FabSwingers.com forum: MFM

By *unclp2011 OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Irwin

I have a question about MFM my husband wants to have a 3way with another guy and I do to he is 100% straight and we have always been with couples so he would like to start by watching me with the other guy and he said he would join in when I want him to my question is when to ask him to join in should I wait till the other guy is almost done or not long after we start just interested in everyone’s opinion thanks

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By *orthernMan1991Man
3 weeks ago

Seaburn

From experience i think its usually about finding what works for you and your own rhythm. I have had instances in which the other guy has more enjoyed watching so only wanted to join in towards the end. Other times we both have focus a lot more on the female together which meant we both got more involved during foreplay/ earlier

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
3 weeks ago

furnace

"From experience i think its usually about finding what works for you and your own rhythm. I have had instances in which the other guy has more enjoyed watching so only wanted to join in towards the end. Other times we both have focus a lot more on the female together which meant we both got more involved during foreplay/ earlier

Spot on

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By *unclp2011 OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Irwin

Thanks I know he wants to watch me for awhile with the other guy

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By *exyScientistsCouple
3 weeks ago

Castlebar

"I have a question about MFM my husband wants to have a 3way with another guy and I do to he is 100% straight and we have always been with couples so he would like to start by watching me with the other guy and he said he would join in when I want him to my question is when to ask him to join in should I wait till the other guy is almost done or not long after we start just interested in everyone’s opinion thanks"

I definitely used to think too much about this. Now I just get on with it with the other guy and Mr kinda jumps in...can't plan these things to much. Go with the flow and just enjoy it 😈

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By *un-with-usCouple
3 weeks ago

Carmarthen

I usually sit back and get off on seeing Mrs have fun, then wander over and join in at some point, usually when she least expects it. She loses her self in the moment which turns me on even more

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By *ynergyMan
3 weeks ago

Chelmsford

That's the goal

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By *arleycplCouple
3 weeks ago

Leyburn

We just get naked and see where it takes us, Andy loves watching sometimes

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By *unclp2011 OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Irwin

Thank you both yes I probably am over thinking it and hopefully in the moment it all plays out

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By *unclp2011 OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Irwin

"We just get naked and see where it takes us, Andy loves watching sometimes "

That works for me

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By *heeky12399Man
3 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Been involved in a few and it's always different some have joined straight away some join then sit back wank and watch and other wait till the end after they've got to the edge and join in to finish. It's all down to you. I'd suggest you just tell him whenever you want or accept when he joins. Enjoy it don't think about it

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By *unclp2011 OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Irwin

Thanks I am definitely probably over thinking it lol

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By *lym4realCouple
3 weeks ago

plymouth

We've had afew m/m/f and we find depends on the mood really and the male is more than happy to see her being enjoyed by another male and he's also happy to join in but does 100% depend on what you both want and agree on so have a good talk about what each other hopes to get out of it and even more vital is to talk about it afterwards aswell !!

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By *ee1967Man
3 weeks ago

watford

Back in the day I used to sit and watch my ex 2ife with a guy on our bed, watch them kiss and do oral etc. As for when to join in, she used to give me a wink

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By *unclp2011 OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Irwin

"Back in the day I used to sit and watch my ex 2ife with a guy on our bed, watch them kiss and do oral etc. As for when to join in, she used to give me a wink"

I think he wants me to ask for him to join after awhile of him watching or reach out for his dick and start sucking it

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By *eedsmale36Man
3 weeks ago

Leeds

I’m sure hubby will let you know when he’s wanting to get involved

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By *onnyDVPMan
3 weeks ago

Warwick

Don't overthink it, you'll know when you're all ready.

Each situation is different. Best bit of advice is to just enjoy the moment, let him watch until he's ready, or until you need him, then let him play too.

Most of all, enjoy yourselves as you'll have 2 cocks to play with!!

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By *hoenix_1Man
3 weeks ago

richmond

With me ex partner, we just let it flow with no real plan, once he arrived we had a brew in the lounge, she went to the bedroom, laid on the bed in her sexies and called us up when she was ready, and he started to play with her and I joined in.

Other occasions I would start and then invite him to join us, once we arrived at his house were it was just going to be him watching, she was only wearing a basque and stockings under her coat, I took her coat off and started to play, she noticed he was stroking his cock over his pants, told him it was OK for him to get it out and play eith himself, soon after she told him to join us

So just let it flow and as long as your all enjoying it. That's great 👍

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Don't plan it, go with the flow.

My husbands likes to watch but we have found most others like to watch too

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By *linky1Couple
3 weeks ago

Sittingbourne

It does depend on the 2nd guy.

Some guys are really in to the 3some scenario and all the fun combinations.

A lot of guys are more into you watching them.

So pick wisely.

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By *unclp2011 OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Irwin

"It does depend on the 2nd guy.

Some guys are really in to the 3some scenario and all the fun combinations.

A lot of guys are more into you watching them.

So pick wisely."

The guy we picked is very nice and is ok with my hubby watching for as long as he wants

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By *iFruityCoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Lagos Portugal/ Watermouth

It depends what you are looking for, are you looking to control your husband, then you invite him in when you want him. If not he joins in when he want.

BUT you do need to be sure the guest knows what to expect. Straight men usually use the woman as a bridge. BI men will do anything from assist to playing without the woman.

Set your boundaries, but don't be afraid to cross them if everyone is happy.

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By *unclp2011 OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Irwin

"It depends what you are looking for, are you looking to control your husband, then you invite him in when you want him. If not he joins in when he want.

BUT you do need to be sure the guest knows what to expect. Straight men usually use the woman as a bridge. BI men will do anything from assist to playing without the woman.

Set your boundaries, but don't be afraid to cross them if everyone is happy."

We have we found a guy that is straight and willing to let my husband watch or join in with me he has experience and said what ever we wanted to do

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By *ev_1Couple
3 weeks ago

Bickliegh

You can still be straight and jion in at the beginning!!

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By *onim54Man
3 weeks ago

st helier

From experience it depends on hubby as much as anything . He’ll know when he wants to join in if he’s not Shy or sub.its all about the mood. I always encourage the hubby to help roast the lady by getting her to suck him while I’m attending to the other end of her. If he’s a heavy cumer you might want him to cum on your face as you start your cum also !

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By *unclp2011 OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Irwin

"From experience it depends on hubby as much as anything . He’ll know when he wants to join in if he’s not Shy or sub.its all about the mood. I always encourage the hubby to help roast the lady by getting her to suck him while I’m attending to the other end of her. If he’s a heavy cumer you might want him to cum on your face as you start your cum also ! "

No he’s not shy at all he wants me to ask when I want him to join

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By *eyond PurityCouple
3 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

It’s been different each time for us.

Sometimes C has sat between the two guys and she’s took turns kissing and then touching.

Other times she’s took the lead and just got on her knees in front of the guy. It’s about making him comfortable, as we have that between us so just read the room and build the heat up naturally.

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By *xfordjohnMan
3 weeks ago

Oxford

I've little to add to all the wisdom above. It depends so much on what you want too - whether you want to be engaged with both guys from the start (which has always been my own experiecne over many years with different partners), or turn by turn.

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By *unclp2011 OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Irwin

"I've little to add to all the wisdom above. It depends so much on what you want too - whether you want to be engaged with both guys from the start (which has always been my own experiecne over many years with different partners), or turn by turn. "

I really want them to take turns with me

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By *astMeetsWestCouple
3 weeks ago

Bristol

You’ve just answered your own question x For us M is always at the centre of fun and what she wants she gets. Simples.

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By *andb69Couple
3 weeks ago

leeds

We've had many MFMs. I love playing like this, and each time, even with the same guy, is different, though both (or even more) guys are involved sometimes at the same time, sometimes not. I love the feel of wanking a cock in each hand, and that is often how we start, but I also love being spit roasted and tag teamed with the guys taking turns. B loves watching me too, so sometimes he just sits back or tales photographs. The dynamic is always different but evolves naturally and most importantly is always enjoyable.

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By *ynergyMan
3 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Wouldn't you just go with the flow ? See how it all pans out? I want to do same with my wife but I'm more than happy for him to be greedy with her then il just get involved to some extent or another

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
3 weeks ago

furnace

"We've had many MFMs. I love playing like this, and each time, even with the same guy, is different, though both (or even more) guys are involved sometimes at the same time, sometimes not. I love the feel of wanking a cock in each hand, and that is often how we start, but I also love being spit roasted and tag teamed with the guys taking turns. B loves watching me too, so sometimes he just sits back or tales photographs. The dynamic is always different but evolves naturally and most importantly is always enjoyable. "

Superb this is how it should be

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By *r SensualMan
3 weeks ago

London

This is my favourite dynamic to be part of with a MF couple as the second guy as opposed to another single guy and a single woman. I find the husband/bf/male significant other is more inclined to work in sync with me to please his lady. There’s been times where it’s started with just me and the lady & then her fella has joined in, other times it’s all 3 of us from the off.

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By *unclp2011 OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Irwin

Thanks everyone for the great feedback I love hearing about everyone’s experience with this

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By *inus 52Man
3 weeks ago

Beverley

It’s all about everyone being comfortable x personally I’d encourage him to join after we’ve had oral you could pleasure him while the other fucking you xx

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By *ickandHilaryCouple
3 weeks ago

Barnstaple

With me & Hilary, I like to be first and last….in between I just go with how I’m feeling x

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By *unclp2011 OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Irwin

"It’s all about everyone being comfortable x personally I’d encourage him to join after we’ve had oral you could pleasure him while the other fucking you xx"

That’s sounds fun but he wants to sit back and watch me for a while

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By *uffsandkinkCouple
3 weeks ago

leeds

We like all three to be involved all the time but like has already been said it's what works best for you

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By *emi30Woman
3 weeks ago

selby

Have one in your mouth and one in your cunt

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By *emptusboth777Couple
3 weeks ago

oxford

Really good thread and definitely giving us ideas of how to make this work and be fun too

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By *B24Couple
3 weeks ago

Spain

Leaving it to play out on its own definitely seems the best way?

We are hoping to be in this situation soon and without thinking too much about it I think I would watch to start with and see what role/positions they go for, let them have some fun and then join in after getting some videos etc. It doesn't take much for me to cum, especially in those scenarios so I would probably step back a bit later in to it too and let them finish or join back in so we could all finish at the same time.

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By *unclp2011 OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Irwin

Thanks everyone for the suggestions and advice this is a lot of help for us and looks like it is helpful to some other people keep it going

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By *pgroupsexMan
3 weeks ago

Kingston

I think you are perhaps worrying a tad too much about it. Ultimately it's supposed (and is!) great fun

Obviously you need to discuss (in advance) with your husband if there is anything you don't want to happen and, depending on how well you know and trust the other guy, if you need any kind of personal 'signal' i.e. so your partner knows, for sure, if you are feeling uncomfortable (however unlikely that may be).

But otherwise, simply go for it. You don't need a 'schedule' of what happens when

It's my #1 favourite scenario. Just enjoy yourselves.

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By *omewhatSlightlyDazedMan
3 weeks ago

Warwick Birmingham & YamYamLand

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I've just had my first MFM this morning and it was fantastic. They were a couple and me the 3rd part. He left the room to begin with and told us to start without him and call him when ready. This made me feel a lot more comfortable then less than ten mins later she called him and he watched for a while before joining in. We got up to so many different things, I was nervous as hell but it was so awesome, never awkward and being 100% straight myself I found I'm a lot more open than I thought

I'd just say focus more on finding the right person 1st then plan what you might all be up for in conversation leading up to the meet. If it's a spontaneous meet then just go with what feels right.

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