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By *aul4stockings OP   Man
22 weeks ago

South Yorkshire

So I was chatting to a lovely 67-year-old lady yesterday about the delectable contrast between her public persona- NHS nurse, grandma, upstanding member of a rural community and the secret slutty side where she and her husband travel to clubs, hold discreet swinging parties (where even the retired village GP attends to her) and go on swinging holidays. We agreed the contrast between the you'd-never-guess-it-was-them outward image and the 300 partners in 10 years, once 12 men in one night, was a fun side of this lifestyle.

So who else has these most respectable public personas? What are your contrasting lives? Who is the most respectable and most debauched at the same time?

This lady said she never lets the two lives overlap except if you looked closely and saw her suspender bumps at church!

If you'd rather not say in public just reply to me privately and I'll post anonymously.

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By *idnight_MinxWoman
22 weeks ago

Wales

I’m fairly similar I suppose.

NHS job, Girl Guiding volunteer, veg gardener and baker.

Then you see my pics from behind closed doors….. very much two different personas!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
22 weeks ago

East Sussex

I think most of us have very different public personas.

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By *aul4stockings OP   Man
22 weeks ago

South Yorkshire


"I think most of us have very different public personas. "

I know we all do but as the first reply shows the Girl Guide leader is an example of the last person you’d suspect. The truth is you can find us everywhere.

What I’d like to find is the biggest contrast. So if you were a night club DJ or you were village vicar I know what I think seems more intriguing.

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By *llie AssMan
22 weeks ago

South Yorkshire

I would very surprised if anyone who knows me in the "real" world could imagine what I enjoy doing, and doing well.

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By *aul4stockings OP   Man
22 weeks ago

South Yorkshire


"I would very surprised if anyone who knows me in the "real" world could imagine what I enjoy doing, and doing well. "

Go on

Give us a clue as to your real world?

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By *llie AssMan
22 weeks ago

South Yorkshire


"I would very surprised if anyone who knows me in the "real" world could imagine what I enjoy doing, and doing well.

Go on

Give us a clue as to your real world? "

A masculine rugby playing married man, and absolutely no one would suspect that my wife not only knows everything, but that she used to share hung men with me.

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By *aul4stockings OP   Man
22 weeks ago

South Yorkshire

That is pretty cool

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
22 weeks ago

Bristol

I don't think anyone would pick me out as a swinger. Only had 2 long term relationships prior to meeting Mr R and am generally quite quiet and introverted.

I reckon they'd be surprised to find out I've been with more men, and women, since we've been married than before it

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By *forfuntimesCouple
22 weeks ago

Sheffield

We spent may years working for the same company(ies) and were always considered to be quite boring.. why? - becuase on a Monday morning (or any other morning) we would never brag about what (or whom) we had done that weekend...used to make us smile...a lot - if they only knew

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
22 weeks ago

Westbury (Wiltshire)

That's part of the attraction to this crazy lifestyle. It's our secret and only those in the lifestyle are aware of us as swingers.

Our response to what did you get up to at the weekend is " Oh, the usual".

What would the office do if they knew?

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By *aul4stockings OP   Man
22 weeks ago

South Yorkshire

So what are the secret cross overs between the two lives? There’s a lovely prim primary school headteacher with a young family here who has worn her shiny black knee high boots to work. At the weekend she wears them to be gang banged and loves wearing them at work on Monday.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
22 weeks ago

London

I don't think anyone I know irl would be surprised to find me here

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By *teph102Woman
22 weeks ago

Derry

I personally work in a call Center with about 15 other people. I think they would all be very surprised to find out that Steph, who is always the first one to give help or support and is also there union rep is into some kinky ass shit. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Me live alone rural very quiet life at home

Love to fly fish and country walks run my own buisness so lead a quiet life

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I don’t have work colleagues or work in an office

Don’t have neighbours but anyone who knows me would have no clue

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I didn’t grow up where I live have no family

Just a normal guy

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By *enelope2UWoman
22 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

I think it's definitely a cultural thing.. people here can't accept that people have lives that are still them and sex lives that are also still them..

That's why so many here have simple fantasies and keyboard dreams they will never do or have done because they can't accept the duality of a person.

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By *enelope2UWoman
22 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances


"That's part of the attraction to this crazy lifestyle. It's our secret and only those in the lifestyle are aware of us as swingers.

Our response to what did you get up to at the weekend is " Oh, the usual".

What would the office do if they knew?"

Exactly!

I'm fortunate my friends and partially my family are aware of who I am. I couldn't associate with anyone who'd judge otherwise.

It's called lifestyle for a reason.

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By *hocolateRodMan
22 weeks ago

London and over UK

Have to say - before I got into swinging, I just assumed that swingers were hippies or young clubbing kids. I was in for a shock. Like you lady friend, all of teh couples I have met have been very upstanding discreet responsible members of society

It always shocked me when I met couples

for the first time - how normal they were - couldnt believe it. But is has become a huge turn on for me - knowing this nice respectable couple that I am chatting to in the pub -are likely to ask me to join them in bed!

The contrast is such a turn on

AS for myself, am very low key - when people at work ask me how was my weekend. I will mumble "oh low key" - little do they realise i have spent the evening in bed with a married couple where hubby and I have been servicing a very greedy wife!

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By *aul4stockings OP   Man
22 weeks ago

South Yorkshire

I started this thread a couple of years ago and one lady was a funeral director- something about that was thrilling

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By *ertcoupleCouple
22 weeks ago

Hatfield

Anyone who knows us outside of this would think butter never melted!!! It's fun as we talk about dogging and swapping and too them it sounds as if we're joking along with them, when in reallity we are telling them

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By *aul4stockings OP   Man
22 weeks ago

South Yorkshire

That’s really funny, do you say things like “but people don’t really do that do they?”

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By *oobieTrapWoman
22 weeks ago

london


"So I was chatting to a lovely 67-year-old lady yesterday about the delectable contrast between her public persona- NHS nurse, grandma, upstanding member of a rural community and the secret slutty side where she and her husband travel to clubs, hold discreet swinging parties (where even the retired village GP attends to her) and go on swinging holidays. We agreed the contrast between the you'd-never-guess-it-was-them outward image and the 300 partners in 10 years, once 12 men in one night, was a fun side of this lifestyle.

So who else has these most respectable public personas? What are your contrasting lives? Who is the most respectable and most debauched at the same time?

This lady said she never lets the two lives overlap except if you looked closely and saw her suspender bumps at church!

If you'd rather not say in public just reply to me privately and I'll post anonymously."

I’m the same

Work in a respectable office

Have to be very careful

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By *ikeC81Man
22 weeks ago

harrow


"So I was chatting to a lovely 67-year-old lady yesterday about the delectable contrast between her public persona- NHS nurse, grandma, upstanding member of a rural community and the secret slutty side where she and her husband travel to clubs, hold discreet swinging parties (where even the retired village GP attends to her) and go on swinging holidays. We agreed the contrast between the you'd-never-guess-it-was-them outward image and the 300 partners in 10 years, once 12 men in one night, was a fun side of this lifestyle.

So who else has these most respectable public personas? What are your contrasting lives? Who is the most respectable and most debauched at the same time?

This lady said she never lets the two lives overlap except if you looked closely and saw her suspender bumps at church!

If you'd rather not say in public just reply to me privately and I'll post anonymously.

I’m the same

Work in a respectable office

Have to be very careful "

I work in a respectable office as well!!! Luckily my football antics hide my extra curricular activities

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
22 weeks ago

manchester

Cammy is NHS. Most of her family and work colleagues are aware. I have had a fairly public life and few know.

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By *aomilatteCouple
22 weeks ago

Midlands

Some people actually think we're a bit prudish, because we have morals and believe there's a time and a place for everything. If only they knew

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By *ertcoupleCouple
22 weeks ago

Hatfield


"That’s really funny, do you say things like “but people don’t really do that do they?”"

Yeah... we say things like " oh yeah we love that " and they're replies are usually " no chance, yous are too prudish to do anything like that "

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By *aul4stockings OP   Man
21 weeks ago

South Yorkshire

Hiding in plain sight!

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By *ergus1622Man
21 weeks ago

Dundee

It's always fun to be the angel in the street and the devil in the sheets

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By *aul4stockings OP   Man
21 weeks ago

South Yorkshire


"

I’m the same

Work in a respectable office

Have to be very careful "

The men at work who lust after your amazing boobs would love to know!!

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