FabSwingers.com forum: At the risk of reinventing the wheel

By *BB and NN OP Couple
2 days ago

York

We’ve always been nervous about clubs for various reasons, but equally can see that many thoroughly enjoy them, just don’t think they are for us.

However, we do like the idea of creating a virtual group, that everyone gets to know each other and then organise various parties at various places during the year.

Not wanting to create a paid membership or anything like that, more a group that are on the same page and share the cost of a venue.

We suspect these already exist, if so can anyone point us in the right direction?

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple
2 days ago

london

We’d be up for this. C

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By *winging_couple300Couple
2 days ago

Doncaster

Yorkshire fuck truck has a group, couples and women only that organise various meets.

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By *aughty50sCouple
2 days ago

Yorkshire - but we travel a lot

"Yorkshire fuck truck has a group, couples and women only that organise various meets."

What is this please? Not heard of that group.

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By *winging_couple300Couple
2 days ago

Doncaster

"Yorkshire fuck truck has a group, couples and women only that organise various meets.

What is this please? Not heard of that group."

It’s a couples profile

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By *BB and NN OP Couple
2 days ago

York

Just had a look and yes that sort of thing although we envisaged more of hiring luxury Airbnb style venues, not so much a truck

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By *ony MannMan
2 days ago

Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Anoover

How about hiring a boat or all going on holiday together?

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
2 days ago

furnace

Be wonderful

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By *eyond PurityCouple
2 days ago

Lincolnshire

We’d be up for joining a smaller group chat and arranging get togethers…

We’ve been to clubs and they don’t have the right vibe for us.

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By *knick45Man
2 days ago

Knowle Bristol

Would you be up for a certain amount of single guys x

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By *ea monkeyMan
2 days ago

Manchester (he/him)

There are quite a few groups like this but not on this site.

Most groups that I’ve seen check and validate new members before they join any events, which makes the events so much nicer and friendlier

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By *BB and NN OP Couple
2 days ago

York

We were thinking this would be for a group for females or cpls for Female only fun or cpls soft or full swap, but very much built around a theme for each event and starting small

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By *handlerMonicaCouple
2 days ago

Leicester

We've done an Air BnB weekend away before with 3 other couples, that was a lot of fun

Good mix of play, but also normal stuff like going out for a walk, pub lunch, and just generally chilling.

Sounds like that might be your thing OP

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By *ea monkeyMan
2 days ago

Manchester (he/him)

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By *ea monkeyMan
2 days ago

Manchester (he/him)

"We were thinking this would be for a group for females or cpls for Female only fun or cpls soft or full swap, but very much built around a theme for each event and starting small "

So a group for unicorn hunting? Most groups I’ve seen are specifically designed to prevent this kind of thing or at least to preclude couples privilege and unethical behaviour

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By *BB and NN OP Couple
2 days ago

York

What a terrible phrase “unicorn hunting”. We refer you to what we had suggested.

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By *ea monkeyMan
2 days ago

Manchester (he/him)

"What a terrible phrase “unicorn hunting”. We refer you to what we had suggested. "

Couples looking for solo women is called exactly that

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
2 days ago

North West

"What a terrible phrase “unicorn hunting”. We refer you to what we had suggested. "

And yet if it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck...

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By *over of ladiesMan
2 days ago

cannock

Definitely interested in joining your group,if you set one up.there was a group for gran Canaria in November last year for a group pub meet and then onto one of the clubs was great fun,it was set up on whatsapp I think

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By *allySlinkyWoman
2 days ago

Leeds

"We were thinking this would be for a group for females or cpls for Female only fun or cpls soft or full swap "

So to clarify, solo women could only play with women and not the men ?

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By *urvyBunnyWoman
2 days ago

Suffolk

Hopefully you manage to find what you are looking for! I don't have any suggestions myself, but as a single woman I would be put off if it was just for couples and single women. I'm sure there are plenty out there who would like that though.

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By *BB and NN OP Couple
2 days ago

York

No, we are just looking at the feasibility of putting a group together of cold and females and then down to the group to decide on a geographic location/venue and what the these of the party is.

Would stress just testing the water, just clubs are not for us and fed up of being hit on by single

Men or men pretending to be cpls. Had a one lovely private messages so far asking to pull it together.

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By *BB and NN OP Couple
2 days ago

York

"Hopefully you manage to find what you are looking for! I don't have any suggestions myself, but as a single woman I would be put off if it was just for couples and single women. I'm sure there are plenty out there who would like that though."

Absolutely, we are not saying this is for everyone or if we’d actually do it, part of our question was asking if one exists already. The closest we have found on our travels is a spa that caters for ladies and couples only.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
21 hours ago

Leeds

"There are quite a few groups like this but not on this site.

Most groups that I’ve seen check and validate new members before they join any events, which makes the events so much nicer and friendlier "

How do you find these groups ?

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By *iss DevilWoman
20 hours ago

Bedford

There are plenty of similar style groups on the instant messaging apps, I'm sure about that. As only recently I have been asked to join one. They usually stem from chat groups set up for organised socials, in my experience.

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