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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

now i've never tried this yet but i was talking to someone last night who's mrs done it to him and he was raving about it

i've never had a bi experience, or ever really considered it but this got me thinking.

i was just wondering what people generally thought of this - if any of you women do it, or if you guys like it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never thought of it as a bi experience, but we got a strap on, but there is no way would I let a guy near me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"never thought of it as a bi experience, but we got a strap on, but there is no way would I let a guy near me."

i know it isn't bi... but just the thought of being fucked with one is obviously easy to associate with being fucked by a man.

quite weird. i was just wondering what other people thought.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Some of those strap-ons are fierce looking things and lots of women aren’t that good at controlling them (it’s the lack of feeling which hinders the more subtle control) … I recon you should start with a real cock and work your way up to a strap-on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of those strap-ons are fierce looking things and lots of women aren’t that good at controlling them (it’s the lack of feeling which hinders the more subtle control) … I recon you should start with a real cock and work your way up to a strap-on...

it's f**k all to do with lack of feeling, it's down to sheer sadism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have several, one even squirts! I can assure you it has NOTHING to do with being bi, all my playmates are straight . I never use a strap on straight away, you need to get used to the sensation and it takes time. I suggest a 'ladies finger' vibrator and plenty of lube before going on to a strap on. Some women dont have a clue and it can be painful if not done properly. Have fun and enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"now i've never tried this yet but i was talking to someone last night who's mrs done it to him and he was raving about it

i've never had a bi experience, or ever really considered it but this got me thinking.

i was just wondering what people generally thought of this - if any of you women do it, or if you guys like it?"

We brought one in Alicante a couple of years ago, debbie had a few problems getting it to stay on as it wasnt a very good 1, she did manage to get it in though.

I am not bi but have to say it is a nice sensation and we like bum love both ways

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By *edngingerCouple
over a year ago

Moray

"now i've never tried this yet but i was talking to someone last night who's mrs done it to him and he was raving about it

i've never had a bi experience, or ever really considered it but this got me thinking.

i was just wondering what people generally thought of this - if any of you women do it, or if you guys like it?"

Well Preston

In our experience it is awesome!!

We are a bi-curious couple and using a strap-on is probably one of the main reasons for the development of our curiousness.

For the man it can be extremely pleasurable and powerful, and yes it does open your mind to "All" the other possibilities out there - indeed why limit yourself to only half the population.

It's also very good for the man to experience this level of complete surrender as this doesn't happen very often in what you might call "standard" situations. As the man I really, really love it when my wife uses one on me and will ask for it regularly.

From my wife's perspective - it is mind blowingly different to be "on the other end of the cock" so to speak. It engenders strong feelings of empowerment and is a big turn on, although not sure exactly what about it is the turn on, it just is!!

It is most important to have a very good, sexy, well fitting harness/dildo combination, as this not only enhances the experience for both partners, but looks fantastic as well. We tried using a cheap harness and dildo at first but this was uncomfortable, awkward and actually ended up being impossible to use. (My wife can't emphasise enough how great it is to have a really sexy and well-fitting harness.) Send us a message if you want a really good shopping recommendation for harnesses.

We use strap-on's regularly and even on cam occasionally and the orgasm for the man is very different and extremely powerful and quite often without ejaculation which of course can be a great benefit for further play

For us it was important to build up to using a strap on and we started with fingers and small butt plugs and thin dildos first and gradually progressed into using a full on harness/dildo combination. This helped us both become more confident in what we were doing and helped us identify likes and dislikes etc. and how much lube you need!!

We hope our thoughts on this are helpful and if you have any more specific questions please feel free to ask xoxoxxo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna nominate you for the Victoria Cross

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

Personally i love it!

It's not the same as a real cock but TBH it's the submission thing that is the real turn-on.

My thing is to be used/abused in front of or by my Mistress. It's a turn on for her as well as me.

As said though, you need some one who is aware of what they're doing. Most strap-ons are big buggers (see what i did there?

) & can hurt if not used carefully.

The sight of a leather/rubber clad Domme fucking you as you lie on your back with your legs open is amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"now i've never tried this yet but i was talking to someone last night who's mrs done it to him and he was raving about it

i've never had a bi experience, or ever really considered it but this got me thinking.

i was just wondering what people generally thought of this - if any of you women do it, or if you guys like it?"

now is a guy getting fucked up the arse by his wife with a strap on a bi experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why does it always come back to bi phobia...

its bout discovering new experiences...

must say tho i just cant keep up with the rythmn like a man can but there's summat horny bout having a cock and control...lol...

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

I love it too......I'm lucky enough to know some wonderfully sexy ladies who like playing and using one on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"now i've never tried this yet but i was talking to someone last night who's mrs done it to him and he was raving about it

i've never had a bi experience, or ever really considered it but this got me thinking.

i was just wondering what people generally thought of this - if any of you women do it, or if you guys like it?

now is a guy getting fucked up the arse by his wife with a strap on a bi experience?

Lol...I told a so called mate of mine that a woman I once met had tied me up and started licking and fingered my ass while giving me a blow job, he called me a faggot, and said that any anal activity taken by a man means that he,s secretly gay, he was quite disgusted by it...good thing i didn't mention that she used a strap on aswell...personally I couldn't give a damn what people think, if they want to be inhibited and stick to the norm...fine!

But I'm a kinky bugger and as long as its with a woman and it turns her on..its all good, bliss is a journey not a destination...might as well take the scenic route

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On of my all time fantasy's (all be it unfulfilled) have a wife f**k me with a strap on while sucking her Husbands cock.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

trieD strap ons

I dont like em

I have 2 wonderful glass dido's that I think are much better

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By *eanieMan
over a year ago

Worcester

I've never had sex with someone wearing a strapon but a ladies finger is always nice. Wouldn't mind trying a toy or one of those glass dildos mentioned earlier!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need a new one.

I destroyed my favorite one from Planet pleasure through over vigorous use.

They have some fantastic ones at Babes and Horny but the prices are through the roof,crazeeee!

XXX

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