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By *woofuslondon OP   Couple
over a year ago

london

Had a lady in her late twenties localish contact us about a 3sum, all was going well then she wondered if I (m) wanted her as a secret, I said I swing not cheat on my wife. She then ignored us, shame as we would have loved to have shared her. Do some people not differentiate between swinging to enhance our sexlife together and cheating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres a few on here think there the same thing, when in reality they are two very different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some like the thrill of tempting someone to cheat.. some like the thrill of cheating...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but swinging isnt cheating though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but swinging isnt cheating though."

most of what I do isn't swinging.. but I still use the site..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get this with guys alot, it states on my profile that my bf and i are swingers and i wont do instant meets, but constantly get messages saying they're in my area and blah blah blah....next!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but swinging isnt cheating though.

most of what I do isn't swinging.. but I still use the site.. "

ok good for you but the op was about swinging and cheating, so i simply stated that the two have absolutly nothing to do with each other, i never questioned what you do and i am sorry if it came across that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is not cheating as you both have agreed to do it. Some people assume that all me will cheat when tempted. Honestly why risk a great relationship for a shag ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but swinging isnt cheating though.

most of what I do isn't swinging.. but I still use the site..

ok good for you but the op was about swinging and cheating, so i simply stated that the two have absolutly nothing to do with each other, i never questioned what you do and i am sorry if it came across that way."

I was not responding to you!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"but swinging isnt cheating though."

Encouraging one half of a couple away to play as a secret would very much be considered cheating......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as i'm concerned, swinging is about total honesty and enjoyment for all, cheaters are only out for themselves and what they can get...cheaters can't be swingers in my book! Simple as that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always get people asking to meet me while Paul is at work etc , nature if the beast I guess when people have the horn they think with their libido and nothing else

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


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ok good for you but the op was about swinging and cheating, so i simply stated that the two have absolutly nothing to do with each other, i never questioned what you do and i am sorry if it came across that way.

I was not responding to you!

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They werent responding to you either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but swinging isnt cheating though.

most of what I do isn't swinging.. but I still use the site..

ok good for you but the op was about swinging and cheating, so i simply stated that the two have absolutly nothing to do with each other, i never questioned what you do and i am sorry if it came across that way.

I was not responding to you!

"

Lol the couple wasn't responding to you either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but swinging isnt cheating though.

most of what I do isn't swinging.. but I still use the site..

ok good for you but the op was about swinging and cheating, so i simply stated that the two have absolutly nothing to do with each other, i never questioned what you do and i am sorry if it came across that way.

I was not responding to you!

Lol the couple wasn't responding to you either "

Lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single female and i only really meet couples.

It's not something I have or ever would do. I respect the fact that you are part of a couple. And any couples I meet know this. I flirt and banter with both members equally, and I play that way too.

Same as in normal life, I'd never bat an eyelid at any man I knew was attached. I'm many things, but a home wrecker, I ain't!

Maybe it's just me. But if I wanted to meet a m or f alone, I'd browse the singles profiles?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single female and i only really meet couples.

It's not something I have or ever would do. I respect the fact that you are part of a couple. And any couples I meet know this. I flirt and banter with both members equally, and I play that way too.

Same as in normal life, I'd never bat an eyelid at any man I knew was attached. I'm many things, but a home wrecker, I ain't!

Maybe it's just me. But if I wanted to meet a m or f alone, I'd browse the

singles profiles?! "

Like this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but swinging isnt cheating though.

Encouraging one half of a couple away to play as a secret would very much be considered cheating......"

which is why i have said it has nothing to do with swinging, cheating no matter how anyone tries to butter it up is wrong simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liars would only get caught out...its just a matter of time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day, if you only play as a couple, they should respect that. Plenty of fish in the sea!

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By *woofuslondon OP   Couple
over a year ago

london


"I'm a single female and i only really meet couples.

It's not something I have or ever would do. I respect the fact that you are part of a couple. And any couples I meet know this. I flirt and banter with both members equally, and I play that way too.

Same as in normal life, I'd never bat an eyelid at any man I knew was attached. I'm many things, but a home wrecker, I ain't!

Maybe it's just me. But if I wanted to meet a m or f alone, I'd browse the singles profiles?! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a couple and had a great time, then. Met the guy for MMF which again was great, then my partner told me he had emailed asking her to meet him alone!! Idiot.!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met a couple and had a great time, then. Met the guy for MMF which again was great, then my partner told me he had emailed asking her to meet him alone!! Idiot.!!"

Obviously assumed that because you'd met several times that it would be alright. :S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met a couple and had a great time, then. Met the guy for MMF which again was great, then my partner told me he had emailed asking her to meet him alone!! Idiot.!!"

Did his partner know he met you for MMF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met a couple and had a great time, then. Met the guy for MMF which again was great, then my partner told me he had emailed asking her to meet him alone!! Idiot.!!"

What's wrong with asking?

Did he tell her to keep it from you?

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