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what do men really think to us big women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi im a big girl and just wanted to know what men and women think about us big girls just curious to know ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both love the fuller figure on ladies so much sexier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh! I don't have a 'type' i go for! Its more if we click mentally than just pure physically. Whether that means if a lass has a few extra pounds or not doesn't bother me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi im a big girl and just wanted to know what men and women think about us big girls just curious to know ?"

Do you want the TRUTH?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We class bigger curvier girls as real women. Love to see sexy curvaceous fuller figured women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

tatally agree xx

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"hi im a big girl and just wanted to know what men and women think about us big girls just curious to know ?

Do you want the TRUTH? "

In before this thread gets messy.....

Guys and girls who like big girls will tell you they like big girls. Those that don't, and are able to communicate their preferences without offending others will do the same.

Some will preach on about keeping fit, and others will use the opportunity to push an agenda. A few people will get upset.

These threads are like lightning rods for controversy. If you are comfortable and feel sexy in your own skin and with your figure, then flaunt the hell out of it. There are more than enough people on here who will like you for you, whatever your size.

Don't sweat it on getting the approval of those that don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love big girls! But those soft sexy curves are second to a great personality xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys love big women. Some say they do to get laid, some don't.. others don't care..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi im a big girl and just wanted to know what men and women think about us big girls just curious to know ?

Do you want the TRUTH?

In before this thread gets messy.....

Guys and girls who like big girls will tell you they like big girls. Those that don't, and are able to communicate their preferences without offending others will do the same.

Some will preach on about keeping fit, and others will use the opportunity to push an agenda. A few people will get upset.

These threads are like lightning rods for controversy. If you are comfortable and feel sexy in your own skin and with your figure, then flaunt the hell out of it. There are more than enough people on here who will like you for you, whatever your size.

Don't sweat it on getting the approval of those that don't "

That just saved my finger a fair bit of typing!!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"We class bigger curvier girls as real women. Love to see sexy curvaceous fuller figured women. "

all women are real women, whether they are a size 6 or a size 30!

I've been a bigger woman (24/26 3 years ago) and have to say I'm treated better as a slimmer woman now. I get more respect and seen as less of a sex toy. Maybe that was more the men in my life.

I'm no less bubbly and fun now than I was then.

People like what people like, and you'll find you appeal to some and not to others. Thats just life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some bigger girls are sexy

Some aren't

Having _iewed your pics, I think you are one of the sexy ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some like big women some don't.

I personally tend to go for women with curves in the right places...meaning I like my women with big bums lol..hope that was helpful!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes i agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanku

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"hi im a big girl and just wanted to know what men and women think about us big girls just curious to know ?

Do you want the TRUTH?

In before this thread gets messy.....

Guys and girls who like big girls will tell you they like big girls. Those that don't, and are able to communicate their preferences without offending others will do the same.

Some will preach on about keeping fit, and others will use the opportunity to push an agenda. A few people will get upset.

These threads are like lightning rods for controversy. If you are comfortable and feel sexy in your own skin and with your figure, then flaunt the hell out of it. There are more than enough people on here who will like you for you, whatever your size.

Don't sweat it on getting the approval of those that don't "

Well said... Each to their own...

If someone doesn't find me attractive because of how i look/height/hair colour etc then they're just not for me.

Let them go and enjoy those who do find you sexy!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Reminds me i haven't started a look at me thread for ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love you big girls you are gorgous

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"hi im a big girl and just wanted to know what men and women think about us big girls just curious to know ?"

The same as women with big men. Some love it, some don't.

Personally I like slim or trim guys. That's my personal preference. I also prefer guys of a certain age and not too hirsute.

It is all down to the individual.

I think it best to concern yourself with how you feel about you. Feel good about yourself and others may well agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyones gonna like big girls and it would be boring if we all liked the same. Personally I'd be more bothered about what my meets think than the whole forum. That's just me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bigger the better for me

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By *omeYoungGuyMan
over a year ago

gosport

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By *omeYoungGuyMan
over a year ago

gosport

absolutely love a big girl and if she's confident about her body even better!

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

All depends on the individual 'big' woman, some are really attractive and some are pig ugly,some dress to impress and some dress chavvy, but the same goes for women of any size and shape. So there is no definitive answer, everyone has their own take on the subject. As the say goes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *otwife CoolhubCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

I find confidence attractive so as long as your comfortable in your own skin I'm good with that.

Who doesn't have one or two things they would change about themselves. Look at the people who have made themselves really unattractive by pursuing the perfect look!

"Him"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi im a big girl Each to their own...

If someone doesn't find me attractive because of how i look/height/hair colour etc then they're just not for me.

Let them go and enjoy those who do find you sexy! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally adore larger sexy women.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I prefer slim and trim women to big women, its just what appeals to me.

I look at life (the sexual side of it) as some people will like me, some wont. The wont that wont will have their reasons. I am the same, I find some women physically attractive, some I dont. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love big women. Can't beat a nice big pair of tits and a curvy booty

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By *ickmackieMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

In my experience I have found the larger ladies much more sexy, willing to experiment and try new things, very friendly and so hit. I enjoy being with women of all shapes and sizes but have had my best times with bbw's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My personal opinion would probably offend. so i will keep it to myself and say i prefer slim women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My personal opinion would probably offend. so i will keep it to myself and say i prefer slim women."

Same here. I'd be mortified if I ever became larger than a size 12.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think large ladies are appreciated on here but I do think not by as many as that make out.... but that can be the same as other attributes etc etc, a lot is based on superficiality and that is always worth bearing in mind through the volume of attention.

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By *aughtyswindon1Man
over a year ago

Swindon

Give me more 'cushion for the pushion' every single time!!!

I like my ladies to be shapely with curves, not stick-like and looking like a toilet brush.

I have girl-friends that are stick-thin and they are some of the nicest people I know and closest of friends, but when it comes to being with a girl and getting stripped down to our 'Birthday Suits' for doing the naughty, I don't want to see all of their bones sticking out through their skin.

Put it this way... If I went out for a meal and ordered a T-bone steak and all I got was the bone with no meat on it... I would NOT be a happy-chappy!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a size 18 plus 3ish years ago, then lost it all and was 12/14, now am 16 plus again. I had meets when I joined, seem to get cancellations now, saying its work or kids (teenagers) but feel like its a excuse really

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

These type of threads always get messy and upset people.

You will have the real women have curves and I don't want a bag of bones type comments.

You will have the you don't have any respect for yourself if you are overwieght type comments.

Fact of the matter is some people will find you attractive and some won't. Some will tell you what they think you want to hear to get in your knickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a large couple and we try and look for people of a similar size...but saying that we love a curvy figure my wife seems to get a lot of messages...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As mentioned so many times already, pushing these threads is never a good idea!

Some like it, some don't...just like everything else in life!!! I personally prefer my women to be size 6 - 12!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for all messages it does seem us larger ladies really do it best xxxx

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"thanks for all messages it does seem us larger ladies really do it best xxxx"

Now you are deliberately opening yourself up to.........

You know what? Nevermind. I'm not getting involved.

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"We class bigger curvier girls as real women. Love to see sexy curvaceous fuller figured women.

all women are real women, whether they are a size 6 or a size 30!

I've been a bigger woman (24/26 3 years ago) and have to say I'm treated better as a slimmer woman now. I get more respect and seen as less of a sex toy. Maybe that was more the men in my life.

I'm no less bubbly and fun now than I was then.

People like what people like, and you'll find you appeal to some and not to others. Thats just life!"

glad to hear that my size 8 gf does qualify as a real woman...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks for all messages it does seem us larger ladies really do it best xxxx

Now you are deliberately opening yourself up to.........

You know what? Nevermind. I'm not getting involved."

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"thanks for all messages it does seem us larger ladies really do it best xxxx

Now you are deliberately opening yourself up to.........

You know what? Nevermind. I'm not getting involved."

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Seriously, who really cares. These threads get on my wick. If your getting a shag then your ok. Some like big women and some dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just preference at the end of the day like a lot of these forums boil down to. Ul prob find the people that have commented on here have done so because A. They love bbws and enjoy B. They prefer slimmer women and feel strongly about it and Not because bigger women do it better than slimmer but each to there own, there is someone out there for all of us and we are all real women no matter what size we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks for all messages it does seem us larger ladies really do it best xxxx"

big girls are no better than smaller girls.. to be honest I know many of the guys that contact me only do so because they think I maybe a safe bet... You always find out when you say no and you get told how dare you.

I have been all sizes over the years.. from an 8 to a 32 and I'm the same... but I've noticed at clubs if there is a slimmer girl and a big girl playing at a greedy girls night.. guess who most guys go for... And it's not the bigger lass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi im a big girl and just wanted to know what men and women think about us big girls just curious to know ?"

Think this has been covered before but I love the more curvaceous lady. In my opinion anything less than a size 16 is thin. Can't say why I prefer the bigger lady but I always have done, never gone for a slim girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously, who really cares. These threads get on my wick. If your getting a shag then your ok. Some like big women and some dont."

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Not everyones gonna like big girls and it would be boring if we all liked the same. Personally I'd be more bothered about what my meets think than the whole forum. That's just me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi im a big girl and just wanted to know what men and women think about us big girls just curious to know ?

Think this has been covered before but I love the more curvaceous lady. In my opinion anything less than a size 16 is thin. Can't say why I prefer the bigger lady but I always have done, never gone for a slim girl "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont like men or women who are very skinny as i think they can look ill.

i dont usualy like people much if they are too overweight, i prefer slim, average or plump.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is not meant to be personal but Anything bigger than a size 16 is a waste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We class bigger curvier girls as real women. Love to see sexy curvaceous fuller figured women.

all women are real women, whether they are a size 6 or a size 30!

I've been a bigger woman (24/26 3 years ago) and have to say I'm treated better as a slimmer woman now. I get more respect and seen as less of a sex toy. Maybe that was more the men in my life.

I'm no less bubbly and fun now than I was then.

People like what people like, and you'll find you appeal to some and not to others. Thats just life!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not meant to be personal but Anything bigger than a size 16 is a waste. "

To you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Some girls are bigger than others'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my opinion. She has a lovely face 100% but just not my thing, although some people prefer the larger lady, there's always gunna be people who don't. #just been Honist

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

As cheesy as it sounds size is not an issue, it's more about the mind for me, you can have "traditionally" beautiful woman who's got no sexy appeal, and a bigger woman who you would give yourself too totally because she's so naughty, sexy and fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks for all messages it does seem us larger ladies really do it best xxxx"

I couldn't disagree more!

Who and what does it best is down to personal choice and sexual preference!

big or small, if you don't tick the boxes, you can't be the "best"!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my opinion. She has a lovely face 100% but just not my thing, although some people prefer the larger lady, there's always gunna be people who don't. #just been Honist "

I know lol but we not a waste if bigger than 16 we just not YOUR cup of tea

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By *oversforfun2000Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Size can be misrepresented I am at the moment a 14/16 but at 5"10 it's not too big but a girl could be a size 16 and 5"2 and look totally different, I don't think bigger girls do it better I think ladies of any size that are happy and confident will have a great time!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my opinion. She has a lovely face 100% but just not my thing, although some people prefer the larger lady, there's always gunna be people who don't. #just been Honist

I know lol but we not a waste if bigger than 16 we just not YOUR cup of tea "

Maybe I said it wrong. I just meant a waste for me coz I'm no Arnold swarrzneger, I'm a slim man, so from my point of _iew I don't want to let the women down If she was expecting to get dominated and I can barely pick up a bag of sugar nevermind be dominant to the larger lady. Not a waste for everyone just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my opinion. She has a lovely face 100% but just not my thing, although some people prefer the larger lady, there's always gunna be people who don't. #just been Honist

I know lol but we not a waste if bigger than 16 we just not YOUR cup of tea

Maybe I said it wrong. I just meant a waste for me coz I'm no Arnold swarrzneger, I'm a slim man, so from my point of _iew I don't want to let the women down If she was expecting to get dominated and I can barely pick up a bag of sugar nevermind be dominant to the larger lady. Not a waste for everyone just me. "

Thats better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well said thanku xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My personal opinion would probably offend. so i will keep it to myself and say i prefer slim women.

Same here. I'd be mortified if I ever became larger than a size 12."

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian


"thanks for all messages it does seem us larger ladies really do it best xxxx"

.....not sure what you do best but enjoy.

i'm not classed as a real woman on this threat but thats fine.i know i am and so do the swingers we played with

(susie)

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian


"thanks for all messages it does seem us larger ladies really do it best xxxx

I couldn't disagree more!

Who and what does it best is down to personal choice and sexual preference!

big or small, if you don't tick the boxes, you can't be the "best"!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lot of men on here say they like big women as they see it as box ticking to try and get a shag.

ive got nothing against curvy women just not the sort dr christian on ch4 will be hosting a programme about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My personal opinion would probably offend. so i will keep it to myself and say i prefer slim women.

Same here. I'd be mortified if I ever became larger than a size 12."

Same here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"thanks for all messages it does seem us larger ladies really do it best xxxx"

you will do it "best" for some people but we all do it for someone regardless of size. Its bad enough that the media classifies women as "real" and better than each other without we start doing it to ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the woman, some women carry weight better than other and some women look sexy whatever size, some bigger ladies still make an effort and look good where as some just don't seem to care what they look like or make an effort, for me its not a yes i like or no I don't like question, I find some large ladies attractive some just look like they have given up on life

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

all ladies of all sizes can be great fun .. the most important letter in bbw is w ... woman second b next ... beautiful first b last .. big ... so what x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bbw myself I find that the majority of men on here will fuck me whatever size I am and whatever my looks as long as I'm clean.

Would they be seen out on a date with me....hell no. Only worth a shag where their mates don't find out about it

That's life - I'm under no illusions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So to a real woman you have to be bigger and more curvy?

How ridiculous!!! I'm slim but still have womanly curves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My personal opinion would probably offend. so i will keep it to myself and say i prefer slim women.

Same here. I'd be mortified if I ever became larger than a size 12.

Same here "

And me!!!! And to say big girls do it best is quite a statement too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to a real woman you have to be bigger and more curvy?

How ridiculous!!! I'm slim but still have womanly curves."

Not in my opinion, all women are real, it's just my preference to like the bigger lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We class bigger curvier girls as real women. Love to see sexy curvaceous fuller figured women. "

What do you mean 'real' am I not real?

Never understood what that actually means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We class bigger curvier girls as real women. Love to see sexy curvaceous fuller figured women.

What do you mean 'real' am I not real?

Never understood what that actually means "

No you have to sit on your arse eating cake all day to be a real woman, don't you know anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We class bigger curvier girls as real women. Love to see sexy curvaceous fuller figured women.

What do you mean 'real' am I not real?

Never understood what that actually means

No you have to sit on your arse eating cake all day to be a real woman, don't you know anything "

eeeek lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a fact!!!!!!!!!! Slim or curvy women are the most desirable % wise. There is a niche of men who love Large women. Large can mean alot as there is Large and then Whale. I mean no offence but remember that people make comments about slim girls as if they cant be offended. I personaly think some big girls can be attractive but dosnt do it for me if their too big.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember reading a post once from a guy who said, if you want to see what type of women guys on here like the most look at the most fab'ed pics

ive never seen a BBW on there I think that says it all, and before anyone jumps on me im not slim so im not being rude about big women im just being honest, its always full of slim women because thats what most men really like, they just mail us big uns cause they think we will be easier to meet and I think that's the reality of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to a real woman you have to be bigger and more curvy?

How ridiculous!!! I'm slim but still have womanly curves."

I wouldn't worry about it! If you were to start a "who loves us slim girls" post, half the guys that are on here raving about the large girls would be on there shouting ME!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to a real woman you have to be bigger and more curvy?

How ridiculous!!! I'm slim but still have womanly curves.

I wouldn't worry about it! If you were to start a "who loves us slim girls" post, half the guys that are on here raving about the large girls would be on there shouting ME!!! "

and never a truer word was spoken

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

Bugger and theres me thinking a "REAL WOMAN" was someone who could please there sex partner no matter what their size I pesonally could not give 2 s**** if anyone thought i was fat..chubby..if i was worried what people thought of me then i wouldnt leave the chuffing house never mind swing..and if i was not you type of woman then theres plenty more fish in the sea o they say....wheres my reel

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Its almost impossible to get any real and true sort of responses on a site like this to a question like this from the guys, quite frankly given the site has to be close to 75% "single" men having a pulse and being female is the number one factor in being desirable.

Aside from that, you can be sexy and pretty at almost any size (though there are upper limits and lower ones!) however there is no defacto a size 6 is sexy or a size 18 is sexy its all to do the individual and how they wear it.

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By *ral.steveMan
over a year ago

LEEDS


"hi im a big girl and just wanted to know what men and women think about us big girls just curious to know ?"
. Love them big is beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All i can say is you don't look big any ways from your avitor .otherbthan that i poppy still go to the gym five times a week but have chosen to eat more now .prob what the average gal or guy eat .when I was a size 8 to 10 yes we had lots of intrest in meets.but since i got to a size 12 we generally don't get any problems at all probably more intrest than. Before . Ithink the curvier figure with big tits is generally more appealing.i am bi sexual but i like personality too as well as a woman's body n.i think lots of people myself included find the athletic women prehaps and i trying to find the best way to put this now so don't go off on me as being too out of my league . nto that i saying these people don't have personality or attitudes but generally i find the curvier or the less athletic women tend to be more friendly and more as i say this i know I going to be slated personable .there i said it slate me if you want .i have been both ends of the scale myself and know i was probably more judgemental being super skinny than i am now at a size 12 .xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love big girls, especially if they are happy, smile and are chatty and love attention.

You look great, although I could not see you smiling ... A real smile, not a put on .. And I am not at all fond of tattoo's as while spoil a gorgeous body by drawing all over it ?

However, big girls are wonderful, curves are so, so much nicer than being able to feel bones. .. Now that is a turn off ...

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Slim or big just be the most attractive and confident you you can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a girl with curves but not anyone beyond a size 16 as that does nothing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size doesn't bother me it's the person inside at the end of the day we would rather be with a large woman who is confident ,funny and nice than a person who is shallow and self absorbed. Larger ladies can still be hot line anyone as long as you take pride in your appearance no matter the size so far us it's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to a real woman you have to be bigger and more curvy?

How ridiculous!!! I'm slim but still have womanly curves."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi im a big girl and just wanted to know what men and women think about us big girls just curious to know ?"

Nice profile and great looking couple.

I'm slim and always have tended to find bigger women more attractive, we all have our likes I suppose, but I keep finding bigger women knock me bk saying I'm too skinny....such is my luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi im a big girl and just wanted to know what men and women think about us big girls just curious to know ?"

Nice profile and great looking couple.

I'm slim and always have tended to find bigger women more attractive, we all have our likes I suppose, but I keep finding bigger women knock me bk saying I'm too skinny....such is my luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I jugde each individual case on its merits. I don't put all big or any other type of women in a category based on size.

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By *ir LongLanceMan
over a year ago

hull

I don't mind thinner or bigger ladies tbh... Some of the best sex I've had was with larger ladies... I like something to grab hold of ... Not that keen on really skinny women, they struggle with the size

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

These types of thread really annoy me, and I always say I'm not going to comment on them, but sadly, I do!

What is the point of the OP? The majority of single men will play to the gallery and flatter, some of the married men will usually say something snide - I haven't read the thread, but I doubt I'm wrong.

I bet there'll also be a reference about fat women being "real" and slender women being "bags of bones", Some people never learn to express their preferences without being insulting, but hey ho - sad.

The fact of the matter is there are men that will fuck anything that moves, and will usually say anything, especially to women that are needy and need their egos massaging. The fact of the matter is most will not be seen dead with some of the women on here, and it's not all down to size. If some of the Miss World's on here think some of the men want to be seen in public with women they meet of a swingers site - dream on!

You only have to read some of the comments on verification threads to know some men think any woman with more than one verification is Slack Alice and not for them!

Enjoy this for what it is: don't rely on anyone on this site to "boost your confidence" - only you can do that!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"These types of thread really annoy me, and I always say I'm not going to comment on them, but sadly, I do!

What is the point of the OP? The majority of single men will play to the gallery and flatter, some of the married men will usually say something snide - I haven't read the thread, but I doubt I'm wrong.

I bet there'll also be a reference about fat women being "real" and slender women being "bags of bones", Some people never learn to express their preferences without being insulting, but hey ho - sad.

The fact of the matter is there are men that will fuck anything that moves, and will usually say anything, especially to women that are needy and need their egos massaging. The fact of the matter is most will not be seen dead with some of the women on here, and it's not all down to size. If some of the Miss World's on here think some of the men want to be seen in public with women they meet of a swingers site - dream on!

You only have to read some of the comments on verification threads to know some men think any woman with more than one verification is Slack Alice and not for them!

Enjoy this for what it is: don't rely on anyone on this site to "boost your confidence" - only you can do that!"

Nailed it in one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with bit of meat in lady

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By *ondcpl4meetCouple
over a year ago

North of the river

How sooooo true lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some of the bigger ladies out and about are stunning and have great personalities to match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what a place to ask such a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the years we have played with women ranging in size from 10s up to 20+. Attractiveness to the eye is down to preference and to see a shapely arse and boobs is always pleasing, but when it comes to who to play with its the persons confidence, attitude and self belief that matters ... We agree with many comments on here, from that some men will say anything to get a shag to if you feel comfortable who cares...

And judging from the pics on your profile, you are both confident, sexy people who will appeal to a great many and will also not appeal to a great many.. Be happy, with who you are and if you think you need to lose a pound or two then do it, if you want to stay as you are then do that, the only people that matter is you two .... Have fun playing xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't mind thinner or bigger ladies tbh... Some of the best sex I've had was with larger ladies... I like something to grab hold of ... Not that keen on really skinny women, they struggle with the size "

shows how much you know about anatomy. How do you imagine women of all sizes have babies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind thinner or bigger ladies tbh... Some of the best sex I've had was with larger ladies... I like something to grab hold of ... Not that keen on really skinny women, they struggle with the size

shows how much you know about anatomy. How do you imagine women of all sizes have babies?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These types of thread really annoy me, and I always say I'm not going to comment on them, but sadly, I do!

What is the point of the OP? The majority of single men will play to the gallery and flatter, some of the married men will usually say something snide - I haven't read the thread, but I doubt I'm wrong.

I bet there'll also be a reference about fat women being "real" and slender women being "bags of bones", Some people never learn to express their preferences without being insulting, but hey ho - sad.

The fact of the matter is there are men that will fuck anything that moves, and will usually say anything, especially to women that are needy and need their egos massaging. The fact of the matter is most will not be seen dead with some of the women on here, and it's not all down to size. If some of the Miss World's on here think some of the men want to be seen in public with women they meet of a swingers site - dream on!

You only have to read some of the comments on verification threads to know some men think any woman with more than one verification is Slack Alice and not for them!

Enjoy this for what it is: don't rely on anyone on this site to "boost your confidence" - only you can do that!"

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


" Not that keen on really skinny women, they struggle with the size "

Yeah, girls less than size 16 tend to snap too often...

C

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By *ucyhenry69Couple
over a year ago

Hampton


"These types of thread really annoy me, and I always say I'm not going to comment on them, but sadly, I do!

What is the point of the OP? The majority of single men will play to the gallery and flatter, some of the married men will usually say something snide - I haven't read the thread, but I doubt I'm wrong.

I bet there'll also be a reference about fat women being "real" and slender women being "bags of bones", Some people never learn to express their preferences without being insulting, but hey ho - sad.

The fact of the matter is there are men that will fuck anything that moves, and will usually say anything, especially to women that are needy and need their egos massaging. The fact of the matter is most will not be seen dead with some of the women on here, and it's not all down to size. If some of the Miss World's on here think some of the men want to be seen in public with women they meet of a swingers site - dream on!

You only have to read some of the comments on verification threads to know some men think any woman with more than one verification is Slack Alice and not for them!

Enjoy this for what it is: don't rely on anyone on this site to "boost your confidence" - only you can do that!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bigger girls are sexier to me

Better kissers and more fun in bed in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind thinner or bigger ladies tbh... Some of the best sex I've had was with larger ladies... I like something to grab hold of ... Not that keen on really skinny women, they struggle with the size "

Funniest thing I've heard in a long while skinny woman struggle with the size. Yet they can push big babies out there.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"

Better kissers and more fun in bed in my experience "

And this is purely down to size? Utter tosh!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bbw myself I find that the majority of men on here will fuck me whatever size I am and whatever my looks as long as I'm clean.

Would they be seen out on a date with me....hell no. Only worth a shag where their mates don't find out about it

That's life - I'm under no illusions "

sad but no doubt TRUE. Many guys will fuck a bbw but would he walk down the road and introduce her to his mates the following day? Seems guys will fuck anything but don't want to be seen doing so.

I prefer slim petite women myself. Simply as I am skinny and seem to enjoy someone more like me. Saying that I have had great meets with bbw.

ample curves can be very attractive but fat is just needless and wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Better kissers and more fun in bed in my experience

And this is purely down to size? Utter tosh!!! "

I'm not saying it is! But I've always had better times with bigger women

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Bigger girls are sexier to me

Better kissers and more fun in bed in my experience "

I can only imagine reaction if you substituted slimmer for bigger.

However it is your experience so a valid comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Better kissers and more fun in bed in my experience

And this is purely down to size? Utter tosh!!!

I'm not saying it is! But I've always had better times with bigger women "

My experience is the couple of fat women I have been with were actually shit in bed.the best by far is nik my future wife.she is slim.

As others have said,look at te most fabbed pics.the only big ones are the ones who are on cam all the time and blokes like to fab them

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By *artypeopleCouple
over a year ago

manchester / ?

fat bottomed girlz you make the rockin world go round. av to say av had more fun with the larger ladies in 12 yrs of swinging..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Better kissers and more fun in bed in my experience

And this is purely down to size? Utter tosh!!! "
.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to agree

If you find the person sexy then 'generally' the fun will be better.

So if you prefer slimmer gals then fun with a bigger woman isn't likely to do it for you as much with your preference

And vice versa

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"As a bbw myself I find that the majority of men on here will fuck me whatever size I am and whatever my looks as long as I'm clean.

Would they be seen out on a date with me....hell no. Only worth a shag where their mates don't find out about it

That's life - I'm under no illusions

sad but no doubt TRUE. Many guys will fuck a bbw but would he walk down the road and introduce her to his mates the following day? Seems guys will fuck anything but don't want to be seen doing so.

I prefer slim petite women myself. Simply as I am skinny and seem to enjoy someone more like me. Saying that I have had great meets with bbw.

ample curves can be very attractive but fat is just needless and wrong!"

Is it REALLY beyond you to express an opinion without being rude? I'm sure you'd take exception if I wrote bi men are just needless and wrong for my needs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does noone ever get sick of these threads? People have different tastes, SHOCKER.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alot of the guys onhere just seem to take whatever they can get

they pander to anything with a fanny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

ample curves can be very attractive but fat is just needless and wrong!

Is it REALLY beyond you to express an opinion without being rude? I'm sure you'd take exception if I wrote bi men are just needless and wrong for my needs! "

Sorry but how am I bring rude? I stated I have had good meets with bbw but prefer slim. Being Fat or obese is a different issue entirely and yes I think there is no need to be fat! Whereas you can't help being bi you can do something about being fat. Large is attractive sometimes, fat is just fat

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"all ladies of all sizes can be great fun .. the most important letter in bbw is w ... woman second b next ... beautiful first b last .. big ... so what x"
just bumping my opinion x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all ladies of all sizes can be great fun .. the most important letter in bbw is w ... woman second b next ... beautiful first b last .. big ... so what x just bumping my opinion x"

I thought bbw meant big breasted women NOT big beautiful woman ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Better kissers and more fun in bed in my experience

And this is purely down to size? Utter tosh!!!

I'm not saying it is! But I've always had better times with bigger women

My experience is the couple of fat women I have been with were actually shit in bed.the best by far is nik my future wife.she is slim.

"

with the greatest of respect your comment its really valid, you would say that about your wife to be, if it was true or not, your hardly going to come on here and post in public. where your wife to be could read it. saying some other women you've fucked is better at sex than her are you?

regardless of if that other woman was fat or not

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"As a bbw myself I find that the majority of men on here will fuck me whatever size I am and whatever my looks as long as I'm clean.

Would they be seen out on a date with me....hell no. Only worth a shag where their mates don't find out about it

That's life - I'm under no illusions "

Its a shame you feel like that, maybe it has nothing to do with your size. Im a fatty and ive never been short of guys wanting to take me out on dates. Lots of offers to take me out for meals ect but as i have a partner im not into that side of things. Plus in the vanilla world ive never been short of boyfriends.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be boring if we all found one "type" of person attractive.

I am not a skinny mini and if somebody isn't in to me- so be it! That's their choice.

I myself don't have a type- its more about the person and how I get on with them x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i always thought bbw was big beautiful woman .

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i like all sizes and shapes why restrict yourself .. size does not matter only attitude

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"i always thought bbw was big beautiful woman . "

me too but I've never understood why only big women need to be defined as beautiful as if we have to be reminded. From now on I wish to be known as an OBW please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think the bbw term was born from the insecurities women on the larger side may have with their bods

its a more flattering label

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

what does the o stand for x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"what does the o stand for x"

older or Oh my God!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

you sound like my kind of obw xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"i think the bbw term was born from the insecurities women on the larger side may have with their bods

its a more flattering label"

lots of women have insecurities with their bodies though, not just bigger women why single them out to be called beautiful?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"i think the bbw term was born from the insecurities women on the larger side may have with their bods

its a more flattering label

lots of women have insecurities with their bodies though, not just bigger women why single them out to be called beautiful?"

the term is already out there... all women have beauty ... thats why guys chase after them forget what you think is wrong .. thats airbrushed media for you .. blokes are just as insecure xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"i think the bbw term was born from the insecurities women on the larger side may have with their bods

its a more flattering label

lots of women have insecurities with their bodies though, not just bigger women why single them out to be called beautiful?

the term is already out there... all women have beauty ... thats why guys chase after them forget what you think is wrong .. thats airbrushed media for you .. blokes are just as insecure xx"

I'm not insecure about my body most of it works and it does what I want it to, just a little bit more slowly than it used to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dunno lol

maybe the bigger women have more hang ups

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get plenty of attention in the real world and that's down to confidence and been told charisma ...I have friends that range from size 8 to bigger than me and they all have hang ups about there size and weight..It's all down to how a person feels inside and you can be confident and ok with yourself whether you're a size 6 or 30...but there will always be people that have preferences that's life ..I always thought I preferred a Porsche until I got into my big4x4 ..now I know after trying them both which I prefer ..xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"i dunno lol

maybe the bigger women have more hang ups"

I don't think they do, I know women of all sizes and some of the smaller ones have real body confidence issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dunno lol

maybe the bigger women have more hang ups

I don't think they do, I know women of all sizes and some of the smaller ones have real body confidence issues."
.true x]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bbw myself I find that the majority of men on here will fuck me whatever size I am and whatever my looks as long as I'm clean.

Would they be seen out on a date with me....hell no. Only worth a shag where their mates don't find out about it

That's life - I'm under no illusions

Its a shame you feel like that, maybe it has nothing to do with your size. Im a fatty and ive never been short of guys wanting to take me out on dates. Lots of offers to take me out for meals ect but as i have a partner im not into that side of things. Plus in the vanilla world ive never been short of boyfriends."

All my meets have been in public, I only meet guys in a pub or somewhere equally open for a first meet, i've never had a guy refused to been seen in public with me, if he did I wouldn't meet him at all, tho this is swinging if someone is that ashamed to be seen with me there's no way if e getting naked infront of him

As for being seen on a date with you or showing you to their mates, that's not what this site is for and maybe they don't want to introduce you to their mates because its NSA and even if you was a size 10 they probably still wouldn't want a date and would just want to shag you, its a swingers site after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dunno lol

maybe the bigger women have more hang ups

I don't think they do, I know women of all sizes and some of the smaller ones have real body confidence issues."

who knows then. i dont see anything similar for slim women though. its mostly derogatory names like stick insect used to describe them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get me wrong - I get offers but often not by anyone I find attractive.

The fit, military guys I like wouldn't be seen dead with me in public

Behind closed doors we have a great laugh and lots of banter and great sex but like I said....I'm under no

Illusions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some bigger girls are sexy

Some aren't

Having _iewed your pics, I think you are one of the sexy ones "

And the same applies to all women regardless of size ..... and men!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bbw. They drive me wild

So do slim women

I think its just women that drive me nuys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some are hot some are mingers..basic facts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get me wrong - I get offers but often not by anyone I find attractive.

The fit, military guys I like wouldn't be seen dead with me in public

Behind closed doors we have a great laugh and lots of banter and great sex but like I said....I'm under no

Illusions "

I don't understand why you would meet someone who would be ashamed to be seen with you?

I would find it very hard to get undressed infront of someone who I knew wasn't attracted to me

If they wont meet you in public how do you meet? do you just hand out your address to strangers on here without meeting them first?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"i dunno lol

maybe the bigger women have more hang ups

I don't think they do, I know women of all sizes and some of the smaller ones have real body confidence issues.

who knows then. i dont see anything similar for slim women though. its mostly derogatory names like stick insect used to describe them "

I totally agree with you, I just couldn't be arsed adding to the thread! As others have said it's been done to death before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about the attraction , the click ,

The cock for me .

I'm not curvy ,I'm fat , large on my profile .

But sexy as hell .

It's all a state of mind , or is that vodka lol .

Mwah .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my opinion. She has a lovely face 100% but just not my thing, although some people prefer the larger lady, there's always gunna be people who don't. #just been Honist

I know lol but we not a waste if bigger than 16 we just not YOUR cup of tea

Maybe I said it wrong. I just meant a waste for me coz I'm no Arnold swarrzneger, I'm a slim man, so from my point of _iew I don't want to let the women down If she was expecting to get dominated and I can barely pick up a bag of sugar nevermind be dominant to the larger lady. Not a waste for everyone just me. "

Being dominant is a mindset surely, it has nothing to do with size??!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

there is a culture of being dismissive of slim women, insinuating that they starve themselves, they aren't real women or that everything must be ok for them because they're slim. My daughter who is very slender despite eating like a horse is often accused of being anorexic in an unpleasant way by other women... so much for the sisterhood!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slim or big just be the most attractive and confident you you can be."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its all about the attraction , the click ,

The cock for me .

I'm not curvy ,I'm fat , large on my profile .

But sexy as hell .

It's all a state of mind , or is that vodka lol .

Mwah ."
...dam sexy photos chick xxx]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ( Mrs) dont find over a size 12 attractive and I prefer toned bodies, Mr csn find upto a size 16 attractive.... See we are all different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bbw myself I find that the majority of men on here will fuck me whatever size I am and whatever my looks as long as I'm clean.

Would they be seen out on a date with me....hell no. Only worth a shag where their mates don't find out about it

That's life - I'm under no illusions

sad but no doubt TRUE. Many guys will fuck a bbw but would he walk down the road and introduce her to his mates the following day? Seems guys will fuck anything but don't want to be seen doing so.

I prefer slim petite women myself. Simply as I am skinny and seem to enjoy someone more like me. Saying that I have had great meets with bbw.

ample curves can be very attractive but fat is just needless and wrong!"

sad but no doubt TRUE - AND YOU HAVE JUST TOTALLY CONFIRMED IT WITH YOUR IGNORANT AND OFFENSIVE CLOSING COMMENT!! I'd love to share my opinion of thin white guys with you but I was raised to show respect for other people and to keep my opinions to myself if they are likely to offend - have you never seen Bambi!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its all about the attraction , the click ,

The cock for me .

I'm not curvy ,I'm fat , large on my profile .

But sexy as hell .

It's all a state of mind , or is that vodka lol .

Mwah ....dam sexy photos chick xxx]"

Thanks Hun . Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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ample curves can be very attractive but fat is just needless and wrong!

Is it REALLY beyond you to express an opinion without being rude? I'm sure you'd take exception if I wrote bi men are just needless and wrong for my needs!

Sorry but how am I bring rude? I stated I have had good meets with bbw but prefer slim. Being Fat or obese is a different issue entirely and yes I think there is no need to be fat! Whereas you can't help being bi you can do something about being fat. Large is attractive sometimes, fat is just fat"

For the record and YOUR information some people cant help being obese any more than some can help being bi!!! Some people are overweight thro their own fault, others have medical conditions and/or take medication which impact significantly on their weight - what gives you or me or anyone else the right to make judgements such as yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah sod it, I'm just fat.

I have to die of something. Might as well be a cake related coronary!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bbw myself I find that the majority of men on here will fuck me whatever size I am and whatever my looks as long as I'm clean.

Would they be seen out on a date with me....hell no. Only worth a shag where their mates don't find out about it

That's life - I'm under no illusions

sad but no doubt TRUE. Many guys will fuck a bbw but would he walk down the road and introduce her to his mates the following day? Seems guys will fuck anything but don't want to be seen doing so.

I prefer slim petite women myself. Simply as I am skinny and seem to enjoy someone more like me. Saying that I have had great meets with bbw.

ample curves can be very attractive but fat is just needless and wrong!

sad but no doubt TRUE - AND YOU HAVE JUST TOTALLY CONFIRMED IT WITH YOUR IGNORANT AND OFFENSIVE CLOSING COMMENT!! I'd love to share my opinion of thin white guys with you but I was raised to show respect for other people and to keep my opinions to myself if they are likely to offend - have you never seen Bambi!!!! "

To be fair the OP did ask for peoples opinions on what people thought of big women and his is its needless and wrong, an opinion is just that if people are going to get offended don't ask, or don't read, there's nothing in the rules of the forums that states your only allowed to give positive opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bbw myself I find that the majority of men on here will fuck me whatever size I am and whatever my looks as long as I'm clean.

Would they be seen out on a date with me....hell no. Only worth a shag where their mates don't find out about it

That's life - I'm under no illusions

sad but no doubt TRUE. Many guys will fuck a bbw but would he walk down the road and introduce her to his mates the following day? Seems guys will fuck anything but don't want to be seen doing so.

I prefer slim petite women myself. Simply as I am skinny and seem to enjoy someone more like me. Saying that I have had great meets with bbw.

ample curves can be very attractive but fat is just needless and wrong!

sad but no doubt TRUE - AND YOU HAVE JUST TOTALLY CONFIRMED IT WITH YOUR IGNORANT AND OFFENSIVE CLOSING COMMENT!! I'd love to share my opinion of thin white guys with you but I was raised to show respect for other people and to keep my opinions to myself if they are likely to offend - have you never seen Bambi!!!!

To be fair the OP did ask for peoples opinions on what people thought of big women and his is its needless and wrong, an opinion is just that if people are going to get offended don't ask, or don't read, there's nothing in the rules of the forums that states your only allowed to give positive opinions"

Fair point but his opinion rattled my cage so I was just responding with mine!

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay


"Ah sod it, I'm just fat.

I have to die of something. Might as well be a cake related coronary! "

Me too... the best comment on this thread so far xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there is a culture of being dismissive of slim women, insinuating that they starve themselves, they aren't real women or that everything must be ok for them because they're slim. My daughter who is very slender despite eating like a horse is often accused of being anorexic in an unpleasant way by other women... so much for the sisterhood! "

thats not nice either. when i was 20 i lost a lot of weight, my mum and my sister were quite bitchy but my dad said i looked nice.

my sons was always skinny now he is just athletic, i was glad he wasnt overweight like i was so he wouldnt get bullied.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Ah sod it, I'm just fat.

I have to die of something. Might as well be a cake related coronary!

Me too... the best comment on this thread so far xx "

Totally agree.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"As a bbw myself I find that the majority of men on here will fuck me whatever size I am and whatever my looks as long as I'm clean.

Would they be seen out on a date with me....hell no. Only worth a shag where their mates don't find out about it

That's life - I'm under no illusions

Its a shame you feel like that, maybe it has nothing to do with your size. Im a fatty and ive never been short of guys wanting to take me out on dates. Lots of offers to take me out for meals ect but as i have a partner im not into that side of things. Plus in the vanilla world ive never been short of boyfriends."

There will always be people that pick on a "negative" about themselves and assume that's why they're treated like shit.

If you're "grateful" for the attention from the men on here and don't mind sneaking into a hotel, being taken in a car park or a quickie at yours because that's all you think your worth all you'll attract are the men looking for cum dumps with low self esteem.

I always meet socially and I've been to a wedding with one of my meets, on holiday, dinner, one of my meets invited me to use his home as a base when i visited my dad in hospital.

I've met men socially who were downright rude but I didn't put it down to my weight as they knew, full length picture supplied, they were just rude arses and I didn't stick around!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some bigger girls are sexy

Some aren't

Having _iewed your pics, I think you are one of the sexy ones

And the same applies to all women regardless of size ..... and men!!"

I am in total agreement with that

The question asked however was in relation to bigger girls and I answered that question

Sexy is sexy

What 1 finds sexy though, the next person won't

It's just the tapestry of life and I find it fascinating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bbw myself I find that the majority of men on here will fuck me whatever size I am and whatever my looks as long as I'm clean.

Would they be seen out on a date with me....hell no. Only worth a shag where their mates don't find out about it

That's life - I'm under no illusions

Its a shame you feel like that, maybe it has nothing to do with your size. Im a fatty and ive never been short of guys wanting to take me out on dates. Lots of offers to take me out for meals ect but as i have a partner im not into that side of things. Plus in the vanilla world ive never been short of boyfriends.

There will always be people that pick on a "negative" about themselves and assume that's why they're treated like shit.

If you're "grateful" for the attention from the men on here and don't mind sneaking into a hotel, being taken in a car park or a quickie at yours because that's all you think your worth all you'll attract are the men looking for cum dumps with low self esteem.

I always meet socially and I've been to a wedding with one of my meets, on holiday, dinner, one of my meets invited me to use his home as a base when i visited my dad in hospital.

I've met men socially who were downright rude but I didn't put it down to my weight as they knew, full length picture supplied, they were just rude arses and I didn't stick around! "

A lady who knows what she is talking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True, there are too many sad little morons who think they can give abuse to a woman because of her size. I don't care what size you are, it is not on my list of priorities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there is a culture of being dismissive of slim women, insinuating that they starve themselves, they aren't real women or that everything must be ok for them because they're slim. My daughter who is very slender despite eating like a horse is often accused of being anorexic in an unpleasant way by other women... so much for the sisterhood! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried so hard not to comment here but I do feel the need to express my feelings. I have long suffered bullying and such like for my weight I can't talk to anyone about body issues without it being a personal insult, I get told I'm a stick insect and even shoved in the street by a bigger lady. If I had started the reverse of this thread I would have been ripped up for ass paper and if you think slender women face less criticism then you're very wrong.

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By *ocky8incMan
over a year ago

Portugal, albufiera

I kind of like big women's the nice polite and sex is amazing with them

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