FabSwingers.com forum: It's not a dating site......But !

By *am4sin OP Man
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

We are all here for the same reason, we all like to be a little different. We don't fall into what is classed by society as normal lol.

We swing (or try to) now i find myself newly single, but i love the life style, but adding that to your Facebook profile, probably wont go down well, especially with family lol. So what's the best way to meet someone else that also want to be part of this as well.

I have met a cpl of woman outside of here and as soon as you talk losely about swinging they run for the hills, mainly they think it's the guy who wants to fuck other women, but for me it's the other way round, I like to see the mrs having fun. I'm happy playing or watching.

I do think, that some women on here may like the idea of a permanent fella who let's her play around as well, so i guess I'm just testing the water to see what other people's opinions are.

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By *umbria_fun69Man
2 weeks ago

Carlisle

I'm in a similar position to yourself. Newly single and would ideally meet someone who has shared naughty interests.

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By *bitofaslutWoman
2 weeks ago

Cannock

I know it's harder for men but really a club or plugging away here or on fet is the best way.

Put your likes and expectations front and centre so you only get contacted by the people who won't run for the hills.

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By *igbustedmilfWoman
2 weeks ago

Maidstone

As a formerly single woman who enjoys the lifestyle I would say yes put it on your profile and talk to women at clubs. That’s how I met my bf who has the same kink as you

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By *IG G77Man
2 weeks ago

GATLEY

I'm looking for a woman long term fwb to explore the swinging scene together and meet who we want to meet separately with others

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By *enelope2UWoman
2 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

I have ZERO desire for monogamy. I've always been faithful and always got cheated on therefore I no longer will no longer do that. What I still require is respect and communication as well as honesty. I don't care if he has multiple women I just expect respect of me and my time. If he has jealous others he can choose her because I'm not looking for the insecurities she brings. I'm fully open and transparent with who I choose to fuck or suck or sex.

I'm looking for duration flexibility spontaneous and someone that can pick up the phone to call txt drop by and who isn't in hiding so that we can go out to do other non sexual things. Outdoor sex, hotel sex, and unrestricted Dex etc requires you to at least like trust the person.

That's all.. that simple but that very rare and hard to find in reality on this site.

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By *xfordjohnMan
2 weeks ago

Oxford

My best relationships have been with women who shared my enthusiasm for sex and believed in non-monogamous relationships, so, yes, I'd love to meet another!

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By *JCRoseWoman
2 weeks ago

Caversham

Be honest on your profile here say you looking for meets but also open to a relationship where mrs plays away...... See what happens and go with the flow.

I have met an ex from here and currently seeing a guy because he is like you and likes the idea of me playing away....

I wanted to find that guy to build a relationship with but still want to have fun so we are out there lol.

Normal dating sites will have a lot of people running for the hills.

Fwb might turn in to more

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By *ever2old4toysCouple
2 weeks ago

Abingdon

I met my wife at a social event where we were doing what we love. It's a good kick start to a relationship that you have something in common. I prefer dating this way rather than bars and pubs where the only common denominator is bars and pubs.

Thankfully my wife is sexually adventurous but what if you have swinging or ENM as core thing in your life? Then finding someone on here shares a core value! That's good dating.

The only thing is we have to communicate clearly on here. You can easily get in a situation where they go "sorry buddy. I'm up for you shooting cum down my throat but dating? That seems too far!"

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By *am4sin OP Man
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

I have been in a relationship where she played and I watched, but the relationship ended after 3 years for other reasons, that's why I did this thread.

I'd like to have another relationship the same.

Knowing she was at home with me watching or out having sex blew my mind, and then her coming home telling me all about what they had done was amazing. I loved it.

So I'd love to find another woman into the same thing.

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By *ark n kimCouple
2 weeks ago

Durham

When we first talked about swinging.it was a club that I wanted to visit.kim automatically thought I just wanted to shag other women,but with consent.

Nothing could have been further from the truth.

We are most definitely a hot wife couple.but don't mistakes that from being a cuckold.i am most definitely not.

After a lot of talking a few false starts and a lengthy break from everything,we both understand what ach other wants out of swinging.

We are having a ball now.

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By *ergus1622Man
2 weeks ago

Dundee

Me and the wife met through fab and now back on but playing separate at the moment while looking togo to clubs together. So I am looking to find a lady or perhaps a couple to chat and play with, but see what happens.

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
2 weeks ago

Nr coleford

We meet through fab coming up to our 10th wedding anniversary this year

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By *rdere OpusCouple
2 weeks ago

Brum - ish

We’re another couple who met via Fab. It can happen, you just have to take a risk and be honest when you develop feelings if you want it to progress.

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By *urvyEssexWoman
1 week ago

Essex

I’m having the same issue, but from a female perspective. Would love to date and find a relationship, however I’m not sure I could have a vanilla/monogamous relationship again. As soon as the word swinging is mentioned, men either think that gives them a free pass to sleep with whoever they want or assume that I want to sleep around. Not the case at all, I love the social side as much as anything, and I have to have a connection with someone to play with them. I just love the excitement of it all, and I’ve gotten so much more confident in myself through the lifestyle. Don’t want to give that up.

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