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By *randMrs2008 OP   Couple
6 weeks ago

Dartford

We’ve been members of this site for years now but rarely seem to get past the talking stage with anyone.

Where are we going wrong?

Is there such a thing as being too specific in what you are looking for or is it off putting that we can’t meet at short notice?

Any advice welcome.

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By *hoenix_1Man
6 weeks ago

richmond

For me as you say uou have been on fab years and never met anyone, that's unheard of for a couple, so some will be thinking fake or timewasters.

Get yourselves verified, go to a Social

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By *heNaughtyTwosomeCouple
6 weeks ago

Kent

Have you guys ever thought about visiting a club ? ☺

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By *randMrs2008 OP   Couple
6 weeks ago

Dartford


"For me as you say uou have been on fab years and never met anyone, that's unheard of for a couple, so some will be thinking fake or timewasters.

Get yourselves verified, go to a Social "

We definitely need to get verified, the few meets we have had we actually forgot to get them to do this. We have been looking for socials to attend too.

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By *randMrs2008 OP   Couple
6 weeks ago

Dartford


"Have you guys ever thought about visiting a club ? ☺"

We have spoken about attending a club and are looking for one locally

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By *heNaughtyTwosomeCouple
6 weeks ago

Kent


"Have you guys ever thought about visiting a club ? ☺

We have spoken about attending a club and are looking for one locally "

Honestly easiest way to get verified and meet like minded people, even if you don't play always good to socialise with others 😁

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By *heNaughtyTwosomeCouple
6 weeks ago

Kent

Just noticed you guys are in Dartford so probably Pleasures or penthouse playrooms are closest to you

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By *randMrs2008 OP   Couple
6 weeks ago

Dartford


"Have you guys ever thought about visiting a club ? ☺

We have spoken about attending a club and are looking for one locally

Honestly easiest way to get verified and meet like minded people, even if you don't play always good to socialise with others 😁"

Have you got any recommendations of clubs in or near Kent?

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By *heNaughtyTwosomeCouple
6 weeks ago

Kent

As i said above they are probably your best bets, but there's also eurekas and silverleighs

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By *arah272Woman
6 weeks ago

Glasgow

I feel like this with dating lol honestly - it’s a minefield and I’m a very likeable girl !

I think people can be all full of the chat and get off on it but when it comes to it bottle it for the meet. I have found going to social events /parties and clubs better ways of meeting genuine swingers who I have ended up playing with regular . It is annoying but there are gems on here too x

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By *heNaughtyTwosomeCouple
6 weeks ago

Kent


"I feel like this with dating lol honestly - it’s a minefield and I’m a very likeable girl !

I think people can be all full of the chat and get off on it but when it comes to it bottle it for the meet. I have found going to social events /parties and clubs better ways of meeting genuine swingers who I have ended up playing with regular . It is annoying but there are gems on here too x"

This 👏👏👏👏

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By *issmorganWoman
6 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi, you not being veririfed may put some couples off.

There are people on here who pretend to be couples, I'm not saying thats you BTW,but people may be wary.

Also you are looking for some specific things and that's cool, but it may well limit your chances here. There are definitely couples who want to ff play with partners watching, but not sure how many want the same with 2 males playing, but they will exist.

As you've already had suggested, try a club, maybe on a Bi night.

I'm half a couple and it's hard for most couples, getting that 4 way attraction then the availability too.

If you're not all free at the same time for a while, the chat can easily taper off.. Good luck

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