FabSwingers.com forum: Getting Recognised

By *issy4kink OP TV/TS
7 days ago

Leeds

I like to think I'm pretty unrecognisable when I dress up and do my makeup, yet I've have two friends tell me they have "stumbled across my fab profile"

Anybody else have stories about being recognised on here?

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By *ixieridesagainWoman
7 days ago

manchester

Been recognised a few times, some message me here when they realise. But I’ve also had it a couple of times in person at work and while out. Can’t say I don’t like it though 🤣

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By *ertcoupleCouple
7 days ago

Hatfield

Been recognized a couple of times. Doesn't bother me or hubby x

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
7 days ago

rochdale

An old friend told me they'd seen my profile on here, my reply was "so what are you doing on here?"

Doesn't bother me, since then a few have reached out on here to say we know each other, I'm fine with it so far.

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By *luebell888Woman
7 days ago

Glasgowish

My next door neighbour messaged me on here one night and asked if I wanted to pop in for a drink

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By *heshireguy69Man
7 days ago

saddleworth

"My next door neighbour messaged me on here one night and asked if I wanted to pop in for a drink

And did you ?

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By *luebell888Woman
7 days ago

Glasgowish

"My next door neighbour messaged me on here one night and asked if I wanted to pop in for a drink

And did you ?

No chance.

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
7 days ago

Scarborogh

"I like to think I'm pretty unrecognisable when I dress up and do my makeup, yet I've have two friends tell me they have "stumbled across my fab profile"

Anybody else have stories about being recognised on here? "

Often people recognise a possible likeness that can then be confirmed by the regular distance away and/or the individual’s tattoos. If you’re fine with it then no problem. If you are likely to be upset at being spotted then there are alterations you can make to your photos or profile to help protect your identity.

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By *issy4kink OP TV/TS
7 days ago

Leeds

If you’re fine with it then no problem. If you are likely to be upset at being spotted then there are alterations you can make to your photos or profile to help protect your identity. "

Good advice! I'm absolutely ok with it for now. They're on here for the same reasons I am :p

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
7 days ago

manchester

I often get: where do I know you from? Or: I am sure I know you. I usually say I just have one of those faces

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By *ympho6969Woman
7 days ago

glasgow

i seem to have an uncanny ability to find people I work with on here. Thankfully all discrete, even chat to 2 of them regularly.

Then there was one incident where a cousin messaged me. Didn't know til swapping face pics. Instant block. Nope nope nope.

Personally I've never been recognised that I know of.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
6 days ago

Bolton

I think I've been recognised a couple of times x once by a couple who knew my Wife and another by an ex work colleague

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By *tuvyMan
6 days ago

bedford

Spotted a couple from here in a local pub

Messaged them and saw them talk about it a few tables away

Sent a face pic and had a great time

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By *reen as JadeCouple
6 days ago

Cheshire

Once or twice x just as long as they don't say anything about this I don't mind x

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By *bitofaslutTV/TS
6 days ago

Cannock

I had someone recognise me. We got chatting and hooked up lol

Should get more people recognising me as I go to a swingers club semi regularly and want the in person verifications that have eluded me so far lol

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By *hestercpl4funCouple
6 days ago

chester

We were spotted in one of our local pubs , the couple mailed us the next day to ask if it was us and we confirmed it was , turns out we share a few drinking spots with them so no doubt will bump into them very soon

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By *itSurreyCoupleCouple
6 days ago

Reigate

Once on the train, we chatted on here but haven’t seen her since.

Apart from that, never.

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By *ollingStone91Man
6 days ago

Croydon

I’ve recognised a handful of people but never said anything. Waiting to see if anyone spots me lol

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple
6 days ago

Leicester

Mr here and as far as I know we haven’t been recognised but if another couple did recognise me then I might give them a discount where I work.x

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By *ature SpiceCouple
6 days ago

Ramsbottom

We have seen people we know in clubs and one guy on here said he thought he knew us but we put him off and blocked him. He always stares at us when we see him out.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
6 days ago

Stourbridge

I’ve said this before but my former partner and I were in Chameleons in Darleston she was on the swing and I was fucking her when I got a tap in the shoulder , I turned round to find a former colleague from work. He shook my hand and started talking about work, I just responded as if we were meeting for business reasons. I suppose it’s just learned behaviour. Never heard anything about it

Surreal at the time.

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
6 days ago

Telford

People have messaged telling me they saw me walking my dogs which I always find a little strange ha.

I have had one person fully come up to me in Asda I simply said that's nice and walked off.

I would never approach someone in public out of the blue or message them to say I had seen them.

I think it's a little weird but my face is public so I I can't really complain

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By *andA123Couple
6 days ago

cannock

As far as I know we haven’t been yet but I mr A don’t mind if we do as I love knowing people watch us when we play in chat room or in a play room

Mr. A

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By *he naughty pairCouple
6 days ago

Bicester

Only once I think. We were in a popular Swedish furniture shop and I see a couple looking over at us with grins on their faces talking quite animated to each other and pointing over at us. When they see me look the male half nodded at me after about 5 minutes I realised where I knew their faces from. That was quite fun.

I think being recognised isn't that bad, it's just when people approach and say something inappropriate when your with family or friends.

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By *ettpairCouple
6 days ago

Kettering

Been recognised a couple of times and seen one or two couples....if anyone knows us just say hi

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By *ein-guyMan
6 days ago

Cowes

Yep. My first profile and had to delete it and have a bit of time away due to my job and the sort of 'threats' that were made to expose me. Lesson learnt!!!

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By *sj75Couple
6 days ago

castleford

A few times. Goes with the territory

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By *ndreacdxxxxTV/TS
6 days ago

Derby

Oh my goodness this actually happened unexpectedly just before lockdown in a random unplanned meet in a public lay-by at night

I was fully dressed en femme as well and even more spooky was I was 2 hrs from home but I thought I recognised his voice, it was dark but as soon as he spoke, but he didn’t recognise me as it was dark and hopefully I was quite convincing

It’s was a amazing experience, I’ll tell more if I get chance

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By *host63Man
6 days ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Been recognised a few times, some message me here when they realise. But I’ve also had it a couple of times in person at work and while out. Can’t say I don’t like it though 🤣"

There is always a chance it may happen. My view is that if they saw me on here they have not got much to say against me have they?

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By *oughmanMan
6 days ago

Sunderland

I'm lucky. I'm pretty forgettable and average looking. Plus, I don't give a shit. Not like I have reputation to ruin myself. Even if I did recognise someone I wouldn't say I did openly. A lot of people like to be discrete and I can respect that.

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By *ayfantasiserMan
6 days ago

Nottingham/Derby

I recognised a MF couple from here while shopping in Derby before Christmas. Never actually met them through Fab but they’re always VERY popular on photos/videos (even as recently as today!). It was like spotting a celebrity couple!

Obviously didn’t say anything, just minded my own business but had a wry smile on my face around HMV…!

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By *ustus5555Woman
6 days ago

Mansfield

Not on here. But bumped into ppl we know in clubs. Not really an issue to us.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
6 days ago

1127 walnut avenue

No one has ever said anything to me..but if they did I'd probably ask them what they were doing looking at trannies in the first place 😸

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By *enelope2UWoman
6 days ago

Fife

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By *enelope2UWoman
6 days ago

Fife

Pretty easy when there's no others... I just expect a person to be mature about it.. those who have recognised me unfortunately haven't been

But it's a UK thing..lack of understanding reality and fantasy and that some people don't need to create a fake alternative of the two, and they are actually the same in typing as they are in person.

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By *uds1Couple
6 days ago

lanark

We were by a guy that drinks in our local pub

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By *tickler2000Man
6 days ago

St Agnes

I have recognised a few on here

Even a family member.

Not said anything.

Never going to meet in a fab way. So not point spoiling their chance of fun.

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By *ondiego85Man
6 days ago

nottingham

Recognised the female part of a couple that was quite popular in the cam rooms (now no longer a couple and left fabs) and I’m pretty sure I’ve seen a local couple in a car park, just as I was turning off my car they were getting in theirs. Shame that they blocked single males

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By *ondiego85Man
6 days ago

nottingham

"Oh my goodness this actually happened unexpectedly just before lockdown in a random unplanned meet in a public lay-by at night

It’s was a amazing experience, I’ll tell more if I get chance"

This needs more details

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By *enatton2Couple
6 days ago

West Midlands

We’ve been recognised once, we denied it and moved on. Seen him many times since and he’s never mentioned it. I think he knows though

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By *ere2help82Man
6 days ago

Bromsgrove

I was recognised by a couple in a bar in Dublin, they spoke to me. Unfortunately it was only afterwards that I checked my messages and realised they had recognised me off fab.

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By *ftRugbylad86Man
6 days ago

Chesterfield

I was travelling round for a couple off weeks in hotels/Airbnb and caravans. On 3 sites I stopped at I got recognised and messaged after driving past! I did like it!

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By *ixenandStag69Couple
6 days ago

Derbyshire

As far as we're aware we haven't been recognised, if we are we'd rather people message us and let us know at least we'd have something in common to chat about lol

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By *ike_looking_forMan
6 days ago

Cumbria

not recognised anyone so far or been spotted but might be fun

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By *xstaceyxxTV/TS
6 days ago

longeaton,ng10

Wouldn't bother me to be honest, I'd say I hope you fabbed my pics.

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By *isitingbiMan
6 days ago

London

Not anyone I know on here. But have bumped into the male half of a couple I met dogging in a pub (saw each other in the pub - not dogging there!) And also saw his wife at an event a few months later. Both times we gave each other a happy smile, knowing look and left it at that. If I recognised someone, depending on how I knew them, I might message them on here. But would totally leave them be in public.

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By *erdyGuy4UMan
6 days ago

Not been recognised but have recognised a few people on here but wouldn’t dare to message it just feels very bad out

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By *ndreacdxxxxTV/TS
6 days ago

Derby

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By *ndreacdxxxxTV/TS
6 days ago

Derby

"Oh my goodness this actually happened unexpectedly just before lockdown in a random unplanned meet in a public lay-by at night

It’s was a amazing experience, I’ll tell more if I get chance"

Totally respect all the views and comments about “well if you are recognised then why are they on here as wel”

My only issue is, I’m obviously complete dressed up all en femme lady like secretarial style xx

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By *bitofaslutTV/TS
6 days ago

Cannock

" some people don't need to create a fake alternative of the two, and they are actually the same in typing as they are in person."

That's me. WYSIWYG.

What's the point trying to be someone I'm not? It's hard enough trying to be someone I thought I'd never get to be.

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By *ornyperv100Man
6 days ago

Tunbridge wells

One of my wifes friends recognised us when we had a couples profile. She told my wife in person about finding us.

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By *otley72Man
6 days ago

WATFORD

"My next door neighbour messaged me on here one night and asked if I wanted to pop in for a drink

I have to say I really cannot blame him, I would be very happy if you were my neighbour 😁😁😁

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By *rthur WrightusMan
6 days ago

Round the Bend

I was having a meal in a local pub with two of my adult children and divorced ex wife, all quite tense with small talk. Unknown to me a couple who I had played with a few times at a club forty miles away were seated behind me. They messaged afterwards fortunately to say they were going to say hi but could see

things were not good with my ex. Could have been explosive.

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
5 days ago

newcastle

Yes by tattoos and I'm lying next to him now with hubby next room xxx

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By *B11Man
5 days ago

Burnley

Yes and recognised at family member

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By *alfback09Man
5 days ago

Peterboro

My wife was recognized twice on our old couples profile it led to a lot of fun

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
5 days ago

rochdale

"I was having a meal in a local pub with two of my adult children and divorced ex wife, all quite tense with small talk. Unknown to me a couple who I had played with a few times at a club forty miles away were seated behind me. They messaged afterwards fortunately to say they were going to say hi but could see

things were not good with my ex. Could have been explosive. "

Nice that they had the sense to stay away though.

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By *elboy1978Man
5 days ago

Jarrow

I haven’t been recognised

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By *ammy696969Woman
5 days ago

Stockport

Oh yes

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By *arwenCoupleCouple
5 days ago

North West

Not happened yet but could either be really hot or a complete nightmare. No middle ground

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By *23RouteCouple
5 days ago

Huddersfield

A couple of times , one nice lad we already knew (my brothers mate !) and the other one who knew us but we didn’t know him right well was a bit of a sod unfortunately .

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By *outhWalesSwingersCouple
5 days ago

South East Wales

We’ve bumped into a few people in Chams, very surprising lol x

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By *dwalu2Couple
5 days ago

Bristol

We’ve met people we know at the Bristol Social. Some were surprising, others much less so!

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