FabSwingers.com forum: Following on from do men like big women

By *lyce and Mister M OP Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

What's actually classed as big?!?!

Im a 16 all rounder tho 16 is loose, 34dd boobs. I don't c me as big, but again a lady at my size a few inch shorter might c herself as that.

I guess big is only what's in your eyes, but I just wondered if actually there was a size that represented this on males and females?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think its in the eye of the beholder personally.

I have relatives who are all on the larger side and they see themselves as average because their whole family is a similar size and I have relatives who are on teh smaller side who also see themselves as average. So everyone will have a different idea I think.

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By *lyce and Mister M OP Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"I think its in the eye of the beholder personally.

I think that too just wondered if there was a sort of unwritten rule that I didn't know. I've put myself as curvy just wondered if it was "right"....

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think there's a right or wrong, it refers to shape rather than size I think. Mr N filled our profile out and put me as curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt it be easier for women to put their actual size on the profile instead of this "fabulous,BBW,curvy" ? some women class themselves as slim when they clearly arent.

That way most people would have a better idea as to how small or big that person is and yes i know that different shops have slight differences when sizing dresses etc but they arent that far out on the whole if you buy a dress in a size 10 in Jane Norman you are not gonna be a size 18 in Primarni !

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Wouldnt it be easier for women to put their actual size on the profile instead of this "fabulous,BBW,curvy" ? some women class themselves as slim when they clearly arent.

I see your point but that's a bad analogy coz primark sizes are absolutely shocking!! Lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend who is a size 18/20 and she has a fabulous figure and is sexy as fook

Only time I think big is in height like 6'9 lol x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't dream of asking a man his waist size... But men on here expect boob and dress size...

I just ignore.... On the grounds that we aren't going clothes shopping...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm 5'10. I think that's pretty big.

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

"I wouldn't dream of asking a man his waist size... But men on here expect boob and dress size...

I just ignore.... On the grounds that we aren't going clothes shopping...

Most men don't know their waist size! Their other halves do their shopping for them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Putting dress sizes isn't much good either because a size 12 on a 6ft woman looks a lot different to a size 12 on a 5 ft woman. The system we have now is fine I think as long as pictures are recent .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Putting dress sizes isn't much good either because a size 12 on a 6ft woman looks a lot different to a size 12 on a 5 ft woman. The system we have now is fine I think as long as pictures are recent ."

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it would be a good idea to always have a body pic (even if just in private gallery) so that people can actually see what size you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 5'10. I think that's pretty big.

My ex was 5'10 and to me at 5'1 it wasn't big. But 6'9 is lol x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

as Will.i.am is fond of saying "you are size oh my God!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe it would be a good idea to always have a body pic (even if just in private gallery) so that people can actually see what size you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's actually classed as big?!?!

Im a 16 all rounder tho 16 is loose, 34dd boobs. I don't c me as big, but again a lady at my size a few inch shorter might c herself as that.

I guess big is only what's in your eyes, but I just wondered if actually there was a size that represented this on males and females?"

im a size 16 and I's say im fat

size is subjectional tho, ask 10 people what size a BBW is and you'll get several different replies because the size it starts at will depends on their taste in womenm

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By *ucyhenry69Couple
over a year ago

Hampton

"Wouldnt it be easier for women to put their actual size on the profile instead of this "fabulous,BBW,curvy" ? some women class themselves as slim when they clearly arent.

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By *oversforfun2000Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

I just said the same thing in the other post I am 5"10 and a 14/16 I don't think I look enormous I would still like to lose a few pounds but I have a friend of a friend who is 5"0 and the same 16 who looks totally different but thinks because we are the same size she isn't big!! I would never be horrible but we are totally different shapes!! That said if you are happy then it's no ones business but your own!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

if you think your curvy ... put curvy too many ladies on here over do the im fat thing . i can appreciate that they dont want to be let down by horrible guys who then say theyre too big .. but curvy is a nicer way to say on the ample side ... lets face it most guys are no oil paintings with fit bodies either but we all find playmates and fbs to suit us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 5 2. I am size 12 and have bmi of 27

So I'm overweight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they had the option pear shape id put that down.

As someone already said different height, different shapes.

Back to the original question, there isn't a set size for a BBW.

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By *appy campersCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Personally i think size has nothing to do with it, confidence and feeling sexy in your own skin is far more attractive to a guy (or woman) than worrying what their clothes size is

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I'd hate to put my dress size on my profile :-/ like others have said, people are different shapes and carry weight differently. I am 6ft tall so I generally look in proportion, yes definitely big but I don't waddle and and too tall to be spherical lol. I get approached sometimes by people who I think might be put off by my size, I have point blank refused to meet a guy who I was convinced I would be too big for based on what he said on his profile. Shame as he was lush but I wouldn't be able to relax, I'd think he was looking at me and thinking 'oh my god what have I done?!'.

I have a no flattering angles, lumpy bits included more or less full body shot in my friends only pics and I reckon if that doesn't scare them off it'll be ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see my self as average, a bit if a podgy belly but not a beer belly. I consider big to be 16 plus, some people hold there size well and others not so well. Both my ex wife and her sister were of a similar weight and size, 18-20, but my ex sister in law was shorter than my ex and didnt carry it as well as my ex did. So it does depend on height how well it's carried but as stated before I prefer women on the bigger size with curves and places to put my hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine reads, very big girl, size 26 and as wide as i am tall

perfect i thought

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I am 5 2. I am size 12 and have bmi of 27

So I'm overweight "

BMI is nonsense - I'm 5ft 4 and have a BMI of 28 - which is upper end of overweight. Even my nurse says its nonsense. I'm a size 10/12 but count my body size as average because I have a podgy tummy and am not perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am 5 2. I am size 12 and have bmi of 27

So I'm overweight

Lol BMI is the bullshit measurement index..... It allows doctors to say your fat when your not. I'm 5' 5" have a 36 inch waist weigh 13 1/2 stone and have a BMI OF 30.... According to my doc I'm morbidly obese.... Go figure

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

im over weight a bit ... so what no ones perfect xx

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