key is to avoid feeling pressure to cum by occupying yourself with something else - 69 does that perfectly.

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By *ulie RobertsTV/TS
1 week ago

Southampton

The dozens of men I’ve given them to didn’t have any issues with cumming in my mouth over my face or wherever they wanted to 😉

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By *eeshellsCouple
1 week ago

Reading

Don't be afraid to guide the person providing a bj. Women have no issue repositioning your fingers - so just do the same thing

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By *he OxfordMaleMan
1 week ago

wantage

Love getting Cock Sucked, sometimes they have workforce it though which I love. Always heard it said men suck Cock better than women. So had to. Test this out&TBH my all time top Cocksuckers still women Really good. Ones been sucked by few men but they never lived up to own hype be honest. I’d hate not be able cum from BJ though

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By *obbiKentMan
1 week ago

maidstone

Oh one lady has sucked me to completion

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By *atte Lover 82Man
1 week ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

Can't say I ever have.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
1 week ago

Chatham

My Dominant has never cum from oral and he is nearly 50. It appears more common than not.

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By *otcplmidsCouple
1 week ago

Warwick

A few number of men have come from a bj I have played with, so I think maybe you are just unlucky

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By *hunky GentMan
1 week ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"My Dominant has never cum from oral and he is nearly 50. It appears more common than not. "

Maybe when he reaches 50 he will.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
1 week ago

The first time was only a few years ago for me,

But just like a lot of Women its a state of mind issue, Get your head in the right place and you'll probably cum while getting head

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By *ydrewMan
1 week ago

Chippenham

I do t often cum from a blowjob. Have a few times but very rare

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By *YNSEYLEE12Couple
1 week ago

lincolnshire, tattershall

Every time lol

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By *egoMan
1 week ago

Preston

Nearly, only two people have ever succeeded. And only once each.

I generally tell them not to bother trying.

I think its more a primal thing, like a breeding fantasy perhaps?

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
1 week ago

A den in the Glen

Never. I don't think that will change. Mental block probably. I usually have to stop them at the 20 minute mark to ensure their jaw is intact for kissing.

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By *eeshelleTV/TS
1 week ago

Marlow

I don't want to sound like Im overly experienced or that I've sucked hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of cocks over the years, but I would say its about 50 50

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By *reytopMan
1 week ago

Yorkshire Coast

I usually cum pretty quickly with a good blowjob, even quicker if I'm being watched.

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By *ustmehorny1976Man
1 week ago

Birmingham

I dont get much feeling from a blow job, im not sure if im not sensitive enough or what, when I have cum from a BJ, it’s because of how watching someone sucking me off gets me going, mental stimulation.

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By *ympho6969Woman
1 week ago

glasgow

I've know a couple guys who couldn't cum from a bj. A few who could cum unless they gave themselves a hand job.

Neither bother me as long as we have a good time and enjoy what we do together. Doesn't mean I won't give a bj or have sex. Cumming isn't always the goal

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By *ustmehorny1976Man
1 week ago

Birmingham

"I've know a couple guys who couldn't cum from a bj. A few who could cum unless they gave themselves a hand job.

Neither bother me as long as we have a good time and enjoy what we do together. Doesn't mean I won't give a bj or have sex. Cumming isn't always the goal"

Enjoyment and fun should be in there always IMO

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By *ave1976XXXMan
1 week ago

newmarket

I’ve only ever cum from a handful of bj’s and only with 2 people. It’s a weird one to explain

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By *eezymanMan
1 week ago

london

About 3 times in my life

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By *xfordjohnMan
1 week ago

Oxford

"It’s unusual for me, but with the right person

Same for me. Sometimes, it's just so good I can't hold back; other times it just goes on and on until I fade away, which happens more frequently as I get older.

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By *aughtydoubleCouple
7 days ago

Durham

I (mrs) have met a few men on here that have cum in my mouth from just oral, one of which was about 30seconds after I started, but I've been with the Mr for 10 years now and still havnt managed to make him cum in my mouth from just oral

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By *r_Midnight2000Man
7 days ago

home

I've never came from a blow job

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By *angoFoxtrot11Man
7 days ago

Staffordshire

About 15 years ago I picked up a young woman i knew she wanked me sucked me and I never blew my load, my only thought is that I just wasn't into her.

She'd been the mistress my mate was fucking until his misses found out.

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By *elshman25Man
7 days ago

cardiff

I have cum plenty of times from BJs, and also not cum at all from them , and like others in here ive sometimes cum way sooner than id like to admit, someones tongue around me is just on another level of sensation but it does all depend on their technique and how turned on i am at the time. Its a mix of mental and physical stimulation. But for the most part ive never really had an issue with cumming from oral.

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By *rLicksMan
7 days ago

Worcester

OP you’re not alone…. I have only ever cum during a BJ on 3 occasions and it took some very dedicated action to get there!

Don’t get me wrong… I absolutely love receiving a BJ it feels amazing, can be super intense and I can often feel the build up just can’t get past the final hurdle so to speak.

I put it down to being psychological for some reason… can’t explain anything about it beyond that.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
7 days ago

It’s crazy the amount of Men who don’t cum from BJs but fab and the internet is full of BJs with facial/cum in mouth videos

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By *dc1Man
7 days ago

essex and all over the south

If they are good at it then i dont have a problem. My trouble is keeping it in there mouth as i cum. Its bloody sensative as i cum and if they insist on licking the end it hurts and i dont like that

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