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is 3 a crowd ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i often get invited to a swingers club with a friend and her long time buddy. i just lately feel like im the goose berry.

is 3 a crowd ?

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

not as far as I'm concerned...I too go to a club with a couple...but have never felt in the least bit like a gooseberry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is "Are you enjoying yourself?".

If so theres no problem but if its cramping your style and your feeling self conscious then we'd make alternative arrangements.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks guys

i only go with them when im invited i never go unless they ask me too.but just lately im feeling like i shudnt go with them

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"

is 3 a crowd ?"

I bloody hope not!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"i only go with them when im invited i never go unless they ask me too"

Ask yourself, why are they inviting you

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By *issCognitoWoman
over a year ago

secret location near glasgow

If u feel that way.. Speak to them or stop going and find new buddys x

Your obv not gettin all you should out of the situation so jst put it down as an experience and find new fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask a guy to accompany you and your friends from this site when you know you are going.... simples, at least your friends are there if the guy you invite does nothing for you, or you may just have the night you hoped for?....

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By *cite6662002Couple
over a year ago

glos

speak to them maybe thay are iviteing

you just as a friend ? do you stay with them the hole time when your there

maybe thay are a better friend than you think and are just thinking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe its just them you feel uncomfy with? maybe if it was a different couple you'd feel different, i must admit, and obviously i can only speak for myself, but i get bored with meeting the same people very quick, if i went to a club with someone i wasnt really that bothered about maybe i'd feel like you, but if it was someone i was bothered about im sure id feel different, its hard for me to speak as a going to a club as a 3sum thing as i dont meet couples so would never go to a club with one, but if a did meet couples and they was a couple i liked and wanted to play with i think id be to busy getting stuck in to feel left out, i just feel your not really wanted to take part with them, maybe thats why you feel like an outsider??

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