FabSwingers.com forum: The vanilla lives of swingers

By *aul4stockings OP Man
15 hours ago

South Yorkshire

So I was chatting to a lovely 67-year-old lady yesterday about the delectable contrast between her public persona- NHS nurse, grandma, upstanding member of a rural community and the secret slutty side where she and her husband travel to clubs, hold discreet swinging parties (where even the retired village GP attends to her) and go on swinging holidays. We agreed the contrast between the you'd-never-guess-it-was-them outward image and the 300 partners in 10 years, once 12 men in one night, was a fun side of this lifestyle.

So who else has these most respectable public personas? What are your contrasting lives? Who is the most respectable and most debauched at the same time?

This lady said she never lets the two lives overlap except if you looked closely and saw her suspender bumps at church!

If you'd rather not say in public just reply to me privately and I'll post anonymously.

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By *aralluWoman
15 hours ago

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I’m fairly similar I suppose.

NHS job, Girl Guiding volunteer, veg gardener and baker.

Then you see my pics from behind closed doors….. very much two different personas!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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15 hours ago

East Sussex

I think most of us have very different public personas.

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By *aul4stockings OP Man
15 hours ago

South Yorkshire

"I think most of us have very different public personas. "

I know we all do but as the first reply shows the Girl Guide leader is an example of the last person you’d suspect. The truth is you can find us everywhere.

What I’d like to find is the biggest contrast. So if you were a night club DJ or you were village vicar I know what I think seems more intriguing.

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By *llie AssMan
15 hours ago

South Yorkshire

I would very surprised if anyone who knows me in the "real" world could imagine what I enjoy doing, and doing well.

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By *aul4stockings OP Man
15 hours ago

South Yorkshire

"I would very surprised if anyone who knows me in the "real" world could imagine what I enjoy doing, and doing well. "

Go on

Give us a clue as to your real world?

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By *llie AssMan
15 hours ago

South Yorkshire

"I would very surprised if anyone who knows me in the "real" world could imagine what I enjoy doing, and doing well.

Go on

Give us a clue as to your real world? "

A masculine rugby playing married man, and absolutely no one would suspect that my wife not only knows everything, but that she used to share hung men with me.

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By *aul4stockings OP Man
15 hours ago

South Yorkshire

That is pretty cool

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
13 hours ago

Bristol

I don't think anyone would pick me out as a swinger. Only had 2 long term relationships prior to meeting Mr R and am generally quite quiet and introverted.

I reckon they'd be surprised to find out I've been with more men, and women, since we've been married than before it

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By *forfuntimesCouple
12 hours ago

Sheffield

We spent may years working for the same company(ies) and were always considered to be quite boring.. why? - becuase on a Monday morning (or any other morning) we would never brag about what (or whom) we had done that weekend...used to make us smile...a lot - if they only knew

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
10 hours ago

Trowbridge

That's part of the attraction to this crazy lifestyle. It's our secret and only those in the lifestyle are aware of us as swingers.

Our response to what did you get up to at the weekend is " Oh, the usual".

What would the office do if they knew?

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