FabSwingers.com forum: Whats an obvious tell/sign a couple is swinging?

By *lackmamba2004 OP Man
2 weeks ago

manchester

A few days ago I was in a normal club with my friend. An older woman ,very sexy around 45, starts eyeing us up so I give her a spin. And she starts playing with my hair. The thing is her husband was right beside her and didn’t look too happy. I continue to dance with the woman with the hubby joining in. Still stoic tho. The older woman starts to back her ass into me. I glance over at the hubby and to me he looked kinda uncomfortable so I barely reciprocate, even though I wish I did. Did I miss something? I genuinely couldn’t tell if they were swingers or a wife disrespecting her husband.

By *lik and PaulCouple
2 weeks ago

cahoots

I would say certainly not swingers if he wasn't enjoying it and in that situation you should politely decline.

By *aptainhornpipeMan
2 weeks ago

manchester

If he didn’t look happy then probably 50% of that partnership wasn’t into swinging.

By *ature SpiceCouple
2 weeks ago

Ramsbottom

Probably not swingers, if things had got that far you would get some indication off the husband to do more, or if it was us, I would make it clear this is what we want.

By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

That sounds like they'd had a row or she was trying to make some kind of point. Perhaps someone else would have seen he was uncomfortable and gotten the hell out of it.