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By *ustmehorny1976 OP   Man
18 hours ago

Birmingham

What are people looking for….i get I’m probably not it for many people, but I’m interested what is ‘it’ anyone got any thoughts?

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By *hil most chillMan
16 hours ago

South East & Europe

Everyone's looking for different things and most of them won't align with you and want you're looking for unfortunately.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
16 hours ago

Manchester


"What are people looking for….i get I’m probably not it for many people, but I’m interested what is ‘it’ anyone got any thoughts?"

It’s a numbers game. I would estimate that out of every hundred messages we get perhaps 99 are from

That’s the competition you are up against. Just one of a host of thousands.

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By *lusherCouple
16 hours ago

bodmin


"What are people looking for….i get I’m probably not it for many people, but I’m interested what is ‘it’ anyone got any thoughts?"

"It" is the mystery. Meeting online is even harder than meeting face to face. There should be a speed dating meet for swingers!

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By *eo369Man
16 hours ago

Sleaford

Get used to it here men out number women probably 15/1 you can write the nicest message dont make no difference,and if you do get an answer its usually 'not for me' women have many choices here so that's how I see it

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By *ustmehorny1976 OP   Man
16 hours ago

Birmingham

Thanks for replies everyone 👍

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By *issmorganWoman
15 hours ago

Calderdale innit

You being married means you'll be a no for many women op, but you've been upfront so people can make their own minds up about meeting you.

Also your availability of only daytime, will reduce your meets, as many ladies and couples still work office hours.

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By *ustmehorny1976 OP   Man
12 hours ago

Birmingham


"You being married means you'll be a no for many women op, but you've been upfront so people can make their own minds up about meeting you.

Also your availability of only daytime, will reduce your meets, as many ladies and couples still work office hours. "

Thank you so much for your thoughts, much appreciated 😊

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By *igad999Man
12 hours ago

wolverhampton


"You being married means you'll be a no for many women op, but you've been upfront so people can make their own minds up about meeting you.

Also your availability of only daytime, will reduce your meets, as many ladies and couples still work office hours.

Thank you so much for your thoughts, much appreciated 😊"

Tbf people saying about the married bit and yes know lot don’t want to get involved because of complications.

I’m married too me and wife played many years ago but she doesn’t want to now which is fine and I respect that and always be a fantastic for her to have another man again

We still have amazing sex life but I’m on here mainly for forums chats etc and occasional fun

I find most evenings reading chatting etc gets me going that bit more and also pick up things new things and share experiences

As people said they are on here for many different things and I’m sure you will meet who you want soon

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By *ustmehorny1976 OP   Man
12 hours ago

Birmingham


"You being married means you'll be a no for many women op, but you've been upfront so people can make their own minds up about meeting you.

Also your availability of only daytime, will reduce your meets, as many ladies and couples still work office hours.

Thank you so much for your thoughts, much appreciated 😊

Tbf people saying about the married bit and yes know lot don’t want to get involved because of complications.

I’m married too me and wife played many years ago but she doesn’t want to now which is fine and I respect that and always be a fantastic for her to have another man again

We still have amazing sex life but I’m on here mainly for forums chats etc and occasional fun

I find most evenings reading chatting etc gets me going that bit more and also pick up things new things and share experiences

As people said they are on here for many different things and I’m sure you will meet who you want soon "

It’s great to hear how you benefit from the site, fantastic! Thanks for your comment, it’s really interesting to hear your thoughts, take care!

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By *ndyn50000Man
10 hours ago

Birmingham

Being married puts some off, some ladies don't mind and some like it.

Just find someone you like, read profile and send a message that makes them smile and off you go.

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
35 minutes ago

Northallerton

For us, it is all in the messages. If a guy gets in touch, the initial chat has to be imaginative and careful wrote and are articulate. Really don't like "cut and paste" messages or "how are yous" messages. Happy to receive messages from anyone though and always like to reply.

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By *tleystagMan
32 minutes ago

ilkley


"For us, it is all in the messages. If a guy gets in touch, the initial chat has to be imaginative and careful wrote and are articulate. Really don't like "cut and paste" messages or "how are yous" messages. Happy to receive messages from anyone though and always like to reply."

I think you need to look "articulate" in the dictionary.

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By *MCMan
29 minutes ago

London/EA

You’ve managed to have 10 meets OP, I’d say you’re doing considering well as most people moan about not getting one!

Unfortunately can’t be everyone’s cup of tea but just take the rejection/no reply as a blessing to no longer waste anytime on pursing them.

Have fun!

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