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By *alfbloodprince OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Why is it so hard for us single males to get a look in? 😩

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

21 weeks ago

East Sussex

Mostly because single guys vastly outnumber women and couples.

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By *alfbloodprince OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Yeah that’s a fair point

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By *enelope2UWoman
21 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Have you read the majority of the nonsense that "single" men send to women and females on here... Read some of the forums you'd understand more of why.

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By *alfbloodprince OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

No I haven’t, I don’t send anything rude in the first message, like to link it to their bio if I can

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By *achelTheAnalSlutTV/TS
21 weeks ago

Haywards Heath


"Have you read the majority of the nonsense that "single" men send to women and females on here... Read some of the forums you'd understand more of why.

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Totally agree.

But in fairness to the OP, his profile looks pretty good compared to most of the people who complain about it. He's got a profile pic, some publicly visible pics and a bit of info in his bio.

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By *onyjoCouple
21 weeks ago

Peterborough


"Why is it so hard for us single males to get a look in? 😩"

Alot of singles on here are dreamers and fantasists that talk the talk but bottle out when it come down to show up for meets.

It's a shame for the genuine ones.

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By *ustus5555Woman
21 weeks ago

Mansfield

Trust me. Not many do

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By *alfbloodprince OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Yeah I agree, it does ruin it for the minority that are genuine!

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By *alfbloodprince OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Thank you, I really appreciate that

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By *alfbloodprince OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

We’re not all bad haha

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
21 weeks ago

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If you haven't already done it, start going to local social events and clubs, After a few visits people will get to know your name/face and personality, A huge amount of people only meet via clubs

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By *alfbloodprince OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Yeah I’m just not that comfortable going alone so kinda stay away from clubs, tried one once on my own and it wasn’t a good experience haha

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
21 weeks ago

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"Yeah I’m just not that comfortable going alone so kinda stay away from clubs, tried one once on my own and it wasn’t a good experience haha"

As the weather warms up a lot of socials will start to appear on fab, Put your name down on one of them, Not all will be at swingers clubs so it will just be a normal night out, As for going to clubs keep a eye out for who is going to themed nights and let people know you're going, You could even ask for any single men if they want to go along with you so you're not standing alone most of the night

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By *achelTheAnalSlutTV/TS
21 weeks ago

Haywards Heath


"Yeah I’m just not that comfortable going alone so kinda stay away from clubs, tried one once on my own and it wasn’t a good experience haha"

That's the kicker isn't it, I'm the same.

You need to go to socials to meet people, but aren't comfortable going to socials on your own, so need to meet people in order to go to socials to meet people!! 😄 😞

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By *alfbloodprince OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire


"Yeah I’m just not that comfortable going alone so kinda stay away from clubs, tried one once on my own and it wasn’t a good experience haha

That's the kicker isn't it, I'm the same.

You need to go to socials to meet people, but aren't comfortable going to socials on your own, so need to meet people in order to go to socials to meet people!! 😄 😞"

Yeah exactly it’s a double edged sword isn’t it haha! Like I get people aren’t every one’s type and that’s absolutely fine but at least a bit of interest would be nice haha

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By *aciamiCouple
21 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

Because this is a swingers site and not a sex site. Most single males unfortunately see it as the latter.

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By *uncouple153Couple
21 weeks ago

Abergavenny


"Because this is a swingers site and not a sex site. Most single males unfortunately see it as the latter.

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This

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By *alfbloodprince OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire


"Because this is a swingers site and not a sex site. Most single males unfortunately see it as the latter.

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Not just for swingers though, there’s single women who have preferences on playing solo rather than in a couple so I think it’s a bit more wider than just for people who swing

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By *rdere OpusCouple
21 weeks ago

Brum - ish

It’s partly a numbers game. But also many men don’t help their chances with their chosen approach.

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By *uncouple153Couple
21 weeks ago

Abergavenny

We had to block single guys as 95% of the mesases were basically.

Free now?

Can I fuck the Mrs?

Like my cock?

I feel for the 5% but the sheer volume of this type of message was infuriating.

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By *alfbloodprince OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire


"We had to block single guys as 95% of the mesases were basically.

Free now?

Can I fuck the Mrs?

Like my cock?

I feel for the 5% but the sheer volume of this type of message was infuriating. "

Yeah see I don’t message like that because I know that’s how most are messaging but yeah it’s crap for us the minority

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