FabSwingers.com forum: most unlucky couple on fab

By *othic lovers OP Couple
6 weeks ago

LEEDS

well its offical we are fabs most unlucky couple . been on years and just cant seem to get any meets with couples. and its not for trying. we think our profile is one of the better ones on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

That’s very hard to believe after looking at your profile

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By *ighlander-n-KittyCouple
6 weeks ago

Here and There

We are coming Leeds next weekend to go to Quest, could maybe see you guys there ☺️ x

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By *ny1localMan
6 weeks ago

READING

"well its offical we are fabs most unlucky couple . been on years and just cant seem to get any meets with couples. and its not for trying. we think our profile is one of the better ones on here.

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maybe like me you're choosy, and I don't think that's a bad thing..maybe get yourselves off to a club somewhere, and see if you can connect with a couple.

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
6 weeks ago

Didsbury

WTAF?

I thought couples had it easy on here.

Your profile is good and you’re not munters. It’s not even like you have niche tastes.

Yep you really must be that unlucky, it’s the only logical explanation.

Cursed. 😁

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By *herrybakewellCouple
6 weeks ago

Staffordshire

People think it's easy for couples, but it really isn't.

You may get more messages, but finding a 4 way attraction is very difficult.

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By *tsMattyHMan
6 weeks ago

Inverurie

Well you learn something new everyday.

I honestly thought it was maybe easier for couples but as has been said, a 4 way attraction is hard.

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By *othic lovers OP Couple
6 weeks ago

LEEDS

your so right its hard. tried clubs just the same there. 90percent of the time we just end up fucking on our own.

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By *YNSEYLEE12Couple
6 weeks ago

lincolnshire, tattershall

"well its offical we are fabs most unlucky couple . been on years and just cant seem to get any meets with couples. and its not for trying. we think our profile is one of the better ones on here.

Same for us to be honest messers and fakes is unbelievable

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
6 weeks ago

Durham

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By *itSurreyCoupleCouple
6 weeks ago

Reigate

Wow, you guys look great. 100% would meet.

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
6 weeks ago

Durham

"People think it's easy for couples, but it really isn't.

You may get more messages, but finding a 4 way attraction is very difficult. "

This. It's maybe 1 in 20 where we both have an attraction to a couple, and it works the other way too in that both halves of other couples aren't both attracted to us at probably the same ratio.

And if 1 of us isn't 100% sold on the idea then it's a No from us both. It's actually harder as a couple than it is as a single a lot of the time.

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By *othic lovers OP Couple
6 weeks ago

LEEDS

"Wow, you guys look great. 100% would meet. "

you better get on the trainthen. see you soon. if only lol

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By *eyond PurityCouple
6 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Finding a 4 way attraction is the hardest thing.

Then trying to get all 4 chatting and it’s why we don’t meet any couples.

A lot of couples don’t have pics of the guy or if they do it’s just his cock.

Then trying to get something in the diary where everyone is available.

We can chat to single women easier than a couple.

We thought couples would be the easiest but they are our nemesis too.

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
6 weeks ago

Didsbury

I’m only just appreciating how lucky I’ve been to successfully plan a foursome on here.

This is an eye opener.

It makes sense, the more of you, the more likely someone is taking one for the team.

Couples looking for singles must find it much more easy.

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By *akeyou1Man
6 weeks ago

sutton

"People think it's easy for couples, but it really isn't.

You may get more messages, but finding a 4 way attraction is very difficult. "

If ever your looking for a 3 way atttaction I’m

Your man

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By *orthern StarsCouple
6 weeks ago

Durham

We agree with you in that it's really not easy.

We do find it easier going to clubs and socials and meeting face to face, but even then finding the 4 way attraction isn't always the easiest.

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By *oubleTrouble666Couple
6 weeks ago

Hampshire

We we're stood up by a couple tonight

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
6 weeks ago

Didsbury

"We we're stood up by a couple tonight

This never gets easy. Did they let you know or just ghost you and no show?

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
6 weeks ago

newcastle

We found it's better me chatting than my hubby and I choose. But I only pick single males. Hubby is not allowed. But works for us xx

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
6 weeks ago

Didsbury

Where you live must be a factor. Here in Manchester there are hundreds of couples within a few miles. Yesterday I was visiting my mum in Staffordshire. There was one couple local online and the next nearest was 11 miles away.

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By *andPextraCouple
6 weeks ago

North West

We've been on a little over a year. Compared to how we THOUGHT it would be to how it ACTUALLY is, is miles apart.

It's much more hard work to accomplish a successful match up than we envisaged.

Factoring in schedules, attraction, timewasters, fake profiles, distance etc etc all makes it difficult.

Still, at least I'm not a single man

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
6 weeks ago

Bristol

As others have said 4 way attraction is tricky.

We've chatted to a lot of people on fab ahead of heading to the same club nights only to get there and spot each other but not actually talking on the night. Either they aren't for us or we aren't for them. Or sometimes it's turned out that one half of the couple does the fabmin and the other half hasn't even seen the initial messages and pics.

Meets away from clubs have been even harder and there's a lot of timewasters. I would say we've had more luck with singles for private meets and then couples at clubs.

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By *issmorganWoman
6 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Have you tried any socials op

I'm half a couple and we find it hard to meet couples, just relying on fab.

As others said, getting attraction between all people isn't easy, then factor in availability too.

If people aren't all free for a good while conversations can taper out.

We've made more connections with other couples at socials, than here.

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By *lthomasMan
5 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"We've been on a little over a year. Compared to how we THOUGHT it would be to how it ACTUALLY is, is miles apart.

It's much more hard work to accomplish a successful match up than we envisaged.

Factoring in schedules, attraction, timewasters, fake profiles, distance etc etc all makes it difficult.

Still, at least I'm not a single man

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I think this is why some single guys prefer club meets.

You get the face to face interaction and get to see the physical and the personality of the people you’re speaking to. And if there is a spark it’s easy to take it forward rather than making arrangements & things falling through, or more normally I find the couple go quiet or just if the grid.

Just last week I had a couple who I’d chatted to for two days and arrange to meet, asked me to head over close to where they were for 8:30 and would give me the exact address then.

They appear online but didn’t return any of my messages after I said I’m where you told me to be. It’s just part of what I’ve accepted as being a single guy on here.

Have played as a couple, and it really isn’t as easy as you think, unless as a couple you’re only looking for single guys, then it becomes easier

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By *anWoman555Couple
5 weeks ago

birmingham

I mean tbh it’s pretty much the same for us. I mean we’re not ready to meet couples yet and only trying to meet women at the moment, not necessarily to meet up with just even to chat and get to know to start with, but no luck. I don’t think we’re the best but also not the worst either (not trying to disrespect anyone). We’re just trying to take baby steps but it seems impossible lol. Also you guys are hot so why you’re having trouble is beyond me

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By *eo BillsMan
5 weeks ago

Westcliff On Sea

"well its offical we are fabs most unlucky couple . been on years and just cant seem to get any meets with couples. and its not for trying. we think our profile is one of the better ones on here.

I find that hard to believe! It’s much more easier for couples than say a single man, as couples are always looking for other couples over single men! Think single women have the best deal?

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By *ellhungvweMan
5 weeks ago

Cheltenham

In my experience couples often struggle as there has to be a four way attraction and that is pretty rare. That’s why most couples usually end up just looking for a single guy for the Mrs.

As to the profile - it is not for you it is for other people and if it isn’t getting the responses you want then it isn’t as good as you think it is.

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By *ornycougaWoman
5 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"In my experience couples often struggle as there has to be a four way attraction and that is pretty rare. That’s why most couples usually end up just looking for a single guy for the Mrs.

As to the profile - it is not for you it is for other people and if it isn’t getting the responses you want then it isn’t as good as you think it is. "

This. Maybe consider your target audience

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By *oubleTrouble666Couple
5 weeks ago

Hampshire

"We we're stood up by a couple tonight

This never gets easy. Did they let you know or just ghost you and no show?"

No show, ghosted and blocked!

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By *harAndBryCouple
5 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Couples really don't have it easy....we had 60% no shows last year (mostly single guys) and finding couples that Char finds both halves of attractive is difficult. We're a bit lucky in that we don't have to consider me much as I rarely play, but more than two people fancying each other isn't easy.

Then add on availability of four people, the huge number of couples profiles that are just guys, then the couples that only want to meet in clubs, then geography.

Finally, there's the confidence issue....we find couples on here we like and we HotList then and then we never get the courage to actually message them

(Bry)

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By *erbys_coupleCouple
5 weeks ago

Derby

Definitely not as straight forward for couples as people might think. Whether it’s attraction or personality, easy for things not to work out.

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By *jnkjnCouple
5 weeks ago

Shropshire

We're the same really don't think it's you you look great, more the site as a whole too many dreamers and timewasters now

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By *eroLondonMan
5 weeks ago

Mayfair

Bookmarking this. 🩶

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By *lan157Man
5 weeks ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

We had lots of issues finding suitable couples when I was playing regularly with a then girlfriend. Mainly the 4 way attraction and the lack of woman to woman contact when requested.It was much easier finding single men on fab to meet up with.

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By *isexualrugbyguyMan
5 weeks ago

Cardiff

Hard for singles? Try being a single male! 😂

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
5 weeks ago

Durham

"Hard for singles? Try being a single male! 😂"

I was on here as a single M before we got together. Despite how difficult it can be as a man on Fab at times.....it was still waaaaay easier to get meets than it is to find a 4-way attraction when meeting couples

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By *obnFluffyCouple
5 weeks ago

Chester

"People think it's easy for couples, but it really isn't.

You may get more messages, but finding a 4 way attraction is very difficult. "

We agree with this, and the other similar posts….to us, all four people in two couples have to get on…you have to be happy to see your partner with at least one of the others, and hence like them….

Even harder if there’s some other factor…such as both straight (were an endangered species !!).

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By *am882Man
5 weeks ago

Northampton

I would definitely meet you

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By *am882Man
5 weeks ago

Northampton

"well its offical we are fabs most unlucky couple . been on years and just cant seem to get any meets with couples. and its not for trying. we think our profile is one of the better ones on here.

Message me if you would be interested in meeting

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By *ay2naughtyCouple
5 weeks ago

penrith

We agree with most comments on here , it becomes even harder as you get to the older end of the search.

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