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By *aramelChocolatecouple OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Surrey

What are your opinions on them?! I would not date someone 10+ years younger than me, but is it OK to play with someone quite a bit younger? Lowest I've gone is 10 years younger. Not sure whether I'd go younger than that. Do you subscribe to the healthy rule of half your age, plus 7 as the minimum age, even if it is just playing and not a relationship?

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By *litlicker77Man
4 weeks ago

dirty old town

That’s a new rule on me never herd that before

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By *xfordjohnMan
4 weeks ago

Oxford

I hadn't heard of it but seems to work quite well when you to get to my age. I wouldn't expect anyone under 50 to be very interested in me.

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By *aryportmeatMan
4 weeks ago

Whitehaven

I’ve done 14 years older

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By *hutters99Man
4 weeks ago

Wakefield

I’ve done 40 years older. Age gaps make it more fun because it’s feels naughtier. Kinda like you shouldn’t be doing it but it feels good

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By *idden gemMan
4 weeks ago

sale

Age is just a number age gape there's no such thing fun is what matters

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By *aramelChocolatecouple OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

Surrey

Is it different rules for just playing? I guess I am wondering if it is ok to just have fun with someone who is much younger/older when I wouldn't have considered a relationship with a big age gap. Am I being hypocritical. Or should I chill the f**k out 🤣

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By *ympho6969Woman
4 weeks ago

glasgow

My last serious relationship had a huge age gap, so I avoid them now.

I was 19, he was 45. Though I was so mature.

Now I don't go more than 7 years.

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By *ellhungvweMan
4 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I don’t have _any_ issues with age gaps. If someone is an adult then I am fine with it and I don’t see why people should judge at all.

That said, I prefer women in their 40s and onwards but that’s only because I think they are in their sexual prime - they are more comfortable with what they want and don’t mind asking for it.

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By *end1Man
4 weeks ago

southend on sea

Met a 27 year old woman who was 8 months pregnant last Christmas from fab. Also have 2 children from relationships both 20+ years younger than myself. Had a couple more one night stands with younger women with a good 25 years younger.

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By *unseekers24Couple
4 weeks ago

stockport

We play with guys 25 and over xx

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Chichester

If an adult and attracted them crack on. It’s just sex at end of day

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I have a real age fetish for horny older ladies.

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By *azzler2Man
4 weeks ago

halifax

I have no age gap if you both want it go for it as long as it is legal

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By *are04Man
4 weeks ago

Letterkenny

Had several relationships with over 20 years gap, both older and younger. Attitude way more important than age.

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By *luttTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Duns

Anyone over the age of 18 and I’m game! Met plenty of men and women into their seventies

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By *unny usernameMan
4 weeks ago

Portsmouth

There was quite a considerable age gap on My very first meeting once joining this site , I was 18 and I never got her exact age but she was late fifties early sixties

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I have no issues with age as long as they are over 18 then ok, my girlfriend on the other hand won't play with anyone under 40 there is a 20 year gap between us.

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By *urry BlokeMan
4 weeks ago

I don't understand why age gaps are such a contentious and much discussed issue on Fab

I am in one, with a considerable gap

We are both adults

It's healthy

It's open

It just works

The only people that seem bothered by it are onlookers who, to be frank, it has absolutely nothing to do with

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Well said

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By *eyeYCouple
4 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Attraction is attraction for us, D is 10 years older than I and initially it was a little bit of a concern.

But as you can guess 5 years later it is not.

Play wise we'd prefer 30ish upwards, but have had a lot of fun with younger and they/we have no problem with it..

All about the person 😘

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By *SMystiqueTV/TS
4 weeks ago

NYB

I love it. My go to porn tends to be big age gap. It's such a turn on to see

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By *oober698Man
4 weeks ago

Lincoln

Age gaps are just numbers, as long as play is of legal age and consenting it should not matter.

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By *mma and ChrisCouple
4 weeks ago

Greater Manchester

Tbh I don’t look at age -so long as they legal of course lol ! If I like look/sound of them and they happy with me I am good. Afterall I am not having a relationship with them and vice versa of course. It’s purely sex -is that harsh ?

Em x

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By *ddfellowMan
3 weeks ago

Newferry, wirral

as long as you are both adults and attracted to each other who cares, its just sex not a relationship, and even if it WAS DOES IT MATTER.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
3 weeks ago

Coventry

Personally absolutely no problem with big age gaps, good love is good love. However where I do have concern is when one is very young, especially say 18-early 20s. Take a 20 year age gap for example. I see a huge difference between a practically adolescent 18 year old dating a fully mature 38 year old than a 38 year old dating a 58 year old. The gap is the same in years but difference is massive. So I definitely see something often problematic and predatory about mature adults chasing barely legal almost adolescents. Because there's a real unevenness in the power dynamic and the brain doesn't really mature till around the mid 20s.

I say all the above with the following caveat. Although I believe in most cases an age gap couple with one very young is iffy and exploitative I'm also happy to concede on occasion some are good and healthy. I'd never want to stand in the way of something good. However life experience has taught me the majority of times it's not healthy and often exploitative and predatory of that person's youth and lack of life experience.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I've always been attracted to older men and if anything, under the correct circumstances, it can be extremely beneficial for both involved x

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By *aramelChocolatecouple OP   Couple
3 weeks ago

Surrey


"Personally absolutely no problem with big age gaps, good love is good love. However where I do have concern is when one is very young, especially say 18-early 20s. Take a 20 year age gap for example. I see a huge difference between a practically adolescent 18 year old dating a fully mature 38 year old than a 38 year old dating a 58 year old. The gap is the same in years but difference is massive. So I definitely see something often problematic and predatory about mature adults chasing barely legal almost adolescents. Because there's a real unevenness in the power dynamic and the brain doesn't really mature till around the mid 20s.

I say all the above with the following caveat. Although I believe in most cases an age gap couple with one very young is iffy and exploitative I'm also happy to concede on occasion some are good and healthy. I'd never want to stand in the way of something good. However life experience has taught me the majority of times it's not healthy and often exploitative and predatory of that person's youth and lack of life experience.

Mr"

Really agree with this.

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By *unincornwallMan
3 weeks ago

launceston

Love to pleasure a lady much older than myself. Xx

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