FabSwingers.com forum: Not looking for single guys

By *eo Bills OP Man
3 days ago

Westcliff On Sea

Can someone please explain to me when couples put Not Looking Of Single guys! Then are all over your profile page? It clearly shows that I’m a single man looking to play with other singles and couples! Or they say “Single guys we will find you “ like we are all going to come running when they click their fingers. I don’t always meet people just because they have offered to meet up! I have to find them attractive as well or am I the only one???

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
3 days ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Chill. Have a biscuit.

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By *outhDublinMan86Man
3 days ago

shankill

It’s nothing that deep dude

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By *iker JackMan
3 days ago

Wolverhampton

How do you know it’s a single guy. Maybe it’s part of a couple they’ve met

But, more importantly, it’s all about personal choice. Maybe right now they are not looking for single guys but have previously and may not again

Don’t worry about what people aren’t looking for and look at those that match your likes

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By *enelope2UWoman
3 days ago

Fife

They just mean THEY will be the ones to contact you, and ONCE or IF they contact you and YOU are equally interested then..on to the next stage...

Not that complicated to grasp

With the out of _____,____,______

"single" "guys" on here that's generally the best way to attempt to establish some basic simplicities.

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By *orquemadaMan
3 days ago

glasgow

"Chill. Have a biscuit. "

The original tagine for KitKat i believe.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
3 days ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"Chill. Have a biscuit.

The original tagine for KitKat i believe."

I thought it was ‘I can make 4 biscuits out of one! Let’s start a cult

I could be wrong

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By *aomilatteCouple
3 days ago

Midlands

We're open to meeting a guy occasionally. We have a filter on because we really can't be doing with all the messages, sorry.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
3 days ago

Portstewart

Could be anything from a comment you added to a thread there watching or there just being nosy lol. Everyone gets views from people they might not want to connect with and it's all good or there too shy to connect with you

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
3 days ago

Carlisle usually

Not looking for single guys is a simple checkbox that helps reduce unwanted mail from unwanted males.

I'm not looking for men currently. When I am, I tick that not looking box. Because then I have time and space to browse and see who catches my eye instead of constantly sending no thanks replies.

Saying we will find you isn't saying they expect everyone they contact to jump at the chance. It's just saying they don't want the endless ocean of penii in their inbox and would rather seek what appeals to them. If it's not mutual it's not rude or uncommon to just say no thanks.

Chill bro 💜

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By *endalshaggersCouple
3 days ago

Lake District

It's very simple: they do not want to meet single guys at present. How is that hard to grasp!?!

Yes it may look a bit contradictory if their profile is littered with photos of the Mrs with a different man, but they could be old photos from previous meets for example.

Having your inbox open to single males can be absolutely unrelenting. The amount of messages you recieve can be overwhelming. Most do not/can not read your profile and are messaging using their cocks instead of their brains. Therefore, couples who block single males and say "we will look for you when we want one" means they can do just that, and control who they like to look of and decide to message/allow to reply instead of having to try separating the wheat from the chaff.

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By *emptme1993Man
3 days ago

manchester

Let’s be honest, most single guys will come running when a couple click their fingers if the couple tick the right boxes for them (talking from my own perspective as well)

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By *ony MannMan
3 days ago

Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Andover

"Can someone please explain to me when couples put Not Looking Of Single guys! Then are all over your profile page? It clearly shows that I’m a single man looking to play with other singles and couples! Or they say “Single guys we will find you “ like we are all going to come running when they click their fingers. I don’t always meet people just because they have offered to meet up! I have to find them attractive as well or am I the only one???

Couples and women can find men when they want to, but it may not be you.....or me. That's fab

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By *naswingdressWoman
3 days ago

Manchester (she/her)

If you turn the filter on that stops single guys from messaging you, it shows up on your profile as "not looking for single guys".

They might be wanting to meet you or someone like you, they just don't want to have their inbox wide open.

Also, people look at your profile for many reasons. From "I need a piece of that" to "I accidentally clicked it while trying not to lose my phone down the bog"

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By *ilk_and_SilverCouple
3 days ago

Oxford

We enabled the "allow messages from single guys" filter for a forum topic one night.

Forgetting to disable it, literally inbox of 30+ messages from single guys in a day. Quickly disabled it and back to a few messages a day/week!!

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By *oelMan
3 days ago

Midlands, London, Brussels

"Chill. Have a biscuit. "

Nom nom nom

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By *eyeYCouple
3 days ago

Nr Leicester

Market forces? Simple supply and demand..

Open the filter for guys and your inbox fills tenfold with one liner's and illiterate messages..

Sorry but true

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
3 days ago

Lurgan

Were the opposite, we’re mainly looking for single guys

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By *eo Bills OP Man
3 days ago

Westcliff On Sea

"If you turn the filter on that stops single guys from messaging you, it shows up on your profile as "not looking for single guys".

They might be wanting to meet you or someone like you, they just don't want to have their inbox wide open.

Also, people look at your profile for many reasons. From "I need a piece of that" to "I accidentally clicked it while trying not to lose my phone down the bog""

I’m glad you’re on my wavelength with this question? It’s not that I’m moaning but merely asking a question!

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