FabSwingers.com forum: Couples starting out

By *ogolonga OP Man
1 week ago

watford

Always interested me to find out if there’s a common ground or if everyone’s different but…

Men- why did you agree/ instigate to let your wife start playing with others?

Woman - why did you decide you wanted to start playing with others?

I personally don’t like to share but thoroughly enjoy sharing someone else’. No judgement just intrigue

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By *lik and PaulCouple
1 week ago

cahoots

I didn't instigate anything and don't own Flik so it's not a matter of letting her as she has her own mind.

I've always been open about being a swinger so a while after we met Flik became interested in the lifestyle and it went from there.

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By *ast Lothian couple 888Couple
1 week ago

east lothian

For us it’s just adding a bit of fun we both love each other so what’s the harm in a bit fun right now we’re only interested in meeting another couple for same room sex without swapping.

Will it go any further not sure we’ll see how it goes

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By *WANDTGCouple
1 week ago

Borough of Greenwich

Your last paragraph is exactly why we only meet couples, also why we prefer to go with couples nearer our own age. I think there's less insecurities.

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By *WANDTGCouple
1 week ago

Borough of Greenwich

"Your last paragraph is exactly why we only meet couples, also why we prefer to go with couples nearer our own age. I think there's less insecurities. "

Obviously this is regarding the OPs initial comments.

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By *ogolonga OP Man
1 week ago

watford

Sorry if it’s come across wrong guys obviously you don’t own your partner, but thank you for sharing

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By *ogolonga OP Man
1 week ago

watford

It’s not the fact of insecurities it’s more to do with I don’t get any thrill from thinking of my partner with another man but do get a thrill of thinking of her with another woman and I also get a thrill from sharing someone else’s wife, just seeing if anyone else relates

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By *lik and PaulCouple
1 week ago

cahoots

"It’s not the fact of insecurities it’s more to do with I don’t get any thrill from thinking of my partner with another man but do get a thrill of thinking of her with another woman and I also get a thrill from sharing someone else’s wife, just seeing if anyone else relates "

Just because you don't get a thrill from your partner being with another man doesn't mean she wouldn't enjoy it.

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By *ogolonga OP Man
1 week ago

watford

Thanks for the feedback guys hope you have a lot of fun in your journey

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By *ogolonga OP Man
1 week ago

watford

Totally agree but personally that wouldn’t work for me suppose that’s my selfish side? this was all hypothetical right now because currently single also not counting a partner as fwb

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By *andaloriansCouple
7 days ago

Malvern

C likes ladies too. It started like that and i found i liked watching her have fun. Not in a cuck way, im just a perv lol. Now its evolved into a lot more!

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By *unny usernameMan
7 days ago

Portsmouth

I actually met my girlfriend here on fab, we matched on a hinge first and were chatting and then a day or so later, I messaged a lady on here and had attached a face pic of mine and she revealed who she was

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By *riendlyFunSeekersCouple
7 days ago

Gloucester

The fact you see a woman as a possession and don't see that they too share their husband just as their husband shares their wife is a massive red flag.

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