FabSwingers.com forum: Has fabs gone down hill ?

Halifax

Has this site gone to shit? Couples and single women I've messaged have said to me they are finding it near on impossible to get genuine meets these days on here. Who is having trouble getting meets?

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By *attood_hotwifeWoman
7 days ago

City Centre

100% so many ppl that are on here for the fantasy or think it's sex on tap

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
7 days ago

furnace

Yes

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By *et and WillingCouple
7 days ago

Nuneaton

No. Depends on your expectations on here. Some think you just message someone and they are knocking on your door.

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By *xcalibur77Man
7 days ago

Adlington chorley

Was better 15 years or so ago . Seemed to go worse in my opinion since fabbing pics came in ,

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By *JB1954Man
7 days ago

Reading

"Was better 15 years or so ago . Seemed to go worse in my opinion since fabbing pics came in ,"

Been on off Fab for number years. My opinion is years ago only way to be on Fab was desktop , laptop computer. Since mobile smart phones and Fab app. Loads more found . Especially males thinking instant sex?

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By *dc1Man
7 days ago

essex and all over the south

As a person thats been on fab for over 10 years i see way way to many time wasters. Loads join on a saturday and leave on a sunday when they sober up. In the mean time they send stupid messages to people and wind them up. I agree with a message on here. A smart phone hasnt helped the situation.

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By *ympho6969Woman
7 days ago

glasgow

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By *ympho6969Woman
7 days ago

glasgow

Yes. I go though spells of being on here, realising it's not any better and taking a break.

Here's my notes on first message:

Hey

Faf

Copy and paste messages

Very descriptive messages in disturbing details

For those that are original and I reply to:

90% only want access to friends only pics for wank bank material.

can't carry a convo at all.

say something off and it just creeps me out or turns me off.

ghost unless its after 11pm.

meet and no connection/ghost before meet.

say they want regular fun and ghost after a sex without verifying.

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By *ucka39Man
7 days ago

Newcastle

I wouldn't say fab has gone downhill but maybe people changed loads 😂 it goes through a cycle

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By *ant...stay...awayCouple
7 days ago

South Wales

"Yes. I go though spells of being on here, realising it's not any better and taking a break.

Here's my notes on first message:

Hey

Faf

Copy and paste messages

Very descriptive messages in disturbing details

For those that are original and I reply to:

90% only want access to friends only pics for wank bank material.

can't carry a convo at all.

say something off and it just creeps me out or turns me off.

ghost unless its after 11pm.

meet and no connection/ghost before meet.

say they want regular fun and ghost after a sex without verifying.

Absolutely all the above are red flags.

Despite them all, Fab life remains great fun.

It's not gone to shit - it's simply that 99% of the 40,000 people online at any one time are fantasists and only on for a perv or a wank.

It's not tinder.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
7 days ago

London

"Yes. I go though spells of being on here, realising it's not any better and taking a break.

Here are my notes on first message:

Hey

Faf

Copy and paste messages

Very descriptive messages in disturbing details

For those that are original and I reply to:

90% only want access to friends only pics for wank bank material.

Can't carry a convo at all.

say something off and it just creeps me out or turns me off.

ghost unless its after 11pm.

meet and no connection/ghost before meeting.

say they want regular fun and ghost after a sex without verifying.

This ☝️

At least, a verified pic should be mandatory to sign in.

So many teens pretending to be young, so many old men pretending to be a beefy 30-year-old guy. I have been stood up so many times, always from men too old or too young to confess it face to face. Also, I have been ghosted after building trust enough to open my friend album to them. There is a Wanker Dead Army ready fir anything in order to get a nude.

But the good memories of amazing meetings with lovely people I can call friends always prevail

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By *enatton2Couple
7 days ago

West Midlands

We don’t meet that often and tend to be spontaneous but we’ve never been let down, the site always seems to provide the entertainment we need, whether that’s a laugh in the forums, a scan through the hot pics or playmate available for fun. Maybe we’re just lucky but we think this site is great

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By *oiluvfunMan
6 days ago

Penrith

Fab is only as ‘good’ as the people using it.

Managing expectations of what the site can bring you, will help

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