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By *leasureSeekersSayHi OP Couple
5 weeks ago

Livingston

Is it hotter kissing passionately during sex with a couple Mrs.

Or no kissing and just smashing her pussy.

What's better?

If no kissing was a rule would you mind?

Or is it very important

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By *orny mids guyMan
5 weeks ago

Market Harborough

Kissing a must… Major part of the turn on for me !

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By *herrybakewellCouple
5 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Kissing is such an important part for us.

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By *orkshirefunguyMan
5 weeks ago

Dewsbury

Really important. Turns me on so much and gets me so hard.

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By *teve691000Man
5 weeks ago

West Midlands

Love kissing, but happy to follow boundaries of other couples

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
5 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

For us we only kiss each other on the mouth but everywhere else is fine. Personally I (Mrs) prefer to get smashed doggy style

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Might be me but “smashing a pussy” probably not my style. Kissing throughout definitely is….lol

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By *ushrangerMan
5 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Kissing, especially when I'm getting close.

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
5 weeks ago

furnace

Kissing is. A very sensual and intimate act so very important to me

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By *enelope2UWoman
5 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

I don't kiss or fuck randoms.. if there's not an established sexual situation it's oral or fingers only..I kiss and fuck and have unrestricted access for FWB/fuck buddies/play partners..the rest won't get that level of access to me

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If I don't want to kiss someone then I definitely don't want to fuck them 💜

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By *nebworthMan
5 weeks ago

Knebworth

"Is it hotter kissing passionately during sex with a couple Mrs.

Or no kissing and just smashing her pussy.

What's better?

If no kissing was a rule would you mind?

Or is it very important

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Met a male/female to play with both. The three of us were in the bedroom, just about to start playing, she popped out to the loo. I reached out to feel his cock through his boxers, when he told me that under no circumstances was I to kiss his girlfriend. It was really disappointing. Meeting a couple to play with both a few years’ later where it was kissing all round was so much nicer.

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By *itty N CremeCouple
5 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

Has to be kissing involved for us

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By *immyboyxxMan
5 weeks ago

london

Defo kissing

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By *rLicksMan
5 weeks ago

Worcester

Absolutely kissing!

I ask before making plans now as got caught out on a meet once, went on for a kiss and she turned her head and said we don’t kiss… instantly made the encounter feel awkward and almost robotic.

I understand some don’t, I’m not going to shame or bash them for their own preferences but one thing always makes me pause in confusion when I hear “kissing is too intimate” but then having someone else’s cock inside you isn’t? Again - each to their own.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
5 weeks ago

East Sussex

We neither kiss nor indulge in 'pussy smashing'. There are a great many alternatives available to both activities

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By *upersonic SamMan
5 weeks ago

wigan

No kissing then no play, I'm not desperate enough to change that. Kissing is intimacy, intimacy is a big part of great sex.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
5 weeks ago

East Sussex

Oh and it's on our profile about kissing we didn't feel 'no pussy smashing ' was necessary

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By *ewtfaceMan
5 weeks ago

Bracknell

Without the kissing, something is missing! I like it ~ but understand why some people wouldn't so tend to go by their preferences.

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By *ucka39Man
5 weeks ago

Newcastle

Kissing does add to the sexual stimulation but last time I smashed anything

it made me feel dizzy for a moment

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By *esmdMan
5 weeks ago

Woodhall Spa

Kissing it has to be.

Especially when cumming

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By *issmorganWoman
5 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldn't meet someone who didn't kiss, it wouldn't feel good for me, it's all part of the build up.

I can understand why some couples keep it for themselves, but even when meeting couples with my partner, we love to kiss.

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By *aughty2yorksCouple
5 weeks ago

Leeds

Has to be kissing for us, would hate a meet without it

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By *anonfire96Man
5 weeks ago

Mansfield

Got to kiss.

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By *ony MannMan
5 weeks ago

Lagos, Portugal// Andover

Sex is more than smashing a fussy, kissing is fab, exploring mouth with a tongue and pussy with fingers and cock is much better than just hammering away. Would i turn a lady down who said no kissing, probably not. If I kissed five, but could only duck one, it would be the best kisser.

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By *elaxing2Couple
5 weeks ago

Manchester

Has to be kissing for us hate none x

Lucy xx

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By *otwifeHusband888Couple
5 weeks ago

Within touching distance

Definitely lots of kissing

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By *eretorockMan
5 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Definitely more of a turn on kissing especially a guys mrs

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By *oupleLookingToExploreCouple
5 weeks ago

Liverpool

When we first joined this and went to our first club we made a rule about no kissing. Only FF. I didn't know how I'd (female) feel about seeing him kiss another woman. Anyway... I wanted to know how it made me feel and dared him to kiss someone on a different club night. Fair to say- I loved it. So yeah, kissing a must for us. Although I do understand why others wouldn't want to. Also do love getting fucked from behind but after the kissing 💋

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By *uxurycollectionCouple
5 weeks ago

Port Talbot

Yes, kissing someone new is a massive turn on

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
5 weeks ago

Oldham

Passion starts with a kiss, I could only fuck someone I wanted to kiss.

If someone told me they don’t want to kiss me then I wouldn’t see the point in continuing taking off my belt.

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By *pearmint RhinoCouple
5 weeks ago

Leeds

Kissing is a must.

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By *inx000Couple
5 weeks ago

Manchester

Kissing is an absolute must and adds to the pleasure,excitement and intimacy.

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By *ynamicnatureMan
5 weeks ago

Doncaster

Kissing from head to toe and back again, it's so bloody hot🔥🫦

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By *ortyairCouple
5 weeks ago

Wallasey

If you are not going to stick your tongue in my mouth then you aren't popping your doodah in my foofee, Mrs x

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By *ouple 31Couple
5 weeks ago

south England

Sounds strange but seeing Mrs kissing another person felt strange initialy, but got over it quickly as kissing is all part of it, male and female

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By *uxurycollectionCouple
5 weeks ago

Port Talbot

"If you are not going to stick your tongue in my mouth then you aren't popping your doodah in my foofee, Mrs x"

😂😂

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By *adeiteWoman
5 weeks ago

Stafford

I enjoy kissing but if they aren't into it that's ok too

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By *uxurycollectionCouple
5 weeks ago

Port Talbot

"Sounds strange but seeing Mrs kissing another person felt strange initialy, but got over it quickly as kissing is all part of it, male and female

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Seeing Mrs having a full on kissing session with another girl drives me insane. (In a good way, obviously)

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
5 weeks ago

Stockport

Definitely a must for usx

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
5 weeks ago

Didsbury

Kissing is my litmus test for chemistry. No chemistry, no sex.

Sex without chemistry leaves me feeling hollow afterwards.

I’d rather have a wank.

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By *ustamanMan
5 weeks ago

weymouth

I'd feel something was missing, kissing for me is a massive part of sex and eroticism

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By *ustAnotherMan
5 weeks ago

Mids

Absolutely yes. Feels totally disconnected without

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By *omRachCouple
5 weeks ago

Wirral

Kissing is very much required.

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
5 weeks ago

Didsbury

"If you are not going to stick your tongue in my mouth then you aren't popping your doodah in my foofee, Mrs x

😂😂"

Was your sex ed taught by a Carry On cast member?

😁

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By *8warrenMan
5 weeks ago

.

Definitely kissing , have to and love kissing

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By *andSxxCouple
5 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Kissing is a must. "

Kissing is like water and air to us. We can't do without it.💋

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

If done right then kissing is a must. Its a huge turn on and gets me even hornier

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By *emonochromeMan
5 weeks ago

Pboro

Kissing always!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Chichester

Not really worried either way with casual meets

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By *idsAndyMan
5 weeks ago

Worcestershire

Each to their own but I adore kissing, so definitely kissing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"If I don't want to kiss someone then I definitely don't want to fuck them 💜"

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By *oxy RedWoman
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

Kissing is a must! Without it....There is no Round Two for me. X

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By *bflirtyCouple
5 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

When we started swinging we didn’t used to kiss others but soon realised it’s and integral part of making the connection so, yeah, definitely kissing.

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
5 weeks ago

Lurgan

We used to have no kissing as a boundary, then one meet we decided it would be ok to try it and see, so C kissed the fella…so so sexy for her and for me to watch. Needless to say that boundary is no longer for us

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By *wingAway79Couple
5 weeks ago

Surrey

Kissing yes

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By *aloma PicassoWoman
5 weeks ago

Waterford city

For me kissing is possibly more intimate than sex

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By *ertcoupleCouple
5 weeks ago

Hatfield

We like kissing but if they don't want too it's fine x

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By *hongmanMan
5 weeks ago

Nearby

Kissing is massive it's such a turn on

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By *ony MannMan
5 weeks ago

Lagos, Portugal// Andover

"We used to have no kissing as a boundary, then one meet we decided it would be ok to try it and see, so C kissed the fella…so so sexy for her and for me to watch. Needless to say that boundary is no longer for us "

Boundaries move, as long as all agree.

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By *quirtma57erMan
5 weeks ago

middlesbrough

kissing is very intimate and sexual - bounderies are very important ,but no kissing is like no foreplay no social , may as well to a brothel

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By *orthern StarsCouple
5 weeks ago

Durham

Has to be kissing. If we aren't good enough for you to share a kiss with then like hell are we good enough for you to fuck.

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By *rJandMrsJCouple
5 weeks ago

Hyde

If it was a rule I'd abide by it for sure. We're nothing but respectful of people's wishes.

If there was a preference, kissing would be part of it. It's much more passionate.

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By *xJust4fun22Couple
5 weeks ago

Cambridge

Kissing and eye contact is a massive turn on for us

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By *uffsandkinkCouple
5 weeks ago

leeds

Kissing is a big part of the fun

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By *itSurreyCoupleCouple
5 weeks ago

Reigate

No kissing no fun.

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By *ohn8210tCouple
5 weeks ago

Warwick

I love kissing Fiona whilst she is being serviced by another friend doggie or missionary.

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By *pslad99Man
5 weeks ago

colchester

Defo kissing it’s way better

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By *ocketman81Man
5 weeks ago

Ennis

There definitely has to be kissing, amd lots of it

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By *am882Man
5 weeks ago

Northampton

Always kissing. I like to be intimate and kiss every part of the body

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By *aveonMan
5 weeks ago

Dartford

Love kissing as well

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By *irthmasterCoolMan
5 weeks ago

Leeds

Definitely kiss

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By *rust a TradieMan
5 weeks ago

staffs

Kissing is essential. Massive turn on for me

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By *Silver-Man
5 weeks ago

mold

Kissing

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By *he StrokesCouple
5 weeks ago

Kilkenny

Absolutely kissing 😋

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By *oroMale41Man
5 weeks ago

Stockton on tees

No kissing for us, everything else pretty much goes

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By *eroLondonMan
5 weeks ago

Mayfair

I find the very concept of not kissing during sex totally alien to me. Does this genuinely even happen?

Sex without kissing would feel hollow and empty.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Can't even imagine not kissing during sex, it's a massive part of it.

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By *elboy1978Man
5 weeks ago

Jarrow

Love kissing but go with the people involved

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By *tuvyMan
5 weeks ago

bedford

Kissing before during and after

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By *iss KinkWoman
5 weeks ago

North West

Love kissing

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By *ee And MikeCouple
5 weeks ago

Cannock

It’s all part of the cuckold scenario for us when the guy/bull kisses her !

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By *r_Midnight2000Man
5 weeks ago

home

Kissing definitely

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By *aomilatteCouple
5 weeks ago

Midlands

Kissing and no kissing. We struggling kissing while doing doggy or spooning.

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By *reekNyouMan
5 weeks ago

London

A hot passionate kiss sets the tone for a very filthy session

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By *s2walesCouple
5 weeks ago

Gwent...

Kissing is a must, it's part of the build up for us xx

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By *sj75Couple
5 weeks ago

castleford

Has to be kissing

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By *ongAndThick123Man
5 weeks ago

Taunton

Believe it or not, I’ve only ever kissed one person that I’ve met from fab (and I’ve been on and off here for years).

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By *ifewantstoplayCouple
5 weeks ago

somewhere

Love kissing

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By *aughtynorthern1Man
5 weeks ago

Carlisle

Love some kissing during sex. It's particularly hot when cumming and it being an extra layer of intensity.

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By *mbisextrousCouple
5 weeks ago

Manchester/Glossop

Has to be kissing for us

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
5 weeks ago

The north east

Absolutely has to be kissing. Won’t meet people who don’t kiss. No judgement for those who don’t kiss but it’s important for me to be turned on.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Bedford

I don't mind a no, but I personally love kissing, light n sensuous and hard n passionate all good to me.

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By *lueeyedbrunetteWoman
5 weeks ago

Wirral

Kissing whilst being fucked slow and deep is the best feeling ever

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By *avidandann6901Couple
5 weeks ago

Dublin

"Love kissing

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Same here

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By *each needs some creamWoman
5 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I don't understand why couples have a no kissing rule, if it's something you enjoy why are you denying yourself the pleasure.

It odd to me that you arrange a meeting, then try to sabotage it so you don't enjoy it fully.

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By *amie2020Man
5 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I agree with most that kissing is a must and part of the sexual session, unless of course it's stipulated before the meet....each to their own. For me, slow sensous kissing and passionately is the icing on a cake.

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By *big9Man
5 weeks ago

shire

I'm happy to go with the flow and if it's gonna happen, it will happen

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By *r-bond-DMan
5 weeks ago

Wallasey

100% kissing or it's pointless meeting

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By *irty_little_blondeWoman
5 weeks ago

your bed

Kissing!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Got to kiss it's slightly awkward when you don't. In my opinion amyway

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
5 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Kissing for definite.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Seems like kissing has it! So pleased about that….

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By *j69funCouple
5 weeks ago

kildare

Oh there has to b kissing to make a proper connection

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By *INKYLOVE69Couple
5 weeks ago

funky town

Defihitly kissing and lots of it

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By *ature SpiceCouple
5 weeks ago

Ramsbottom

Oh it a yes from us

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By *ount905Man
5 weeks ago

luton

it's not a deal breaker for me but I do find it so much better and makes the meet more complete and more passionate

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By *andb69Couple
5 weeks ago

leeds

This question comes up on a weekly basis. My answer is always the same: For me kissing a man is reserved for a romantic attachment and romance has no part in swinging for me. Kissing women is different though because, although I'm bisexual, I don't feel romantic with other women. In fact I really enjoy kissing other women.

To all the guys on this thread who say kissing is essential all I can say is that in over a decade I've never had one single complaint about me not kissing, and most men come back or ask to come back for another session.

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By *33ukMan
5 weeks ago

fareham

Yeah some kissing esp neck and chest stomach.. Fun to do I guess not everyone's into it though.

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By *eckard25Man
5 weeks ago

North West Durham

Never not kissed a woman I was having sex with. Not going to say it's essential but might feel a bit strange to me not kissing, don't know until I've tried it I suppose.

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