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By *onyjo OP   Couple
3 weeks ago

Peterborough

Why is it some guys just can't take no for an answer.

Have turned down 5 offers already this morning 2 of which started with the personal insults. Now it didn't bother me in fact I had to smile at on of the responses he came back with " I don't like the shape of your pussy anyway" lol

I told him to grow up and do one then blocked him

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By *ittleJohn5Man
3 weeks ago

Wickham Market

I only get No for an answer

So use to it

I Just move on till the next No

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By *xperiencing-newCouple
3 weeks ago

Nottingham

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By *xperiencing-newCouple
3 weeks ago

Nottingham


"Why is it some guys just can't take no for an answer.

Have turned down 5 offers already this morning 2 of which started with the personal insults. Now it didn't bother me in fact I had to smile at on of the responses he came back with " I don't like the shape of your pussy anyway" lol

I told him to grow up and do one then blocked him"

Can't say that we've experienced the useless as of yet thankfully, however if we feel like we have to explain ourselves too much they just get blocked x

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By *xperiencing-newCouple
3 weeks ago

Nottingham


"Why is it some guys just can't take no for an answer.

Have turned down 5 offers already this morning 2 of which started with the personal insults. Now it didn't bother me in fact I had to smile at on of the responses he came back with " I don't like the shape of your pussy anyway" lol

I told him to grow up and do one then blocked him

Can't say that we've experienced the useless as of yet thankfully, however if we feel like we have to explain ourselves too much they just get blocked x"

Insults* omfg lol

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By *tevenTellyCouple
3 weeks ago

Newmarket

We haven't dealt with insults yet, but normally it we aren't available or interested I just delete the message.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

It's why we don't say no.....we just block to avoid issues.

My big question though.....what shape is your pussy OP? Lol

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By *spenfallsMan
3 weeks ago

Northampton


"Why is it some guys just can't take no for an answer.

Have turned down 5 offers already this morning 2 of which started with the personal insults. Now it didn't bother me in fact I had to smile at on of the responses he came back with " I don't like the shape of your pussy anyway" lol

I told him to grow up and do one then blocked him"

In the interests of journalistic balance, let me say that I'm entirely happy with the shape of your really very attractive pussy.👌

Sorry about the other kind of 'twat' on here.

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By *achelTheAnalSlutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Haywards Heath

I've only had a few insults so far. More often it's people who repeatedly message wanting sex, when I've been very clear that I want to meet someone socially first.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
3 weeks ago

Leeds


"

I told him to grow up and do one then blocked him"

A mature response

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By *urreypair1Couple
3 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

This is a huge reason we only play with couples these days.

Single guys would be through someone we already knew or in a club if polite and the approach is not pushy .

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By *eyeYCouple
3 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Consider it your initial thoughts proven correct.. But, arseholes! We tend to get more entitlement from couples, mostly angling to get me alone or us facilitate their fantasies. 🤐

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By *entleman JayMan
3 weeks ago

Wakefield

It’s because they are idiots. When someone tells me they are not interested I block and move on. That way I don’t bother them again.

Life’s too short to be arguing with people you are never going to meet.

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
3 weeks ago

Worcestershire

After conducting extensive research we have concluded there's nothing wrong with the shape of your pussy 😈

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By *orty and niceMan
3 weeks ago

Cowboytown


"Why is it some guys just can't take no for an answer.

Have turned down 5 offers already this morning 2 of which started with the personal insults. Now it didn't bother me in fact I had to smile at on of the responses he came back with " I don't like the shape of your pussy anyway" lol

I told him to grow up and do one then blocked him"

Looked at your pictures and they are amazing, you have a beautiful body. He was annoyed you said no. I just move on as I have sadly had plenty of practice

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By *andPextraCouple
3 weeks ago

North West

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By *andPextraCouple
3 weeks ago

North West

Get this very often. I send a polite no, which they could have worked out for themselves had they read a profile (men- its the “word” bit- a little bit above the pictures….), as I make zero reference to seeking single men.

In return i’ll get some variant of:

I didn't want to anyhow

You have an ugly (insert body part)

You are a (insert slag, slapper, bike etc)

You are on a sex site, why are you saying no.

It used to bother me.

Less fucks are given now. Their issue, not mine.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bedford

I take the flack as a compliment, it kinda affirms they really want you.

It's good to be in demand.

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By *avexxMan
3 weeks ago

cheshire

in my book no means no,, simple

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By *ros40Man
3 weeks ago

Bedford

Because their parents didn't tell them no enough, they can't handle it

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By *alsaman15Man
3 weeks ago

Market Drayton

If you can't take no for an answer I don't think you should be on here lol

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By *ene FairfaxMan
3 weeks ago

Dover

Hence why I read profiles and send polite messages, still get the odd no or blocked with a response but hey it's part of life. Not everyone likes or wants everyone lol

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Sitting on the table

I've been insulted more on this forum than I have in actual messages.

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By *ony MannMan
3 weeks ago

Lagos, Portugal// Andover

No is easy to understand, but if you are God's Gift you just know the other person will see it your way if you just insult them enough.

Women who don't want them must be gay.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
3 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We delete a lot of messages now if the profile is bland/bland, cock/action pics or asking sexually loaded questions as they clearly haven’t read our profile, so we don’t tend to get the shitty responses.

If any do come back with anything then it’s a straight block - we are here to find the people we feel we’d connect with not spend any time arguing with someone.

It confirms our initial belief they weren’t for us anyway so it’s validation we done the right thing.

K

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I find that instead of insults, they try to persuade me that I should accommodate, meet them in a layby/hotel/travel 200 miles...

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By *ad.BearMan
3 weeks ago

Wakefield

Because they are immature, insecure and don’t have the mental capacity to understand that they are not going to be everybody’s type. Guys like this are one of the reasons that most ladies on here don’t bother responding to messages if they are not interested.

For me if it’s a no, then I message back saying thanks for taking the time to respond. Manners cost nothing!

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By *emi30Woman
3 weeks ago

selby

Yeah u say no to someone and then get called fat and ugly

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By *ympho6969Woman
3 weeks ago

glasgow

I will never understand why men think we would trust them enough to be alone, naked, when they can't accept a rejection to a message.

It's a scary world and there is no way in hell I would meet someone like that.

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

If i say no thanks now, I block straight afterwards. It saves any whiny comebacks or insults.

Some really can't take a rejection.

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By *onyjo OP   Couple
3 weeks ago

Peterborough

Thankyou I think he wanted one in the shape of Paris maybe I dunno fucking freak 😜 xx

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By *oo boo bearWoman
3 weeks ago

hull

It’s annoys me when you say “ sorry not for me”

So they carry on messaging & think offering you money will suddenly change your mind

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By *hrissieAdoreWoman
3 weeks ago

Hitchin

Ohh dear.. They can't take rejection 😄

I take to much joy in their replies after a 'no thank you'!

If their just going to copy and paste their messages, I'm going to wind them up a gooden 😃

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By *xonman53Man
3 weeks ago

Thame

Polite thanks for replying then move on.... 😁

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