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"As a host you should go round and talk to people (many hosts don't) especially those stood on their own, a few games are a good idea. Personally we don't go with expectations just to sample the atmosphere and have a good time. If we don't interact with anyone we still play, just with each other." Games are always fun ... will need to put my naughty thinking cap on for a creative one or two 😏 | |||
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"I love the social side of it. The play is fun don’t get me wrong but I could go and not play, as long as I come away with some connections I’m happy. Love when there are games. I’ve been to some with speed dating. You’ll be great OP if you’re welcoming and chatty. It can be quite daunting for a lot of people but the hosts make it. ![]() I enjoy the social side so much that's why I took up the offer of hosting ... and as a relatively newbie on the club scene (but not the social scene) I'll be trying to make sure no one is getting left out 🤞 Just feel that to give people what they want it's best to ask the people 🤣 I like games and being a bit silly but that might not be everyones glass of whiskey ... so joining in on the games will of course be optional. Open to game suggestions? Remembering that we will all be dressed down for any games played 😈 | |||
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"We like a club event that's more targeted to us, i.e. older and curvier ![]() Considering I'm 50 and hosting a Night For Curvies you're more than welcome to come along 😘 | |||
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"We like a club event that's more targeted to us, i.e. older and curvier ![]() Thanks. We've not been to this club, is it wheelchair friendly please? | |||
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"We like a club event that's more targeted to us, i.e. older and curvier ![]() Afraid not 🙈 Club No3 is on second floor up a flight of stairs and no lift. | |||
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"Difficult. As catering for all is hard From our perspective there aren't enough couples only nights. However, I get the demand for events with single men. The one thing that constantly puts us off is "wanking dead" and lemming behaviour. The incessant rush to follow a couple who may look like play is about to happen..... Not sure how an event holder can mitigate that, but be good if the basic rules were enforced. Second thing is in lots of clubs the lighting is woeful-way to dark So an event with some secondary lighting in voyeurs rooms (even labelled as such) would be useful. " Hoping no wanking dead floating around and if there is any sign of them we will Rick Grimes thier asses and put a stop to 'em!! 🤣 | |||
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"We like a club event that's more targeted to us, i.e. older and curvier ![]() Bugger! Oh well, thanks for the invite anyway. Hope it goes great! ![]() | |||
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"We absolutely go for the atmosphere, they actually is a little daunting sometimes, being new to the club scene and having only experienced 1 club so far we haven't played each time we've been and only once did we do any (soft) swap. Looking forward to visiting more clubs going forward. Games sound like a great way to break the ice though. R x P.s. you'll have the best time no doubt." The great atmosphere I've received from No3 is the reason I'm hosting there ... met some great people and enjoyed a great time there and just want to pay that forward for others to come and have the same 🌹 | |||
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"As a single male who has been around for a while most importantly it’s acceptance and not to be judged to be made to feel welcome As men we know that some men get us a bad reputation but most are just normal who don’t go to clubs thinking it’s a certainty they might get there Willy wet lol sorry but nicest way I could think of putting it! I’ve been to clubs as a coupe so seen both sides " Agree with this. Not been to any clubs yet as new to the scene but am a bit put off by the apparent negativity on Fab towards single men and the broad 'couples only' bias on anything that might be remotely fun. Yes, I get there are a LOT of us out there and that some behaviours will not be ideal (!!) But I'd be more comfortable with a club that tackles this head on, with some clear, friendly guidance and expectations, plus some support and monitoring from the hosts. Kind of like a buddy system for newbies. I'm not saying the best venues don't do this, I'm sure they must do, just that it would be important to me to feel genuinely welcome and not like something that other club goers just have endure.. Which is kinda of the vibe I get from lots of these threads. | |||
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" it would be important to me to feel genuinely welcome and not like something that other club goers just have endure.. Which is kinda of the vibe I get from lots of these threads. " Solo women like me actively seek out solo men at clubs. That is why I have stopped going to couples and single women only nights | |||
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"Difficult. As catering for all is hard From our perspective there aren't enough couples only nights. However, I get the demand for events with single men. The one thing that constantly puts us off is "wanking dead" and lemming behaviour. The incessant rush to follow a couple who may look like play is about to happen..... Not sure how an event holder can mitigate that, but be good if the basic rules were enforced. Second thing is in lots of clubs the lighting is woeful-way to dark So an event with some secondary lighting in voyeurs rooms (even labelled as such) would be useful. " All really good valid points | |||
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" it would be important to me to feel genuinely welcome and not like something that other club goers just have endure…." My thoughts completely. As someone who has been to several clubs, and experienced the generic “Thanks for your money, it’s through there” too many times, it would be great to not feel like a gatecrasher at someone else’s party for a change….. ![]() | |||
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"This all sounds perfect (providing the music isn't too loud !)" Wont be ... its background music (other than when its playing for the games I have planned 🤣) I dont like having to shout to be heard when trying to have a nice conversation. | |||
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" And no phones ... unless everyone agrees " No club would ever allow phones | |||
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" And no phones ... unless everyone agrees No club would ever allow phones" No reputable club Private house parities are different.. but the same rule should apply | |||
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"Looking forward to hearing when and where your event will take place " 'Mell's Night for Curvies' at Club No3, Chorley. Friday 21st March. 8:30pm till 1:30am 😍 | |||
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"A good mix of people To chat and flirt with A mix of open and private spaces that want to play And no phones ... unless everyone agrees " Club No3 has all this ... and just like to reiterate NO PHONES!! ![]() | |||
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"If we are going to a club we would be expecting some play. Full swap be that separate rooms or the same. A good selection of soft drinks behind the bar. Dressed down atmosphere as it's more relaxing. We would not expect is to have music blaring so loud you can't talk. " For anyone interested who can't make my event my bestie friend on the scene Thejuggernaut86 also hosts events at this club and its heavy play with lots of fun and fuckery ... attending his events is what got me hooked on the swinging club scene as it's always such a great and naughty night. The Gov's Night of Madness, Saturday 12th April. Club No3, Chorley. 8:30pm till 1:30am. | |||
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"A good time, but that doesn't necessarily equate to sex ![]() | |||
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"This all sounds perfect (providing the music isn't too loud !)" Yes ensure music is quiet enough for people to socialise. | |||
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"A good time, but that doesn't necessarily equate to sex ![]() Agree with this 😁 | |||
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"Really proud of you putting this out to people. Your going to be a excellent co host going forward and a great addition to the no3 club team ❤️" Thank you that means a lot 🥰 | |||
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"For us it would be making sure noise in the dungeon area is kept to a minimum and people are encouraged to wait until a scene finishes before trying to have a chat with us. We probably aren’t your typical guests though. Would also encourage wristbands….colour coded. Red …. Don’t approach Amber …. Happy for a chat (no promises) Green … here to partaaaaay, if you fancy me/us come chat. Also seen pickup benches used to good effect." Not a bad shout 🤔 | |||
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"Hot tub, jacuzzi, chat and single guys in that order" Do love a hot tub... going to try Partners in March and it has hot tub 😜 | |||
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"For us it would be making sure noise in the dungeon area is kept to a minimum and people are encouraged to wait until a scene finishes before trying to have a chat with us. We probably aren’t your typical guests though. Would also encourage wristbands….colour coded. Red …. Don’t approach Amber …. Happy for a chat (no promises) Green … here to partaaaaay, if you fancy me/us come chat. Also seen pickup benches used to good effect." Maybe extend to dynamics as well Purple - looking for couples Orange - looking for single guys Yellow - looking for single girls S | |||
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"For us it would be making sure noise in the dungeon area is kept to a minimum and people are encouraged to wait until a scene finishes before trying to have a chat with us. We probably aren’t your typical guests though. Would also encourage wristbands….colour coded. Red …. Don’t approach Amber …. Happy for a chat (no promises) Green … here to partaaaaay, if you fancy me/us come chat. Also seen pickup benches used to good effect. Maybe extend to dynamics as well Purple - looking for couples Orange - looking for single guys Yellow - looking for single girls S" All looks like a good idea | |||
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"For us it would be making sure noise in the dungeon area is kept to a minimum and people are encouraged to wait until a scene finishes before trying to have a chat with us. We probably aren’t your typical guests though. Would also encourage wristbands….colour coded. Red …. Don’t approach Amber …. Happy for a chat (no promises) Green … here to partaaaaay, if you fancy me/us come chat. Also seen pickup benches used to good effect. Maybe extend to dynamics as well Purple - looking for couples Orange - looking for single guys Yellow - looking for single girls S" We done this similar once at no3 We called it traffic light night 😜 | |||
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"We love a curves event, and go to them regularly elsewhere. We can’t make this one, but hopefully we can make the next one you do." Hope so!! The more the merrier 😁 | |||
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